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@anotherselfshipper
i just wanna bewitch you in the moonlight
jason/frax || 31 || nonbinary trans man || bi || aro || autistic || he/it || i follow / like from suchaflurryflurry. asks are sent anon, signed with my username. i never send hate. || hablo un poco de español || estou aprendendo português
carrd || nsfw selfship blog || pronouns (spanish / portuguese) || straw page
hey selfship community? Can we talk for a minute? why are you embarrassed to love a fictional character for your own comfort that you have to hide behind Japanese terms because it sounds "cooler"? because it sounds more "mysterious"? you know you're being an orientalist piece of shit and not doing yourself any favors by being ashamed of a hobby that brings you joy?
selfshippers: do your self insert(s) look like you do irl
yes exactly or almost exactly the same
similar but with a few distinct differences
not really but with a few distinct similarities
not at all
nuance button
nuance button for if you have too many self inserts for one specific answer. if your self insert(s) arent human you can answer for how you think you'd look as that species.
for distinct similarities/differences i mean things like eye/hair color, freckles, scars, etc.
for example: all of my self inserts look similar to each other, but none of them look like me outside of small similarities, so i would pick option 3.
self shipping becoming a quirky fandom trend labeling it yumeshipping is obnoxious can we let it die again. i would rather be called cringe then this shit
I wonder how self-shippers deal with canon relationships. Like if someone you're shipping yourself with is canonically in love or in a relationship with another character, how does that fit into your relationship? Do you get jealous? Just mad curious.
Shoutout to selfshippers with live action F/Os.
Shoutout to the ones that don't have F/Os from live action adaptations of video games/cartoons/etc, and to the ones whose F/Os aren't from series with fantastical elements and/or whose F/Os themselves just appear as normal people, no costumes or anything to make them "stand out."* Shoutout to those whose live action F/Os aren't from popular series.
Shoutout to selfshippers who only get interactions for their animated F/Os but rarely for the live action ones. Shoutout to those who only have live action F/Os, but struggle to get much interaction in general because of this. *Maybe your F/O does have something fantastical or wacky about them that stands out, but they otherwise appear normal, but it's impossible to get interaction through their nornal appearance.
Shoutout to selfshippers with live action F/Os that get ignored in reblog games, or ask games, or don't get as much notes in general. To those who get told their F/Os are too "difficult" or "not interesting enough" to draw for art requests or trades.
Double shoutout to selfshippers who get accused of being into "real person fiction" just for having live action F/Os, especially if you have multiple F/Os played by the same actor. Double shoutout to people who are so sick and fucking tired of having to explain that loving a live action character is NOT the same as having a parasocial relationship with the actor who plays them.
Shoutout to y'all. And for those who don't have live action F/Os, please do better to support those who do.
Dividers by firefly-graphics.
i’m gonna be a little harsh here but too many of you guys have been babied.
i know this is no new news but i don't care and i will keep talking about it but there is a genuine racism problem in general on this website, and in the selfshipping community.
i wont get into the yume vs selfship discourse even though my two cents of it is: just call it selfshipping.
to me when people use the terms "yume" "riako" and whatnot as a substitute for saying "i selfship with this character and i consider them my spouse" or "i have a serious relationship with this character", it reminds me on how white people would use AAVE as a means of "fitting in" or "it sounds cooler" without knowing the full context to how AAVE came to be. or to put it simply, steal from Black culture. when it comes to "yume" the context i mostly see it in is because "it sounds cooler/cuter" or "it has a stronger meaning" when in reality, it just comes from a different culture. sounds familiar?
and the thing about this is what white people wanna turn a blind eye to this in general or defend themselves by going "oh im white but i dont do any of this stuff". this post is Not About You. and even then, how do you know you aren't doing any of this stuff? just because some of your other white peers are saying that you aren't being racist? but you won't listen to your Black/peers of color when they call you out on something?
instead of trying to defend yourself when you get called out, just suck it up and if you care so much, make the effort to change how you’ve been acting instead of just going back and forth so you won’t have to feel like the bad guy in the situation. get over your white guilt.
i don’t talk about racism much as a Black person on this blog due to the possibility of getting annoying anons about racism. or people getting annoyed that i’m not selfshipping here. but YOU 🫵 white reader, can’t keep turning a blind eye to this and whatever is going around you just so you don’t have to face the fact that you are privileged. you have never dealt with racism your entire life. and HEY, guess what? racism is very real, and you are part of the problem when you don’t do anything about it. don’t try to talk over us, listen to when somebody calls you out and Fix It.
[ID: Flaming text gif that says ‘White people can reblog but keep your mouth shut.’]
“i want to selfship with this character but they’re married/dating someone in canon 😔” AND??? be a homewrecker girl
my issue with a lot of f/o imagines is that they veer way too close to therapy speak joker for me.
do you have an f/o from lord of the rings?
Do you have an F/O who is from Lord of the Rings?
I do
I do not
do you have an f/o from a musical?
Do you have an F/O who is from a musical?
I do
I do not
shout out to all the f/os out there that are shit at being comforting. throws a blanket over your shoulders and then backs away slowly. cooks you food that's dubious quality at best. hugs you stiffly or too tightly or doesn't know what to do with their hands. never quite knows what to say but they're there and present and hearing you.
Hey! Did ya know? You’re the most handsome man your f/o(s) have ever seen no one else can compare even if you don’t feel like it or don’t think you are your f/os will always no matter what see you as most handsome man in the whole universe <3
Pro/com/dark.shippers DNI please
are you and your f/o married?
yes, my f/o proposed!
yes, i proposed!
we are engaged, my f/o proposed!
we are engaged, i proposed!
not yet, but someday we will be!
we are never getting married!
credits:
💍 | 🍰 | 💗
Are you and your f/o married?
Yes!!
No, but planning to :)
No, and not planning to :(
F/o is dead.
The 5th option (other answers etc.)
y'know, some selfshipping accounts don't talk about their f/os because they have anxiety, they get extremely self aware when they're being perceived, they're sensitive to what others think of them and their f/os, they don't know what to do with the attention their selfship receives, they have low self-esteem and feel like they shouldn't like their f/os, they have f/os that are demonized, they're afraid of accidentally triggering a non-sharer with their selfship, they get anxious when posting about their selfship and then delete the post, they think no one will care, they're afraid of interacting, they struggle communicating but want to try, they're not as romantic and vocal as other selfshippers, etc...
and no one should feel obligated to explain themselves to online strangers
also, just because someone is not talking about their selfship doesn't mean they're not talking about it elsewhere. some people selfship in private, others have dedicated blogs to each f/o
THIS IS NOT ABOUT PRO-SHIPPERS! PRO-SHIPPERS DNI
being a copia shipper is hard. not because he’s popular (im fine with sharing) but because like 99% of imagines don’t make him awkward enough for my tastes.
