dearest deerheart!

carly, 1997, she/they. art is tagged as "my art" interactions from dearhartsmain. check out my carrd!  https://dearhartselfships.carrd.co/

[dearhartselfships]

welcome to my garf and twisted mind

hi! my name is carly! i use she/her or they/them pronouns! and my main is dearhartsmain!

my carrd is here if you want more info on me (like my dni, my f/o list, all that jazz.)

i do art! this is my art tag! (i also do non selfship art, but i don’t usually post it here!)

do you want to support me? check out my etsy!! i haven’t added more designs in a minute, but i’ll... get to it lol.

my big interests as of late are X-Men (mostly the animated series, 97, and evolution), the fallout games, and pokemon! 

if i liked your art and didn’t reblog it, i probably have it in my queue!

PLEASE DNI IF YOU’RE A PROSHIPPER! and also PLEASE LMK IF I ACCIDENTALLY RB A PROSHIPPER! i don’t always check peoples bios when i put art in my queue!

[dmclr]

can i start a little rb game ૮₍ ´ ꒳ `₎ა💭 pls rb & share in the tags at least one reason why your f/o loves / would love you ... what draws them to you the most, what would they appreciate in you ? (no "they wouldn't"s or anything of the sort please, take the moment to be kind to yourself !)

[mothersdarling]

What's your favorite daydream scenario you find yourself going back to all the time with your f/o?

[incorrectx-menquotes]

How best to describe Wade? I would say he's blessedly unburdened with the complications of a university education, but give him an sword and he's second to none. Though you wouldn't want him as your barrister.

Hank McCoy

[magicalspheres]

https://poshmark.com/listing/Vintage-Avon-Kitty-Cat-Pink-Sleep-Shirt-Size-Super-Mom-100-Cotton-USA-Fits-SL-6a2f4afb8e40fd3a8f3f4eed gives stephanie this shirt

ask her about her wolf

[melbush]

i love finding out what degrees my mutuals have. like what the fuck do you mean you do law? you’re a doctor who blog

[aru-jeanne]

Imperfect selfship affirmations

PS: Everyone is allowed to selfship in whatever way they want!! For selfshippers that feel like many of the posts you see are unrealistic and don’t reflect you and your F/O’s relationship, here are some honest and nuanced messages.

“Your F/O would never get angry with you.” -> When your F/O gets mad, they have a special tone reserved only for you. It holds you gently even when it’s firm, and maintains control without sacrificing honesty. The depth of their affection for you is evident in so many ways, including the way they approach conflict with you. Even when the feelings might be negative, you can always see the love attached to them.

“Your F/O would never think you’re weird.” -> Your F/O LOVES how weird you are!! Your uniqueness is what draws them to you, and sets you apart from the sea of people they could have chosen. Whether or not your quirks get on their nerves sometimes is insignificant; they’re just so happy to have them all memorized.

“Your F/O would never overstep your boundaries!” -> Your F/O watches you and listens to you closely. Even if they’re not perfect, they notice small changes within you and care about you—even if it means adapting to things they’re not used to doing. They intend to keep learning more about you for the rest of their life, and there’s no sign of them ever getting bored. They always repair things with you, and this will never ever change.

“Your F/O would never feel put out by you.” -> You are worth the effort. Every single time. Even when the tasks themselves feel burdensome, you are always worth the effort it takes to help you and take care of you. It is paid back tenfold every time they get to see you joyful and healthy. [Disabled self shippers I am looking at you!]

Happy selfshippjng guys and remember your F/O loves you!

[butchcena]

// couple dynamic: mischief x mischief!! // @reason-rabbits

undisputed dividers: strangergraphics

[butchcena]

AHHHH I'M SO HAPPY I GOT TO COMM MY FRIEND ARDEN :DDD we came out cuter than i could've ever imagined oh my gOD 😭😭😭💖💖💖💖

thank u so so much my friend i hope u know i'm not gonna stop staring at this any time soon!! x)

edit bc i just noticed THE BUTCH FLAG ON HER HAT AAAAAAAAH!!!!

// @apisamorabundus | @informants-little-wonder | @croc-crush | @will-grahams-fawn | @aego-philautia //

// @goldenworldsabound | @echoarias | @hybridsheart | @adoredbyalatus | @wren-leach //

// @abels-sunshine | @dearhartselfships | @mahitosoulmate | @faerie-circle-ships | @sinitama //

// @batmanshusband | @spark-182 | @woodsy-selfships | @dreams-and-honor | @w-erewolf // 

// @amessageonthewind | @nonesenseships | @catships777 | @numyletinis | @dinowives //

// @bubblegumships | @mrs-goemio | @little-miss-selfships | @boundbyfangs | @freeroam //

// @sunflowerspie //

[doomted]

THREEEEEE !!!!! Days until doomted

[bonkalore]

I had this a bit ago but got caught up in the mer stuff and forgot to post! This would be the first time Pietro ends up saying "I love you" and while Bobby had been wanting to say it for a while since he did actually say he loved him when he almost died in the frozen wasteland, but Pietro wasn't really conscious enough to know if he had or not. Tho Bobby would kind of ask if Pietro had heard what he said then or not and Pietro would silently squeeze his hand. Neither of them really addressing it again since. So while Bobby hadn't said it out loud, he definitely had through his actions.

This would be when Pietro had finally gotten his speed back but his body wasn't feeling used to it anymore and he actually got weak and threw up after going so hard with it so soon and his body needed to adjust, so he was made to rest and Bobby the next morning bothered to get up early (he's usually not a morning bird like Pietro) and make Pietro some breakfast in bed and even made some heart-shaped ice in his drink~ And Pietro, I'd-rather-die-than-cry-in-front-of-others, Maximoff was suddenly so overwhelmed with the gesture and the fact that someone actually genuinely cares for him so much he was actually moved to tears and finally says out loud what both had been feeling for a long time now. Bobby hesitated to say it first bc he didn't want to come on too strong when Pietro was always the one so hesitant with accepting their relationship, so once it was finally said by him it just opened the floodgates for Bobby.

Anyway, I love these stupid sappy boys. <3

★Giant Pietro AU Guide masterpost★

[selfshipstation]

I was reminded today that some people think you can’t self ship if you have a real partner. The number one misconception about self shippers is we’re all lonely people who are compensating for not being able to find a real partner, and that’s. That’s not helping.

[doomted]

im a little late in posting this one LOL . but to build up to the doomted anniversary, i wanna post a drawing a day in the 5 days building up.... and today marks 5 days until our 3 year anni so . !

[have-an-fo-who]

evidently not everyone can smell the ants because me and my friends had to explain to another friend that you can, in fact, smell ants.

so can your f/o smell the ants?

Do you have an F/O who can smell the ants?

I do

I do not

Remaining time: 1 day 23 hours

[candyheartedchy]

Wanted to make something cute 💗

[ravishingcas]

does anyone know how to avoid sunburn when your spouse is too hot? asking for a friend

reference under cut! reblogs appreciated!

want something like this for your ship? my commissions are open!!

RavishingCas Commissions

One stop shop for all my commission info!

[guzzlebuddie]

So if you're not my girl, don't text me I don't even care

And if you want to chat, I really have nothin' to share

If you try to reach me, I just won't pick up the phone, 'Cause I just want to spend some time alone with her

🎨: cinnamacaron on vgen ^^ I LOVE LOGE THE WARM COLORS look so cozy

Ohmygodg can these two be apart for one second?! (No)

[wik-ships]

don't cry!! think about laying down with your head on your f/o's lap, their fingers stroking your hair. they're trying their hardest to be gentle, slowly running their fingers along your hairline.

if they're usually warm and bubbly then they might be cooing over you with a soft smile, trying to make you laugh, tapping you on the nose with an infectious grin.

if they're usually quiet and calm then they take a softer approach, humming as they run their fingers over your temples, massaging your scalp and trying to soothe you.

either way they're tender with you, trying their best to keep you grounded and comfortable because they love you 🩷

dividers by suupersonic and @whor3ing!!