anti endo support group

this blog is intended to be a support group for anti endo systems, feel free to vent about your frustration with endos or your experiences with them !

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AEV / Hound + Other names — It/its pronouns and nonhuman terms only. C-DID system w/ NPD & AvPD. Anti endo, Anti polymind and Anti sysplex. The posting schedule for this blog is; usually every Thursday but it's not set in stone (Read as; It'll changed based on how much energy or motivation I have to post).

This blog is intended to be a safe space for anti endos to vent and rant about endos/non-traumagenics and such, but we allow you to vent about basically anything; so long as you're an anti endo. We do get aggressive on occasions and some of our asks might be too, because this is a vent blog. This is also still considered a vent/rant blog for me, so you will get occasional rants and shit from me.

There aren't many rules, just put the appropriate trigger warnings on your asks and try not to start drama; also be patient, we get a lot of asks, and it takes us a while to get through all of them. We answer only when we feel like we have something to say, so heavier asks may take longer as sometimes it is hard to think of a reply for those kinds of things. Also, please check the FAQ before asking questions, thank you ^_^ (Similarly; if you have personal questions feel free to DM us or shoot them over to our personal blog @aevpersonal)

Our main DNI is of course; Endos/non-traumagenics, polyminds, "sysplex" and all their supporters + those neutral on them, but our full DNI is linked here. We also run a bunch of other blogs, which are linked here.

You can claim anon sign-offs if you would like to, just check this list to ensure yours isn't already taken!

ALSO! We run a discord server! :3 Go check it out!

(Mandatory note to say that; The art + character/blogsona used here all belongs to me and is not free to use)

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Don't feel bad about the "y'all" we live in NY and completely lost our accent when we get mad, we now have a southern accent when we get mad. Rip our heavy NYC accent you will be mourned 😿

(40 and coffee still got it though)

Rip your accent </3 At least we still have a welsh accent (even if it's "weird" <- compared to our family/peers' welsh accent)

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Saw a pro endo complain that a system tracking app was anti endo and willo and said App didn't allow willos/endos.

Like I'm sorry but y'all complain when anti endos used PK so I don't think y'all can say much

I am in a server for like, system apps, it's a "no syscourse space" yet I also see this a lot. Like A LOT. It pisses me off, like 90% of the apps listed in said serve are either pro endo or endo neutral, yet these people have the NERVE to complain when an app says it's "cdd focused". Not even ANTI ENDO, JUST CDD FOCUSED. OH MY FUCKING GOD, GOD FORBID PEOPLE PRIORITISE DISABLED PEOPLE YOU ENTITLED FUCKS. Sorry, these people piss me off, I hate them so fucking much.

Also, yeah, they CONSTANTLY complain when we use pro endo things but then ALSO complain when we make things ourselves. They just genuinely want us to have nothing, they're so selfish they think they deserve fucking everything; our communities, our terms, our apps, our fucking disorder. It's disgusting.

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what did endocrinologists ever do to you?

I fear it's incredibly clear that's not what my blog is about.

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You mentioned bpdgenic systems before

We as a system have bpd (we are anti endo) , and our syscovery was triggered by the fact that ex host has realised that "switching people/voices during a split" was not normal.

We were wondering if bpdgenic is STRICTLY an endo term? If you know... (⁠ꏿ⁠﹏⁠ꏿ⁠;⁠)

Aaah idunno if I worded this correct apologies -🐾

Hi, hi. Yes, the term would be strictly endogenic, any origin terms other than traumagenic are. I'm sure there are anti endo terms that could describe your experience better though, as bpdgenic means "a system that formed from BPD", so it would not only be incorrect, since you stated you're traumagenic (and, you know, isn't possible), but it would make a lot of people think you're an endo, so it's best not to use it /lh /nm

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hai

how are you ?

HI, I'm really late to reply to this but. Decided to anyways. I'm okay! I don't know who you are anon, but I hope you're okay too!

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i just saw an endo posting about how they wish they weren’t a system

??? YOU DID THIS TO YOURSELF??? YOU’RE NOT A SYSTEM ????

they also are a proud “alter generator” who uses chat gpt to make new alters

i’m going insane

jesus Christ that's . They can't even make up their fucking fake alter OCs on their own anymore, they're using AI???

Also yeah, I CANNOT STAND yet also laugh every time an endo complains about being a system because like, YOU DID THAT TO YOURSELF. YOU CHOSE THIS.

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i'm so tired man

me too..

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I saw your British person using yall too much tag and as someone from Tennessee, i got two of my European friends saying it constantly bc especially in system spaces it just makes life easier ngl. Years later they still say it. My greatest achievement lmao

i blame the introjects mainly... We have too many Americans in our head

Congratulations on your achievement though.. the Americans truly are taking us over </3 /j (sort of an inside joke??)

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https://www.tumblr.com/antiendovents/817870759367229440/for-the-first-time-in-forever-weve-been-properly?source=share

Ehem. Y'all. Fake British here /j /silly

YOU'RE SO MEAN TO ME !!! /SILLY

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hi. first of all, nice blog, hope you're doing well.

anyway: the woobification of my complex trauma disorder makes me so mad because now it's impossible to talk about it. like genuinely. i'll enter a "system friendly" space and the moment i sit down and start sharing my own experiences (diagnosed, btw) *I* get preached to about how "you seem to focus on all the bad parts :( not all plurality is a disorder :( that seems kind of bigotted :("

my siblings in christ, it is literally a mental illness. it IS disordered. it is an abberation from average, expected human psychology with a demonstrable origin in complex trauma. what the fuck are y'all talking about?

- a very angry EP who wants to bite someone.

Hi hi! Thank you, I am doing well!

I agree, the rise in spaces treating systems more like they're silly little guys rather than actual fucking people is disgusting. It's why I don't trust any space that isn't explicity anti-endo, cause every other space has this idea that systems shouldn't talk about their disorder seriously because then they "ruin the fun". Like. This is a disorder, it's not fucking fun, no shit.

It's espeically endos who get mad it at, because it reminds them that there are people who actual have this disorder and aren't just roleplaying it and that makes them mad and jealous, so they fucking sanatise everything and spread this idea that being a system is just "uwu silly friends in your head yayayay!" when it's not. It's a disorder caused by trauma. it ruins lives.

This isn't to say people with DID can't be postive or enjoy being a system, however, you have no fucking right to tell others discussing their struggles with it to shut up or to tell them they're bigoted or wrong for not being as happy as you.

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we found someone who was anti-endo but became pro-endo

growls angerly. “i’ve realized i’m mixed origin” way to say you don t know how DID works. person is also diagnosed so even more annoying.

I feel like I knew who this was around when this ask was sent but I do not remember who it is now </3RIP

But yeah. It;s really upsetting when this shit happens like. NO. You're not fucking Mixed Origin. You're being tricked, please oh my fucking god. I don't even know if I should feel bad or if I should just be angry at this point because like. YOU WERE ANTI ENDO?? YOU SHOULD KNOW THEY'RE ABLEIST? HAVE YOU NOT SEEN THEIR FUCKING BEHAVIOUR?

I guess it depends on how old the person is, but overall it's just fucked up. Like honestly just delete your damn blog and make a new one, none of your followers will be rejoicing at your sudden turn to ableism.

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for the first time in forever weve been properly trying to get to know who we are as individuals not all pretending to be the host and it's so strange but so fun, we cant wait to know each other a little more

Awh hey! I'm proud of y'all for that, good job!! I really wish you luck with getting to know eachother!

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what is it with endos (not very new) new trend of breaking people's DNI's?? you want spaces but invade ours and then bitch and whine when you get told to fuck off???

wdym I've had to deal with endos both on and off-platform in the span of a week, leave me alone

Yeah, it's not at all a new trend. Endos have always been like this. They originated as a hate group and that still runs through their viens. They froth at the mouth for a chance to hurt disabled people and to invade our spaces. It's disgusting.

They break our boundaries, call us made-up slurs, insult and berate us, make fucking BAH packs of us (even those of us who are literally MINORS), tell us to die or call us entitled, make fun of and deny our trauma and our suffering and then act like we're the aggressive ones when we snap at them and tell them to fuck off. It's just another case of "abled people can do whatever they want but if a disabled person gets mad about something then they're dangerous and evil"

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love how much our partner validates and tries to help us ssm !! shoutout to my gf !!

Awhh, that's really nice! Shoutout to you and your girlfriend, you both sound lovely!

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I am. Back. College is over and I am free. So, with that, I'll hopefully be posting more!

I don't have much to say right now, there's no plans other than answering asks and maybe working on that big post again if I ever get the energy for it.. Uh yeah.

Hi

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you show up as a recommended blog with the search tag "anti endos fuck off" which i felt is ironic and thought you should know.

LMAOOOO WAIT THAT'S LOWKEY FUNNY

I am THE anti endo that endos want to fuck off /silly