A Coping Mechanism!

Agere blog where I basically just repost lol

[babykithasbottle]

I wanna be held so bad.

I wanna be held and told that I'm good and lovely and that I don't deserve to be abandoned.

I wish I had a close buddy who could pick me up and soothe me.

I wish I could be upset and have them whisper "I know, it must be so hard dealing with these big tough feelings."

I want the guilt and shame of feeling to melt away.

[sillylittleouppy]

reblog to give your fictional cg a hug!

[binkypawz]

Sometimes agere is getting all your stuff ready to regress, and just sitting there doing nothing Sometimes agere is putting your stuffies, blanket, comfort items, snacks, etc., all snuggled up to you so you know they are right there if you need/want them (like a little nest) Sometimes it's learning to try again or try new things you would otherwise struggle with, knowing it's okay and being proud you were so brave

Sometimes it's grounding yourself during/after a PTSD episode, panic/anxiety attack, or scary situation. Finally slowing down and processing

Sometimes agere is letting yourself cry when you otherwise wouldn't

Sometimes it's using your toys/stuffies to act out appointments and things, so you feel more prepared for them

Sometimes agere is learning to love/care for yourself despite the way you've been treated

Agere is messy, sad/angry, happy/fun, good, bad, and all in-between. You aren't wrong for struggling, and you aren't a bad kid for having health issues or needing more than the average care. There's nothing wrong with wanting to cope (as long as you do it safely)

-- banner made by my amazing friend/caregiver 🧡

[foxxypaws]

25 days of agere moodboards; ´   ᩳ ` day 4 perfect agere day

watching my fav cartoons , playing lots of games, and having a picnic!

little yap under the cut talking abt my planned perfect day

( divider by madamesocs and middle art by buniebon )

i just wanna keep talking and get really spefific about my perfect day :^)

My caregiver would wake me up with my fav breakfast which is pancakes with ice cream, syrup and whipped cream (the greed they tell u about in the bible...)

then later after getting dressed and ready we would go out for a fun picnic! we would bring some games and my fav foods of course!! after a few hours of that i would wanna go home and just relax..

I KNOWW My day sounds boring lol!! but its perfect to me >:)

[sunnyspaw]

regressors after their cg picks out their outfit :

[shhtickerbook]

A reminder that sadly age regression as a whole is and will likely always be see as a “weird taboo” thing to others.

So dunking on other regressors for using / needing padding to feel superior or “less cringe”isn’t cool at all. Many disabled regressors also use them medically and need them, excluding and shaming those within our community isn’t okay!

there’s a big difference between having your own valid preferences and boundaries, and behaving borderline ableist and cruel towards your fellow regressors.

[bnuyboyy]

Cg venti 🍃icon

[zombiiur]

💗🫧🎀⭐MY LITTLE PONY COLOR BOOK SCANS :3⭐🎀🫧💗

[flutterpups]

thinkin abt...mornings with cg. wakin up with da sun shinning so bright, your cg holding you oh so close and givin ur back slow rubs. hearing them coo you out of slumber and kissing your forehead the moment you lock eyes with them. a "good morning, my sweetpea" in a soft tone.

bein your cg's little helper in the kitchen n making breakfast, setting the table, and finally sitting to eat. still in pajamas, big smiles on each of your faces as your cg makes a silly airplane noise till the food lands in your mouth. giving them a loud and proud "mmmm!!"

[dinos-agere-spot]

🥊💥knuckles caregiver headcanons 🥊💥

💥 He loves being silly with you within reason and has no qualms letting you dress him up or playing silly games (very partial to ones in which he gets to be a monster you defeat)

💥 He does very good to make sure you're safe though. Sure we can totally play in the river, you're taking a warm bath and putting on clean clothes after though. You can totally hold all the bugs you like and he's happy to see them but none in the pockets or mouth they need to go back to their bug families

💥 Gets in arguments with your stuffed animals/dolls if he feels like they're being unreasonable, and especially if they're being mean to you

💥 He gets really into the games the two of you play and genuinely stressed out if they play doctor he's seeing says he's got a baby crocodile in his tummy or if the play restaurant he's eating at catches fire

💥 loves teaching you fighting techniques, and having you show off what you've learned for his friends (he is very very proud of you)

💥 steals your snacks sometimes it's something he likes, like animal crackers or grapes or something, then insists that he didn't take any

💥 if the baby is sleeping everybody either needs to BE QUIET OR LEAVE. He will not tolerate anybody disturbing your nap time or god forbid bed time. His little ones needs their rest to grow up big and strong

[smokey-troll-agerecg]

IIIIIT'S TIME FOR MOVEMENT!

If you can't do em all, just do what you can 💚

All you kiddos up! Lets reach reach reach for the skyyyyy. And wiggle your fingers!

Out to the siiiides sloooooowly, wiggling our fingers all the way down til our hands rest at our sides.

Now let your arms dangle and reach for your toes, go slow and reach down as faaar as you can, stay for fifteen seconds!

Now slowly come back up.

QUICK! HEAD, SHOULDERS, KNEES AND TOES, KNEES, SHOULDERS, HEAD!

Now one more BIIIG stretch however you want.

Good job! Now let's go find something fun to play!

[banana-dogboy]

🎀 Caregiver Sylveon Things 💌

🩷 Sylveon calming down their little by wrapping their ribbons around them

💖 Sylveon finding it adorable when their little wears bows to look like them

💗 Sylveon using their ribbons to gently stroke their littles hair

💘 Sylveon knowing when their little is feeling down without saying anything by sensing their emotions

🩷 Sylveon gentling cooing their little to sleep, as their little strokes their fur

💖 Sylveon who loves playing dress up with their little and lets them be as creative as they want

💗 Sylveon who walks with their little with their ribbons wrapped around their arm to keep them calm

💘 Sylveon who loves going on picnics with their little, especially in cute flowery meadows

[smokey-troll-agerecg]

Mornin', You. 💚

I was wondering if you wanted to watch T.V with me. I have a few of my favorite shows from when I was a kid that I want to show you. They're maybe a bit older than shows like Bluey, but they're still good. You can choose which one we watch.

Note: Links are all to internet archive so that littles boycotting youtube may watch.

Little Agere Picks

Mr. Rogers Neighborhood

Blues Clues

The Big Comfy Couch (tw : clowns)

Bear in the Big Blue House

Sesame Street

Big Agere Picks

Scooby Doo Where Are You

Inspector Gadget

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

[anemoisoo]

I adore the idea of cg Xiao omg

As a little with pretty heavy anxiety the idea that I could call him whenever I need to and he would be there is so lovely. Like what if I get the scaries late at night and want to feel extra protected??? Xiao :(

[lulusbinky]

Do you have any advice on how to pick a fictional CG? I've been struggling to pick out the right character when I regress

advice on how to pick a fictional cg! ♡༅

paw print: ofc!! here are some things that can help you decide on one!! (i didn't turn this post into my typical whole tips post and layout since this post is a more short post btw!) 🐾

♡ comfort ──୨ৎ── its good to make sure a fictional cg brings you comfort ofc!! sometimes you just come across a character that makes you feel small or comforted, and they'd be a good fictional cg because of that!!

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♡ personality ──୨ৎ── try to pick one with a personality you like to be around when little! like if you prefer a character that is motherly, fatherly, like a older sibling, playful, etc!

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♡ expression ──୨ৎ── characters and people express themselves differently!! what character is expressed in a way that makes you feel small in the way you want?

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♡ fandoms ──୨ৎ── just go through characters in a fandom/community your into and search for a character that checks off those boxes! or try to explore new ones that are maybe popular within agere! (mine definitely isnt though, and yours doesn't have to be either!!)

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id also like to say that these things however dont mean a fictional cg has to be someone soft and comforting or playful etc. it can also be someone who is rebellious, more serious, a character that makes you feel like you can cry instead of feeling nice and cozy, etc. its all about preferences! just look for a character you really like that would help you regress! :3

[benniebunniesmalls]

made a nostalgic Halloween scooby doo themed moodboard! it's early for the season but im SO ready to celebrate soo

red shirt shaggy and the era right after specifically is my fictional cg so i HAD to include red shaggy images even tho its nowherr close to his most popular look <3 and those are the most halloweeny movies cuz they have the classic horror monsters <3 im like 90% sure both are from the same movie Ghoul School where he's a gym teacher and volleyball coach for the daughters of the classics <3 luv luv luv him

halloween scooby doo + shaggy for the win <3 !!!

[softpastelagere]

sometimes you see a fictional character and are hit with the urge to bottle feed them and coo to them and tuck them in tight.

and sometimes you see a fictional character and are hit with the urge for them to bottle feed you and coo to you and tuck you in tight.

and sometimes you are hit with both of these urges simultaneously for the same fictional character. and you turn them over and over in your head like a stone worn smooth by the river.

(btw it’s me buttercupagere i miss my moots :c tumblr wont answer my support requests)