what does Alfred look for in stable relationship whether theyāre platonic or romantic? or is stability not something heās bothered about?
HMM thatās a v good question my friend iāve been lowkey sitting on this for a while bc ive been THINKING but gosh this has been harder than i thought itād be alsdkjfl ANYWAYS yes. rubs hands together letās dive right in
in a relationship alfred looks for a number of things in a person. they need to have at least some of these personality traits:
adventurous -Ā alfred does best around ppl who want to do. heās all for talking abt things but heād much rather be doing them. he also gets bored easily so in both friends and potential dates he looks for ppl who arenāt afraid to put themselves out there and try new things
passionate - he likes ppl who like living. they need to believe in smth ācause if u stand for nothing burr what do you fall for-
moral - it would PISS him off to be around someone who gives no damns abt morality. like u need to have a moral compass and have some thread of good in u that u will voice. heās more than willing to stand up for someone if theyāre not the type to fight adamantly for the Justiceā¢ but u still gotta believe in it or it aināt gonna fly
takes things in stride - heāsā¦ not the best w sensitive ppl. u need a bit of skin to hang around alfred as his jokes and the way he is in general r not the most subtle or careful. heāll say things and do things and not mean any harm but they can sound a little brash and if someoneās constantly butthurt abt it it wonāt work out
there might be a few more things but rlly alfred does get along w most ppl as long as they like him and they arenāt moody and bitter 24/7 ! so now that weāve got that out of the way we need to tackle the question of stability. what makes a relationship stable for alfred and does he even want that? the answer to that is it depends.Ā
one on hand, nah, heād rather live free. heād rather not tie everything down to one person or set of ppl and have his pickings bc hey the world is his oyster but on the other, ofc he wants stability to an extent esp platonically. while he may be a free spirit alfred does enjoy having a core group of ppl he knows he can trust. (surprisingly this is smth he worries abt on rare occasions- who his real friends are and if anyone rlly likes him)
as for romantically, i think he wouldnāt be against the idea of committing to one person as long as fate allowed but theyād have to be a p special person. alfred, in this stage of his life, is not looking to settle down. heās v go, go, go which is straining on relationship he attempts to get into. rn heās mostly abt flings and good times here and there. things for him usually die out p fast. so romantically he wouldnāt be against smth long term orĀ āstableā (āā bc im not saying his short term things are unstable but alsdkjlkj idk how else to phrase it so it relates to the question) but most of his relationships are fleeting
so what does he look for in a stable relationship?
mutual affection - yāall gotta like each other alsdkjf for it to be stable
open communication - i.e. listening to and understanding each other fairly well heād rather not have toĀ ātalk things throughā v often bc thatās hella uncomfy and mood draining
honesty - heād hate to have someone talking abt him behind his back. what can i say ya boi is a lil paranoid
willingness to partake in each otherās interests - self explanatory. itās all exchange my dudes
mutual respect - he dislikes power imbalances. heād rather chill w someone whoās on his level. the exception is for his mentors to which he still expects respect back from but is okay w respecting their wiser opinion on thingsĀ
but yeah! thatās basically it! i hope i answered ur question right bc damn yāall dont know how long i stared at this ask lkjfalskdj pls feel free to send another if i didnāt answer what u were rlly askin!
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