[aalexan]

what I’ve been trying to say is we’ve got to stop letting men get away with saying misogynistic shit just because they put ‘white’ in front of woman

[niiiimu]

men being unfunny and repeating the same joke about committing domestic violence against women and getting thousands of likes. these are the same men that women will willingly reproduce with and go out of their way to defend. we are so doomed.

[brownwomanisland]

*hits feminist blunt*: I don't wanna ever see any praise for a man or the male sex. "There are good men out there who work hard on being good." And I'm a law abiding citizen, where is my fucking national award?

We'll be talking about the right to live as free people EVERYWHERE and you're praising a man for thinking rape is wrong? The bar is below the earth's crust. Liberation for all my sisters, not praise to some man for doing the bare fucking minimum. Decenter men from your frameworks pls.

[rad-celt-deactivated20241214]

I spent my first few years of feminist activism desperately trying to convince men that I did not hate them. Pretty much every post I uploaded on my first feminist Instagram account (I was 13 years old) catered to men and their feelings. I talked endlessly about their issues, offering empathy while they whined in my comment sections about how awful women are.

I encouraged them that it was OK to cry. I assured them that real feminists don't hate men, that we just want equality for both genders. I barely even scraped the surface of women's oppression, instead focusing all of my energy on males and trying to make them feel better.

All of this pathetic "activism" had me hoping that it would change the way they viewed me and feminists as a whole. But it didn't.

Even though my "feminist" account had basically become a men's mental health page at this point, I STILL received misogynistic comments and messages. Men saw the word "feminist" and got immediately triggered, despite my content being extremely pro-male.

This is why liberal feminists always posting this ✨men matter too✨ content is utterly useless. It doesn't matter what you post, it doesn't matter how much you advocate for them or raise awareness about the problems they create for themselves, they will still hate you. They will see that you have "Feminist" in your username and immediately target you, no matter how much your content caters to their egos.

[rad-celt-deactivated20241214]

"But if the genders were reversed-" If the genders were reversed, you'd be celebrating and praising the man for the same behaviour you are currently demonising the woman for.

We see it time and time again.

A man cheats: "It's obvious that his wife wasn't meeting his sexual needs."

A woman cheats: "Worthless whore, this is why I don't trust women."

A man accuses a woman of abuse: "We believe you king!! F*ck that snake!"

A woman accuses a man of abuse: "This is very hard to believe", "why are you only now bringing this up?", "it's so obvious she just wants his money", "don't just blindly believe all women, remember the Amber Heard case!"

A man literally kills a woman: "He had a bad childhood", "his mother should have raised him better" (notice how the blame is still being placed on a woman, despite the fact that it was a man who committed such a horrific act of violence)

A woman is slightly mean to a man online: "Feminism has gone too far!!", "she'll never find a husband with that attitude", "imagine the uproar if a man said this to a woman!" (meanwhile there is an uproar because a woman hurt a man's feelings)

The idea that women can just do anything they want and face no consequences is laughable and incredibly false. Women are held to a much higher standard, and yet men claim it's the opposite.

[chondrichthyes-x-mantodea]

Saw a video of a woman saying she told her daughter to yell "mom" when she needed help because it "illicits instinct in people even if they aren't moms bc moms are the ultimate protectors". It really just showed me how men are "protectors and providers" until it's time to protect and provide, then it's a woman's job bc uhhhhh instinct.

[brownwomanisland]

*hits feminist blunt*: wearing makeup isn't empowering, it's a mask of the patriarchy. It's so weird that you'll watch men and women at formal events and the men get to have their natural face with accents (fresh haircut/trim, maybe an eyebrow marked if they're "zesty") and a woman is only considered suitable for the event once she has 3 layers of clown makeup on. But yeah, makeup is empowering.

[aalexan]

it’s the way that women fought for centuries to no longer be seen as second class citizens and to get a month to recognize women’s history and only like 4 years after that men got “men’s mental health month” because they felt like they were being ignored now. men can’t stand not being the centre of attention and the victims, even when they’re the oppressors

[aalexan]

”women need to be nicer to men!!! women are so awful to men now and that’s the reason they’re all misogynistic dickheads!” oh? so you agree? you agree that the mistreatment of one sex by another is what causes them to turn mean and cynical towards the other sex? so you agree misandry is men’s fault? that feminists being so mean to men is men’s own fault? you agree that women are justified in their judgement and alienation of males?

[scum-advocate23]

I wish all of these men a slow, violently tortuous death.

[brass-kitchen-deactivated202411]

I don't consider it rape if a woman stops taking BC without the man's knowledge and gets pregnant. I just don't. You, the man, laid up there and had consensual raw-dog sex that felt amazing and you wanted the benefit of having access to her body without the consequences.

Tough shit.

You should have had a vasectomy if you didn't want children. Or you should have kept your legs closed and been celibate, or you should have chosen better. Ain't that what y'all tell women?

But acting like "I don't wanna be a daddy!" is the same as someone being held down and having their body forcefully invaded is bullshit.

[silverity]

men just voted en masse to deprive y'all of your human rights and already y'all are starting with the "don't demonize men :(" rhetoric.... please try to be serious.

the day y'all finally understand men are allegiant to male supremacy because it is in their class interests as men and not as a consequence of "hurt feelings" or "loneliness" or any other bullshit trying to shift the blame for men's own actions onto women is the day we'll finally begin to get anywhere.

[aloisiafleur]

all of my reddit accounts got permanently banned for hate speech against men.

i was arguing in a thread about marital rape, where a lot of men defended it and said that this is absolutely normal "relationship duty". some man told me that he wouldn't want to marry a woman with beliefs against marital rape, and i said that not a single woman with those would need him anyway. i got banned. he didn't. not a single other man from that comment section got banned, even though i reported them all.

it's funny how on the reddit TOS page against hate speech there are examples of it, but not a single one mentions "misandry", although that's the reason for account suspension of multiple radfems and also the reason to ban radical feminist subs.

since i'm russian, reddit was one of my only ways to communicate with the outside world. now all that's left for me is tumblr. honestly, i'm not that sad about my account, all that is worrying me is being absolutely cut out from any outside news source or discussion page. that fucking sucks.

i can't even contact the people i've chatted with. i've lost multiple connections and i can't even tell these people how to find me on other socials.

in my country you can marry a 14 year old child if you rape her beforehand and her family agrees to "settle". in my country you can beat your wife or kids without any consequences. but i can't talk about not wanting to have anything with these men. how nice is that?

[nodeadflesh]

the amount of women out here theorycrafting heinously pseudoscientific and delusional copes for why the men they date act like they don’t give a fuck about her makes me want to tear my hair out. i lose 6 months off my life every time i hear about “anxious attachment.” please get real

he ignores you for days at a time because he doesn’t care. he ghosts after sex because that is all he wanted from you. he strings you along but refuses an exclusive relationship because he does not want to date you. he won’t introduce you to his friends because you are not one of his friends. he doesn’t do his share of the housework because he thinks you should do it. he acts inconsiderate because he does not think about you. his words don’t match his actions because the words are lies.

postulating about his “attachment style” and his “unhealed trauma” and his “neurodivergence” and the deep conflicting reasons for his behavior is a waste of your fucking time. he acts like he doesn’t like you because he does not like you, and because he can get away with it. y’all are making up a whole different man in your head because you so badly want to believe he isn’t a womanhating parasite. you are imagining a soul in the dried up corpse of a roach. you are projecting depth and vulnerability onto a dog shit wedged in your shoe. stop giving losers the benefit of the doubt PLEASE i am on my knees like a dog BEGGING all women

[hadesoftheladies]

grooming doesn't stop when you turn older than 18 btw

[fizzle-wizz13]

95% of women in prostitution want to leave, but can't because they don't have things such as financial means, healthcare, housing, treatment for addiction, or job training.

this is not a 'choice', and it is not 'empowering'.

there is no consent when a woman is fearing for her life.

[aalexan]

women changing their last name to their husband’s should not be normalized anymore