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Is it bad that whenever i have these moments where i have such stressing/anxiety-inducing thought moments i just cant bring myself to talk to anyone about it cause i feel like im bothering them?? I really want to talk to someone but im really worried though and end up not saying anything and just bottling it up thinking its stupid

i do that all the time. try finding at least one person ur comfortable with sharing and then slowly expand to more people to confide in

I Met my long distance boyfriend for the first time yesterday and lost my virginity to him in my car- In the parking lot of my old high school..

ayyyyyyyyyyyyyy

I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 6.5 years he’s the love of my life but I think I’m in love with my best friend who I’ve known since middle school. She’s smart, funny, outgoing, we go on crazy adventures together and she knows everything about me. She’s bi but she’s been dating a guy for a few years. I’ve always been straight but now I’m so confused, I can’t talk to my boyfriend about it and I definitely can’t tell her. I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I feel so alone.

its ok !!!! ur sexuality can fluctuate over time !! the biggest question is r u also sexually attracted to her, because if so then u should maybe talk to her about it, if ur not then it might b friend love thats getting mixed up. its ok to love two people at once the important part is that u dont cheat. jus think abt who u want to be with more, but also know that if she doesnt wanna b with u then dont risk like throwing away ur current relationship u feel me? i kno the first time ur attracted to the same sex can b kinda scary and weird but its ok !! u dont have to be 100% straight or 100% bi or 100% gay or anything in between. U love who u love

My friend /and ex/ is poly, but their boyfriend doesn't accept it... They said he's a "One relationship" type of guy... I quickly wanted to snap back and tell them that's not true... because if it was then he'd not have pursued them or allowed them to pursue him while they were with me. I stopped myself because I deeply love and cherish them still. Truth be told I'd get back with them in a second if I had the chance.

:// thats a tough situation one of my best friends was in smth sorta similar ish but the best thing to do i guess is to let it play its course, he doesnt sound like a right match for them and if they arent meant to work out they wont

I feel so alone. I'm trans and summers are the worst for me because I'm not out to my family, and all my friends go home hours away. I hear my dead name every single day and it makes me want to die. Phone calls with my girlfriend are the only time I hear my real name, and she never really wants to talk lately. She's going through her own stuff, which I get, and I respect that she needs some space sometimes, but I feel so desperately lonely all the time and I don't know how to fix it.

I know that can be so hard, a lot of my trans and nonbinary friends arent out to their families either. if u feel safe, talk to ur family, but no one is going to pressure u into outing urself to ur family if u dont want to. summer is almost over and soon ull be back with ur friends and feel better. know that ur gender is valid and ur deadname is just that, dead and even though people still call u by it know that ur gonna be so happy with who u are in the future !! surround urself with the people who accept u and love u and anyone else doesnt need to be in ur life

I hope I get to have friends soon, I've always wanted to go trick or treating but I've never had anyone to go with.

text ppl u kno and ask !! if not dress up anyways and have fun !! just stay safe

I constantly struggle with murderous thoughts, i want to kill bad people, rapists, molesters, trophy poachers, human traffickers, i mean its as easy as googling the registered sex offender list and going and kicking in a door, but i dont give in, its an every day struggle for me, and sometimes this makes me think about people who have thoughts of rape and molestation but dont act on those thoughts, they deserve some credit for trying to still be a good human, but there is no help offered to them

try talking to a therapist about this. maybe even try to help the victims instead of hurting the abusers. i know that it can feel like they deserve to be hurt but the most positive thing u can do is work to help the victims recover and feel safe !!

i have a boyfriend who i love but i also really like girls. help

thats ok !!! sexuality is fluid !!! and ur allowed to be attracted to multiple genders !! ur sexuality says nothing about the love u have for ur partner !!

my half brothers half brother has a crush on me and i think i really like him too... my mom thinks its incest and i agree but we’re so perfect together like puzzle pieces. what do i do?

idk thats really tough, its technically not biological incest but it is a little strange. talk about it with ur mom and talk abt it with him and come to a conclusion thats healthy and safe both physically and mentally.

I am.. angry and sad and hurt but I can't really cry to let it out... I feel so full of all these negative emotions and i know that my friends are supposed to be an outlet and I should be able to talk to my family about it but I just can't. Its kind of the same shit that just won't go away and everyone's tired of listening to it I guess.... I feel like I'm going to go numb until I can't feel anything and then it'll just get worse from there.

ur gonna be ok. find at least one person u can talk to. sometimes they suck but maybe try a school counselor?? idk sometimes they dont help much but its worth a try. if ur scared ur gonna go numb u wont, because the fact that u dont want to means u have the emotions and heart to not be numb.

I've been messing around with this boy for a while now & I just realized that I love him. The sad thing is that I know we'll never be together. I don't trust him & I don't even believe he likes me for more than just sex, maybe in the beginning but not now. It also doesn't help that I have this on going fear of not looking stupid b/c of him, I just can't bring myself to see him as a bf/husband with everything that's happened between us. But I love him & I know I need to let him go someday.

trust me ive been where u are. its hard but the best thing to do is try ur best to move on. i know its scary but if he only makes u feel worse it might be best to cut things off with him, at least for now.

Today is my birthday and I just spent the past hour in the parking lot of my school crying and cutting myself because I’m going to be dropped for my attendance. I’ve missed because I’ve been sick and I’ve been scrambling to get my attendance rate back up. I was 10 minutes late today because I have food poisoning and I’m trying so hard to keep it together and not get sick on myself. On top of that my work messed up my check and sent it to someone else’s direct deposit so I’m broke too.

its gonna be okay !! i had screwed up attendance in high school too because i had too much anxiety to be in class all day. the school kicked me out of most of my classes but i still graduated and i now live across the country going to a top school for my major on scholarship !! things will work out. ur going to be okay, and i know right now it seems like the end of the world but if anything this is gonna help u grow. schools and systems suck ass but people will see u for who u are and appreciate u and u will succeed !!

I’ve recently started working out because stress eating and birth control made me gain a lot of weight. So, I’m working to get fit. However, whenever I try to confide in those close to me my insecurities about my size, or even just joke about how hard it can be to get fit or find shorts over a size 8 where I live, I feel like they almost always just tell me something I already know about the human body. Like I have degrees in mathematics and biology, I know, sometimes a gal just wants to joke.

i FEEL that people always think that ur looking for advice or a compliment when sometimes u just wanna make a joke lol. Keep working to be healthy and comfortable !!

I'm so mad at myself sometimes. Cause I let myself feel sadness that I don't feel worthy of feeling cause I know people have it worse than me. Cause I can be nice to people so much but not to myself. That I have the power to make myself be happy yet I ruin myself, mock myself, put myself down and make myself suffer from pressure and sadness. I just feel scared and I'm still a child. I don't want to be this way but why did I let myself turn out this way.

its ok !!! ur allowed to feel sadness !!! ur own mental state is valid. u very likely have a form of mental illness, and u should probably talk to a professional abt it if u dont already. mental illness doesnt care abt if u have “”reasons to be happy”” its a chemical imbalance in ur brain thats not. your. fault. its ok !!

My family checks to make sure i dont self harm anymore, they never find anything because i stopped cutting. Ive started using tweezers to rip out pubic hairs. I bought a whole new tweezer just for it

Its definitely healthier than cutting but if ur doing it in an unhealthy mindset you should stop. ur family is only checking because they care abt u

My (lesbian) girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me for someone else a couple weeks ago. She hasn’t left my mind at all and the words she said haven’t either. But I know that if she ever came back to me, I’d take her back in a heartbeat. Even though I shouldn’t. Everyone around me see’s the bad in her except me, I’m blinded by my love for her. But I probably haven’t crossed her mind once. I’m waiting on her when she’s probably already given herself to another girl.

I think its healthiest to try to address the bad things that other people see. Take a step back and allow urself to see the truth of the relationship. i know its hard but anyone who would leave u for someone else doesnt deserve ur love anymore.

My significant other broke up with me a while back, and then we became best friends like we were before dating. Now I asked her again where we stood and she said that we were just friends still. I still love her and it’s v v painful but hey that’s life. Also she lives rlly far away from me too. So that’s great. I respect her decisions and ik this isn’t something to be forced but I can’t help it :/

The healthiest thing u can do is try ur best to move on. itll be slow and difficult but in the end itll be worth it for ur own happiness !!

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