You have to realize this:
You canât control the people you end up loving. You canât change their past, you canât dictate their future, and you can never know whatâs truly in their mind. You have to let them go in this sense. There are certain things you have no say over and this is one of them. Itâs either they love you - or they donât. Itâs either they do right by you - or they end up hurting you. But do you know what you can control? Your self security, your self-love, your belief that whatever happens, however badly they hurt you, it is never and will never be your fault. You are more than good enough, capable enough, deserving enough to be loved for you who you are, to be treated kindly, to be made special. When you love yourself, when you know your worth - this is when you are totally, completely in control.