(PLEASE NOTE: my messages have been disabled for some reason. So I've set up a new and identical blog, with messaging, which will also be more up to date. @ann-admirer4 . Go there! I am no longer posting or updating this blog. )
"Eroticism is one of the basic means of self-knowledge, as indispensable as poetry." (Anais Nin)
I want to explore and be explored.
I want to be an open book. I want to find the courage to be authentic about what I desire, what attracts me, what arouses me. Please open the book that is me.
This blog is about my submissive life and my bisexuality. It is for grown-ups, and contains erotic, sexual and personal content. It tries to reveal all of me - things I am proud of, things I am not proud of, and everything in between. I'm a girl who is always in flux, but I'm always the same girl. This blog is my parallel universe, where I do things that I normally don't do back in the real world.
About me: I am early 40s, northeast US. I have been in a D/s relationship for 15 years with my Man, my life partner, the most important person in my life. He keeps me whole. I am bisexual, I have girlfriends. They are not a casual thing. I can’t survive without them.
If a man ignores these realities and tries to make me his personal slut or whore, I resent it. On the other hand I welcome the sensual, sexual, and meaningful conversations that I love.
Pics: The pic above is me. It's also on my blog header. I change it from time to time. I am slowly adding a very few selective pics of me within my blog, tagged #me. That tag and others are listed below.
Asks: You can ask me anything – profound, personal, intimate, trivial, fun, sad – anything. I will find a way to answer. If it feels awkward, an anonymous Ask is a perfect option. I want to be an open book.
Hooking up: I'm not going to hook up on Tumblr. For those who already understood all this, sorry to repeat it.
Tags: Tumblr won't allow the tag "masturbation,” so I use “self-love.”
People say I’m sweet, warm and welcoming.
Live every day. Be open, and love.













