Who’s more dominant: tbh they’re pretty equal but they both take over when they think the other isn’t taking care of himself properly
Who’s the cuddler: himchan but they’re not super touchy in general
Who’s the big spoon/little spoon: they take turns depending on their moods
What’s their favorite non-sexual activity: yongguk likes watching himchan cook bc it makes himchan happy, himchan likes when they have a day off and they can just lie in bed together all day
Who uses all the hot water: neither bc yongguk is big on water conservation
Most trivial thing they fight over: honestly they don’t really fight over trivial things they’re both fairly levelheaded…maybe sometimes yongguk jokingly asks whether himchan loves jongup more than him and himchan just rolls his eyes fondly
Who does most of the cleaning: himchan bc he has a certain way of doing things but sometimes yongguk does it if he sees that himchan is too tired
What has a season pass on their dvr/Who controls the netflix queue: himchan lets yongguk control it even though he doesn’t necessarily love everything yongguk likes watching
Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat’s not working: himchan bc he needs his warmth
Who leaves their stuff around: yongguk is definitely messier in general
Who remembers to buy the milk: himchan bc he’s mostly in charge of everything related to the kitchen
Who remembers anniversaries: they both do but yongguk always surprises himchan with little gifts
Who cooks normally: definitely himchan
How often do they fight: they don’t really have serious fights but they’ve both struggled with self-acceptance so they sometimes have disagreements abt increasing their self-esteem (it’s all out of genuine concern for each other of course)
What do they do when they’re away from each other: yongguk tends to drown himself in making music or other work until himchan calls him to make sure he’s not doing that, himchan gets sad but tries to fill the gaps where yongguk should be (think skydive era)
Nicknames for each other: himchan calls yongguk “yonggukkie” and “bbang,” yongguk calls himchan “himchannie”
Who is more likely to pay for dinner: yongguk usually tries bc he wants to be a gentleman but himchan often beats him to it
Who steals the covers at night: himchan actually pushes the covers onto yongguk bc he knows yongguk will get cold otherwise
What would they get each other for gifts: they both pay very close attention to each other’s wants and needs so if they hear the other say they want something, they’ll buy it like,,, the next day
Who kissed who first: yongguk kissed himchan
Who made the first move: himchan confessed during one of their wine nights but yongguk didn’t think it was real bc they were both a little tipsy
Who remembers things: himchan remembers most things, yongguk tends to fixate on a few little things
Who started the relationship: himchan after yongguk kissed him
Who cusses more: himchan for sure
What would they do if the other one was hurt: himchan gets very fussy and loud and concerned and brings yongguk soup to feed him, yongguk is fussy in the opposite way and gets very quiet and doesn’t leave himchan’s side if he doesn’t have to and falls asleep holding himchan’s hand in a chair next to himchan’s bed
Who is the dirty talker: neither of them are really big on dirty talk but himchan does occasionally
A head canon: if yongguk is having a low mental health day, himchan sits with him and helps him talk through what he’s feeling and what negative emotions are plaguing him and then hold yongguk and tells him all the reasons he’s proud of him and it helps both of them (and they do the same thing when himchan is the one having a low mental health day)
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