My name is Konchiko ( or just Ko ! ) We're a radically queer system of over 500 members! This account is shared by those of us who embrace our identities ^_^
We use He / Him pronouns collectively but Ko uses She/They/Xem, so a mix of all of those are ideal :>
Anyone can interact with us so long as they don't support non-con harm! We also consider ourselves to be comp-c (leaning pro-cc?) as our opinions insys fluctuate greatly ! We do not care for contact discourse, and see it as unhelpful.
plzplzplzzzzz interact with us!!!!!!!!!!!!! we love talking about ourselvevs and are trying to lurk less in the RQC :>
we follow back from our headmate’s blog @tombsisabitfuckedup !
walking a mile in the shoes of someone you dislike is actually kinda awesome because not only are you now a mile away from that idiot but you also have their shoes
' being radqueer needs to be more normalised. i want to be able to go outside and see beings with flag pins and be able to talk about my identity without being shot 30 times '
Both things can be true at once. We can ask people to tag their nsft posts, we can stop assuming everybeing with a certain id wants sex, we can be respectful of sex-repulsed aces in the community. We can also not spread purity culture beliefs or shame hypersexual people when we're doing so. Like, I'm begging you guys . . .
Remember when people used to say gay men were predators? If you're trans, how many times have you seen conservatives call you a predator just because of your identity?
Predation isn't inherent to any sexuality or identity. Every individual is capable of predation, regardless of who and what they are. Trying to prevent predation based on sexuality/identity will do nothing but make the problem worse.
Take AAMAP relationships for example. Many people believe these are predatory by default because of the power imbalances involved. What they don't realise is that those power imbalances were artificially created by society itself. By stripping minors of their rights and preventing them from accessing proper sex education, they create the exact conditions needed for predators to target vulnerable children.
Minors used to spend their days working heavy machinery, mixing chemicals, and feeding their families. They unionised and formulated their own arguments against why the work they were forced to do was harmful. They fought for child labour protections because they had the cognitive ability to recognise when they were being mistreated. It wasn't the adults who did that for them.
And yet, the result of their efforts ended in them being stripped of even more rights under the guise of "protection", because adults can't accept that minors can think for themselves.
What makes you think that, if given the proper resources, children wouldn't do the same to a predator? What makes you think they can't consent to love? What makes you think they don't understand that, when we have so much historical evidence that minors absolutely are capable? Adultism harms more than it helps.