Always Anal

A blog for the sexually enlightened

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14 Anal Sex Questions You Don't Dare To Ask - SHE'SAID'

Anal sex is no longer a filthy guilty pleasure - it's a whole new way to have fun in the bedroom. And we know you've got some burning questions.

“Contrary to popular belief, guys aren’t the only ones who are ass-obsessed. Look, like we said before: there are a lot of nerve endings back there. It feels good; that’s just biology. Sure, your anus is tighter than your vagina, which is going to blow your man’s mind. But anal sex is also an extremely intimate act that can actually bring you and your partner closer together.“

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Putting the past behind us...

I hardly think about my girls pussy now. Mostly we are anal now which is where I’ve wanted to be for a long long time. Sure, we still have vaginal sex from time to time, but that’s been about 2 weeks since the last time already.

Even better than that is that she doesn’t care either, she’s getting off from the attention I give to her ass. That means more in the world to me than she’ll ever know. This is more and more driven by her and that deserves huge respect as most women are very closed minded and think there’s only one way to do things.

I’m not even sad about the idea of never having her pussy again when that day comes. That’s the old way. And not even the best.

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That’s the kind of woman you want to marry. Adventurous and open minded. Recognizes that there is much more to her femininity and sexual attractiveness than a vagina. A woman who will accept her man for what he is, that he is not abnormal (in fact completely normal)  and is trying to guide her to an even stronger and happier relationship. A woman who knows that the best things sometimes do involve a little effort, persistence or minor discomfort.

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How To Give Your Woman An Anal Orgasm

Is an anal orgasm really possible? You bet it is! And it can be extremely pleasurable! Discover how to give your woman one of the most amazing orgasm of her life... An anal orgasm!

“After your woman has agreed on trying anal sex, you both have taken all the precautions, and the initial stage where she gets uncomfortable has passed...It’s time to give her one of the most amazing orgasm of her life!... An anal-orgasm! ;)“

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“Over the years since, based on what she’s continued to focus upon when she shares her private adventures with me, I can report for certain that she is a true anal sex lover...way way way more than she’s ever given me a play-by-play about what happens in her front. To me, it’s pretty clear that means she gets more excitement and satisfaction from anal intercourse.“

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Hi how are you?My name is Tathy and I'm Brazilian. I just got to know your blog and I'm enjoying it. I believe we have the same sexual tastes. I'm only anal 6 months ago and I'm loving the experience. Actually I've always been in love with anal, since I was 13 when I gave my ass for the first time and I felt a much greater pleasure.I'm also looking for denial of clitoris and for 3 months I do not use it nor to masturbate alone. It is difficult, at times, to confess. But it has been very good,

Hello tathy. Thanks for sharing. I agree with everything you said. It is difficult being in clit denial but I feel that enhances the experience. Well done. Keep it up and feel free to share some of your experiments and experiences

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I find it interesting how many women are showing a strong desire for denial of their clitoris. I’m wondering if this is a manifestation of several different phenomenon, something women are being influenced by, something experimental, or even some women taking an interest in exploring their more submissive side. Or should I say, women getting back to their submissive side.

Does it take a particular type of woman? What kind of character? I’m curious.

There is no doubt that this is highly appealing to many men who practice anal with their partners as A) we want them to be enjoying the act of anal as much as us and with us, and B) it does boost the ego when a woman orgasms directly from the anal penetration alone.

Having said all of that, whilst I would personally encourage it, I hope that women are seeing it as an expected or necessary part of the anal only lifestyle. To all women out there: denial is great if you want it, not if you are feeling forced to do so. It can unlock a lot of sexual pleasure for you and is gratifying for your man, but isn’t for everyone, and while something you should try if you find you can’t orgasm without your clitoris don’t persist!

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The 5 Rules of Anal Play for Women

If you want to try anal sex but don't know where to start, this is a perfect introduction

“Anal sex gets a bad reputation for a few different reasons. The main reason is that anal sex is often portrayed in porn as a power-dynamic with the woman being submissive to the man's desires.

There is so much "It hurts," "It's gross," "You're a slut," or "I only do it to please my man" dialogue. Unfortunately, anal sex isn't something that women openly admit to trying, never mind openly admit to enjoying.

Well, you have to forget all of that. A one-sided representation of anal sex has made its way into society and stuck. There are so many benefits of anal sex - including the possibility of intense pleasure. It is also a great way to target your G-spot (in certain positions like doggy style). The power-dynamic is not necessarily a submissive one (although if you enjoy being submissive, this can work for you). The woman is often in control. And, while you might have been told that anal sex is anti-feminist, there is nothing more feminist than taking control of your own pleasure.”

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I'm sure it does feel great, it's the culmination of what you've wanted for years now. Whether your cunt is closed literally or just metaphorically closed to any further use, one thing is true: it has no more purpose and it's time to fully embrace your anal only future. You're going to absolutely love it and you know it. If only we could all be so lucky.

Most definitely; my vagina is a thing of the past. Even if @babyllx isn’t going to come sew it up (no matter what @inductionofautosadism2 says, neither she nor I are lions).

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Anal only!

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EP124: Anal Sex | Elizabeth Morris | The Intimate Lifestyle

“Elizabeth is a self-acclaimed anal sex fan and describes that it is more physically and mentally pleasurable and fulfilling when done right.“

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Your Most Awkward Sex Questions Answered

Can't get certain sex questions off your mind? We spoke to the experts to sieve the standard from the weird on www.womenshealthmag.co.uk

IS IT NORMAL THAT I PREFER ANAL TO VAGINAL SEX?

TOTALLY NORMAL

Bum fun may have the rep as a sexual treat you only offer up on birthdays and anniversaries but, while just less than half of women have had anal sex, orgasm rates are actually higher for women who indulge in a little anal play than those who have straightforward vaginal sex.

'The area is actually anatomically configured for mind-blowing orgasms, so if you’ve experienced that, there’s no surprise you want to go back for more’ says sexologist Jessica O'Reilly.

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The V-Spot: Help! My Boyfriend Hates My Vagina

"We have a great sex life and we’re totally in love ... but he (literally) never goes down on me."

“Q: We have a great sex life and we’re totally in love! He doesn’t seem to have much of an interest in my vagina — and my vagina, in my mind, is kinda the main thing that makes me a female sexual being. He likes my breasts and loves my butt, but he (literally) never goes down on me and I get the feeling that he only fingers me because he knows I like it, not because he does. He also prefers anal sex to vaginal sex.

A: As a firm believer in the spectrum of human experience, I don’t believe that your boyfriend’s lack of interest in your vagina “makes him” gay. He can definitely identify as straight and just honestly not like your vagina that much. Or he can be attracted to you, but just not like that kind of sex. “

Sounds like a normal male to me.

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How Anal Are You? — Kim Anami

Anal play opens you when you feel emotionally and energetically stuck. It can help you to relax and let go of all the things you hold onto.

“A lot of tension gets stored in the ass—physically and energetically.By opening up the area, we are forcing ourselves to relax and to let go deep within ourselves. Gently prying, relaxing and penetration can be just what we need to access the inaccessible.You are practicing the art of letting go.Being penetrated, in an area as sensitive as the ass, incrementally opens you. On all levels of your being. It teaches you how to relax and surrender. And fall into the unknown.

Anal play can be practiced in men and women. Both sexes can have anally-induced orgasms.

Some women climax even harder through anal sex than through vaginal.

Very few people ever talk about why: it’s cathartic and transformative.”

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A history of anal sex

According to Pornhub data, anal is the third most commonly searched term in the UK. A case of wanting what you can’t have?

Anal is the new pussy

“...the entire region is interconnected by genitospinal nerves which trigger orgasm. One of them, the pelvic nerve, transmits signals from the rectum in both sexes. Anecdotal evidence show that women have have reported earth-shattering orgasms from anal sex.“

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Anal sex was a taboo practice, it was something they fantasized about or experimented with in their own bedrooms. Learn more about different anal sex tips here.

Anal sex provides a completely different set of feelings during orgasms for both partners. Not only are the pleasurable sensations different, anal sex can also help enhance a couple’s sense of intimacy.

Some couples are turning to anal sex as an alternative to vaginal penetration. This can be due to a number of reasons, including health conditions.

Over 36% of women recently reported having anal sex at least once, and this increase can also be caused by society’s general acceptance that sexual intercourse is meant to be enjoyed. It is not an act to be performed only for procreation. 

With more couples willing to experiment with new sexual positions, anal sex has become less of a taboo subject and more of a normal and healthy sexual relationship. Over 44% of all heterosexual men admitted to engaging in anal sex.

Anal sex is as natural as vaginal intercourse. It is simply a different way for couples to give and experience pleasure.

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Do men like anal sex over vaginal sex?

Hey Guys, I have a question for you that...

“I use to wonder the same thing about men inquiring (at some point) if a female has done anal, liked it or will let them in the rear!? I was an absolutely NOT type gal, and starting telling men that'd ask/beg for me to try it that if I could stick a dildo in theirs first I would let them..... never any takers. LOL. Then, a friend of mine said it's the best orgasm you'll ever have via anal. Naturally I said she's nuts, cuz how's that possible an ass has nothing to do with your vagina. Needless to say, one day I agreed to try it....and WOW! It is such an intense orgasm“

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An apprehensive reader asks:

“My husband and I really enjoy anal sex. I need a lot of foreplay, and it always kind of hurts at first, but once we get going, it feels really good and makes me climax. I have two questions for you, though. The first is, why does this feel good and give me orgasms? I don’t get the anatomy of this. It seems to me there is nothing in there that should feel this good. Secondly, what are the long-term effects of anal sex? My husband would have it all the time if I let him, but I try to keep it to once a month due to the fact that it takes a lot of time to warm me up and sometimes I’m just not into the initial pain involved. I’m also afraid that, if we do it too frequently, the long-term effects could be negative.“

Part of the problem not addressed in the article is that the reason it can hurt at first is because she isn’t having enough anal - once a month simply isn’t frequent enough to get the anus in physical condition for sex.

Still, the response gets it right in one respect:

“When it comes to anal sex, you’ve got several feel-good nerves working for you, including the pelvic nerve running to the rectum and the pudendal nerve to the muscles surrounding the anus. So your orgasms back there are perfectly — and anatomically — normal.“

The author of the article goes on to list only two possible long term effects. One of them, rough sex, is only temporarily inconvenient, while the other, anal cancer from HPV, is just as likely with vaginal sex and isn’t unique to anal.

They finish with:

“But there’s no reason to deny yourselves the pleasures of the back door. Being able to orgasm in different ways is an anatomical perk. Enjoy it.“