eden 🐾

late-20's transsexual coyotegirl, occasional plushie ΘΔ

[wayfire-official]

Sex should have a secondary gameplay loop where you build bases, manage resources, and expand your territory

[flammableengineering]

polycule

[amaranthine-paws]

some outfit pics that got lost when cow-pup got nuked last fall but they're cute and i want them somewhere so here they are ! the last couple were always my favorite,, i felt like a schoolteacher hehe

[creekfiend]

its so awkward when people ask me why i dropped out and i have to be like "inadequate disability support" bc no one wants to hear this. they're always like i thought they had to provide that though isn't it the law? girl you might want to sit down i have some bad news about the litigation-based enforcement of the americans with disabilities act

then if i do say that theyre like, couldnt you sue? well theoretically maybe but not without spending more money than i have and putting myself through absolute hell. so no. no i can't.

[mabelsguidetolife]

it’s just this

[tranceykitten]

Celebrating 2 years with my lovely puppy @skrimpinatree today!!! We're going for a movie and kbbq tonight :3

[skrimpinatree]

Awrooooooooo I love you soooooo much kitty!!!

[sophie-frm-mars]

The first trans assembly influenced by my essay has happened!!!

[sophie-frm-mars]

I don't wanna downplay that the group was already looking to organise their own thing or that they're obviously the ones who've done the work of making it happen, just feeling like a proud mama

[cabysoft]

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

masturbation rule: you have to tell me

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

masturbation rule: im pretty and you should jerk off thinking about me

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

masturbation rule: you won't see the light of heaven unless you pathetically whine and plead to yourself while thinking about me

[anarcoyote]

puppies love my soft fuzzy tummy. and my fat knot.

[txttletale]

computing technology has led to a marked increase in the efficiency of productive labour performed by many workers—under socialized control of the means of production this could significantly improve the quality of life of the masses, but under capitalism it only allows the bourgeoisie to appropriate an amazing digital surplus

[tlirsgender]

As a principled feminist I'm often tempted to say shit like "are men capable of higher thought" but then I have to remember not to perpetuate gender essentialism and change it to "why do men choose not to think about anything"

[muttrott]

redog if arf auuuwuff. wuff ruff auauau

[patricia-taxxon]

the thing is, if your younger self was a bigot or an abuser, u can't make people forgive you. but you still gotta forgive yourself, like that's non-negotiable, dude. that happens before u can even ask the question of earning forgiveness from anyone lese

[patricia-taxxon]

oops, in your attempt to martyr yourself out of respect for your victims you accidentally sabotaged your own ability to conceptualize yourself as anything but a perpetual evildoer who is always one bad day away from hurting everyone you love, all but guaranteeing history to repeat itself. rookie mistake

[patricia-taxxon]

im gonna try explaining myself, cus im a gambling addict and im waiting for the day that it actually works.

"forgiveness" is personal, that's why I said in the post that you might inflict harm on people for which they can never forgive you, but that's their quest. if you abuse someone, you can't go no-contact with yourself. you actually keep living in your own head indefinitely, and ultimately you need to learn to live with yourself in order to continue living a full life without further harm. this is not necessarily an anti-carceral thought, although i am generally anti-carceral myself. I simply want people to like, fix their heart and atone for real with measured accountability & self love instead of dissociating, self-marking themselves forever and guaranteeing their recidivism.

You and a remorseful abuser would both think I'm giving the easy, coddling path. It's actually the tough pragmatic path in disguise.

[ship-of-fools]

[sexgoth]

bestie can you sink your teeth into my neck please please please please please please please please please please please please

[gatheringbones]

an apology isn’t to get you out of trouble it’s to make sure the person you wronged gets seen and the error gets acknowledged and described so that it doesn’t happens again: don’t objectify people into “Person Who Forgives You”

[gatheringbones]

forced teaming in an apology is skin-crawling to be on the receiving end of.

“I’m sorry for how we threw that baby into the lake” that was all YOU.

[gatheringbones]

it’s fun when the apology adds to the harm: like say you objectified someone and then apologize to them in a way that makes it clear that you’re objectifying them again into Person Who Forgives You. If they point out that the objectification hasn’t stopped, call them silly and order them to let it go. problem solved. apology complete.

[jan-liliten]

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penis

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Voting ended onMar 10

[beyond-a-name]

[pinkandwhitedog]

[semusepsu]

common play behavior