I was tagged by beloved moot @highest-violet 💕
1. what's your blog title from? — I created this blog from my other and couldn't think of anything so just landed on this shit name lol despite being an apologist for many things! I've been thinking of changing it but nothing has come to me
2. latest movie? what did you think? — oh jesus it might be Disclosure Day, which I did not love. It just wasn't a movie for me, and that's ok! I am seeing The Odyssey tomorrow tho!
3. what are you looking forward to right now? — Def seeing that movie, and then maybe giving my kitchen a makeover soon.
4. if you could do anything at all today, what would it be? — Not work a full fucking 8 hours.
5. drink of choice? — Since its summer, iced tea!
6. hair routine? — Day 1, wash + condition, Day 2, wet and restyle (I have wavy hair), Day 3, ACV rinse (repeat) -- Once a week (usually Friday or weekend) I will do a hard water treatment and deep condition since I have the hardest water on this planet coming out of my faucets -_-
7. favourite way to travel? — I actually don't enjoy traveling lol if I had a choice, it'd be train. Fallback would be roadtrip. Last choice would be by plane, and I'd probably cancel my trip entirely if I had to travel by bus haha
8. favourite month and why? — April/May has never let me down. But my heart of hearts will always love the 'ber months.
9. favourite time of day and why? — Early mornings, even tho I don't wake up most days until 9:30am lmao
10. do you play or follow any sports? — Don't play sports, but I keep up with college football with my partner when that time comes around.
11. what kind of music has been stuck in your head lately? — Frutiger Aero music! I find it great for deep work too haha
12. dishes or laundry? — laundry. I'm the type to follow the care labels and iron and fold after hehe
13. something you learned recently? — only shit about myself through therapy le sigh
14. what would you talk about if you could give a TED talk on anything? — culture identity crisis (currently ongoing but once I get it sorted its over for these internal demons!!)
15. piece of advice you find yourself giving a lot? — Establish with your partner: "I can't read your mind, and I don't want to be expected to. You can't read mine, and I don't want you to." When my partner and I first started dating 7 years ago, he told me this and followed it up with a fully honest, "If there is something/anything you want to talk about, just let me know and we'll talk." Knowing from the jump that there is no topic off limits, and that he genuinely wants to know what's wrong, has been our strongest foundation for healthy communication. When I was feeling insecure about his ex: "I am feeling insecure and want to talk about it." OK, let's talk. "I am struggling with the way you do X." OK, let's figure something out that works for both of us. It is never too late to establish a healthy connection with your loved one!
16. piece of advice you would give yourself 5 years ago? — Get a hobby lmao (I have several now and each are so rewarding)
17. do you believe in luck and superstition? do you carry any lucky items, or follow any lucky rules? — Superstition to a degree, but mostly I float through life events la-la-la style
18. are you musical (play any instruments, sing) ? would you ever perform for an audience? — I wouldn't perform for an audience, but i've picked up and put down piano lessons as a child and adult. I will likely find another teacher next year lmao
19. write, type or speak? — speak. I overthink my writing enough as it is - typed or hand written
20. what do you wish someone would ask you? — if I would like $50,000. Yes. Yes I would. << @highest-violet's answer and I would have to agree haha except I need about $100,000 to be added. House updates are expensive!
no pressure tags: @tommyhayward and @whistledownbad (still holding out hope they come back and see my ask lmao)
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