Shaming Your Kink

Your average Tumblr user, fed up with "adults" sexualizing children and child abuse.

[honeylove-xxx]

never be ashamed of your kinks 

[ddlgisnotok]

Unless your kinks are rape, paedophillia, incest etc. Then you should be ashamed of your “kinks”

[dothmynugsbequeathme-deactivate]

if a child/minor tells you not to participate in pedophilic shit it literally does not matter if they’re a csa survivor, their voices are not invalid with this kind of shit bye

[velourwitch]

It’s wild how ddlg kinksters are so wrapped up around “kinkshaming” and “2 consenting adults” and “freedom to do what we want” that they’re totally okay with ignoring common human decency and respect and acting like they’re above, not only appropriate social behavior, but the law as well. 

[velourwitch]

@darkrainbowslittlegirl since you blocked me so that I couldn’t tell you why you’re wrong. No one’s telling anyone to “go die”, though I have gotten mass amounts of messages from the ddlg community telling me to kill myself, they hope I die, they hope I get raped, that I need a “fat daddy cock shoved in my throat”, and have even had pictures of child porn and dismembered children submitted to me with messages about how they hope my children experience that for being a “vanilla kinkshamer.” And no one’s telling anyone that they can’t do something in their bedroom, they’re saying you can’t display it in public. It doesn’t matter what kink you have, it doesn’t belong in the public eye. Finally, no one cares if you post in your own tags. But people are tired of coming across ddlg related content, nsfw or sfw, when they go into safe tags like “plush”, “cute”, “princess”, “pink”, “pastel”, etc. The people yelling “kinkshamer” are yelling it because we disagree with the way they publicly behave and the lack of respect they have for others, including minors and csa survivors that could be triggered by that content. They’re yelling it because we don’t accept “daddy doms” taking advantage of someone’s age or vulnerable state. They’re yelling it because we’re calling people out on their bullshit, not because we’re threatening anyone.

[memelovingbot]

kinkshaming appreciation post

[sapphicbambibulliedoffhellsite]

♡ stop harassing abuse survivors ♡

[universityofkink]

❤️ stop harassing abuse survivors, period. Whether they practice DDLG and CGL or they are uncomfortable with it. Stop harassing ALL abuse survivors ❤️

~Beyond BDSM (Hanako)

[sapphicbambibulliedoffhellsite]

YIKES LMAO

@antiddlgmovement @anti-ddlg @fxck-dd

[antiddlgmovement-blog]

YIKES is right. @beyondbdsm why would you try to silence sapphicbambi’s (op) message with something completely irrelevant? no one is abusing the dd/lg comm. in fact there are posts on my dashboard right now showing how much the dd/lg community is harassing anyone that is against their kink and just wants them to stay out of safe spaces and in their own lane, and away from them. 

the point op was making was that when someone against your kink, a minor, a csa survivor, what have you, says they are uncomfortable with your kink and you following them or interacting with their posts or seeing your posts in safe tags, they do not need to be harassed for asking you to stop. they do not need to explain about what they may have gone through to be uncomfortable with your kink and you interacting with them or seeing your posts where they do not belong in the first place. they do not even need a reason to be uncomfortable with your kink. they should not be exposed to it in their own space and safe spaces that are not meant for kinks.

but way to go, making it about you.

[fuwufu-blog]

YIKES !! This goes to show how the dd/lg comm is REALLY trying to make it about themselves LMAO NEWS FLASH, there are survivors and victims and minors OUTSIDE OF YOUR KINK, we don’t need to explain to you why your kink makes us uncomfortable, all you need to do is stay in your own goddamn lane and stop making it all about you damn :// And I actually thought you could be reasonable @beyondbdsm 

[officialarquius-deactivated2016]

If you kept your kink to yourself and only practised it in your home rather than in public and online, or even put it online but kept it to blogs marked NSFW and didn’t mistag all your posts, nobody would even have a reason to “harass” you for your kink.

Also, csa survivor with a kink/lifestyle like that should see a therapist. What you’re doing is not a form of age regression therapy as so many of you like to claim, but a form of retraumatization, something common for abuse survivors, meaning you essentially force yourself into reenacting your abuse again and again, sometimes to the point of it becoming an addication. It is not a form of therapy, it’s a self-harm method.

[sapphicbambibulliedoffhellsite]

I love both of you and I’m gonna miss all of the antiddlg blogs sticking up for me

[stop-ddlg-deactivated20160925]

Beyondbdsm can stop pretending to care about survivors, it’s getting really old. You did this on a fucking SURVIVORS post. You just had to fucking come out and push your bullshit on someone else’s post that DOESNT EVEN SAY ANYTHING inherently anti-ddlg. Keep your thoughts to your fucking self. I’m so damn tired of you saying that we are the “bullies” when you come and do this shit. I’m so fucking tired of you pretending to care about survivors when you put minors and survivors on your malicious hitlist. You make my fucking skin crawl. I’m sorry that we’re not all “good” survivors who fit to your standards. You’re a bully and you sent people to send survivors rape threats. Congratulations. Cut the horrible fucking “the survivors!!1!1!!!!” act Sincerely, A survivor 💖💖💖

[justsuggestingasuggestion]

In all honesty, screw the dd/lg community. I’m tired of seeing so many suggestion blogs stating that they don’t want their contents to be reblogged by you guys and you still keep doing it. Make your own post instead of romanticizing confessions of victims of abuse. You all are trash for romanticizing the idea of age gaps and pedophilia.

[swampcandy-blog]

terfs are biologically annoying

[fuwufu-blog]

LMAO because i asked @glittermeoff for proof of people thanking her and peopel saying we are harassing them she said I was being hateful and blocked me despite she said the world and internet are shit and then proceed to act as if she didn’t expect me to be angry when she chased a rape survivor off of her blog and made her scared and untrusting of everyone. also @glittermeoff is @beyondbdsm so keep that in mind guys, this girl is saying the world is shit and the internet is shit, saying me asking for proof to show me where people are saying we are harassing them and reblogging survivors posts trying to make it all about her and then blocking me when i’m angry and wanting a answer, is ‘’ hateful ‘’ LMAO

@stop-ddlg @anti-ddlg @anti-dd-lg @antiddlgmovement 

[stop-ddlg-deactivated20160925]

Yeah, @glittermeoff’s “I care about survivors!!!” act really crumbled as soon as she made a hitlist full of survivors and minors Not falling for that bullshit

[fuwufu-blog]

Okay so i wrote this really quickly in angrily so let me clarify I first asked her to remove the picture she put on someones post that was getting the OP rape threats, for some reason she thought I meant that ~ list ~ but when i linked her the post she said she would remove it but then started spouting about how they weren’t vile and how the internet was shit when i told her, her com was shit and I rebuked saying ‘’ that’s like trying to say the world is shit when it’s not, unless you view it that way ‘’ and she said ‘’ it is shit ‘’  I went on to ask her for proof of peopel thanking her and saying that we were harassing them because of you check her blog or beyondbdsm THERE IS NO ASKES ON THOSE BLOGS, so unless EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE were off anon or in a messenger she is an absolute liar, She went on to say I was acting hateful and then blocked me because I wanted proof and I wanted her to take somethign down that was getting someone RAPE THREATS. Lmao yeah you totally love survivors, fight me.

[sageandbone]

[cgl-is-disgusting-archive]

Cause apperently “leave kids alone” is such a fucking controversial statement

[end-ddlg]

lmao they said that ddlg “causes no harm to anybody else”…. ok then what about the children being sexualized, underage littles, and littles who are being controlled and abused?? nobody is anti ddlg just because we feel like it or we’re bored. actively trying to stop pedophilia and abuse is better than being a pedophile or abuser.

[fuckdaddydoms]

heaven forbid that we shame people who bring children into an environment where they can easily be preyed on

[antiddlgmovement-blog]

CSA/incest survivor: hey so daddy kink sexualizes my trauma and promotes the idea that its cute and normal for young girls to have sex with older men, as well as often invading safe spaces for kids who have been sexually assaulted/abused. . .

Little/Daddy: ummm. . okay sweaty but i think its hot :))) stop kinkshaming me :))))

Please unfollow me if you think my personal trauma is a fun, sexy, kinky thing to use to enhance your sex life. It's offensive and disgusting and I want nothing to do with you.

[lesbiautumnal]

“how dare you kinkshame us! our community is safe and consensual!” yelled the kink bloggers as they continuously shoved “daddy’s little whore” posts directly into the eyeballs of anyone going through completely unrelated tags, reblogged photos of random girls and women on their 18+ blogs, and made sexual comments about minors’ selfies

[survivornotsexobject]

aside from those awful self promos, don’t forget adding graphic fantasy talk on reblogs of things completely unrelated to said kink.

Picture of a bunny plush with a ton of notes? GUARANTEED to have some sort of filth like “Daddy~~~~~~ I wanna bunbun like this )))):” “Don’t worry princess you’re daddy’s sexy little playboy bunny”

please. please stop. I just wanted to appreciate a photo of a soft rabbit plushie and maybe see where I could buy one. I didn’t want to need to bleach my eyeballs.

[anti-dd-lg]

I piece of me dies everytime I see someone compare pedophilia to being gay…

[liquid-mindss-deactivated201907]

Do people really do this??

[anti-dd-lg]

A lot of people do (especially kinksters) they also love to compare it with other mental illnesses

[velourwitch]

It’s funny that I haven’t seen a single ddlg kinkster get a death threat, rape threat, unsolicited inappropriate sexual picture, nasty sexual comments, etc. sent to them from anyone anti-ddlg. But damn near everyone against ddlg that dares to speak up at all against it or the bullshit they do receives any or all of those things.  But everyone against ddlg are the nasty hateful ones right?

[stop-ddlg-deactivated20160925]

By the way, I hate every single kinkster who thinks they’re oppressed and compares their “oppression” to what LGBT+ people face

[spocktopode-deactivated20210606]

@angel-hues

Also forgot I had this already made in the bowels of my file folders. Figured it was relevant in this case!

[nymphetlittleangel-deactivated2]

When People Judge Your Lifestyle

[ddlg-is-wrong]

When people are gross