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turns out I’ll always carry my 15 year old self. silly me

this isn’t about hating her this is about recognizing there will always be a small part of me a little hurt and a little scared and it’s my job to care for that part in the way she needed at the time

sailermoon

chunkysoup22

ex-riddlecats

but can this ai "generate" you some bitches? lol.

dovesndecay

Look man it’s taken me almost 30 years to figure out a fraction of who I am and maybe that’s an indicator of how slowly I learn or maybe that’s just how long it takes for us to rid ourselves of the toxic sludge adults filled our cups with as children but I will fill my own damn cup from here on out

dovesndecay

Don’t let anyone make you feel like time is running out. You’ve got so much time to learn and change and grow and wither and rebirth reparent and repair yourself from all the wounds you survived and learn how to thrive for the first time

memewhore

tonictheseshhog

This is probs a silly ask but last year I had some of the best times of my life like ‘once in a lifetime’ experiences but there were also times I wasn’t in the best place mentally, or job wise or whatever else I obsess over + I always think that everything should have been perfect the entire time but I just want to cherish the good times w/o being caught up about that :/

Gosh I didn't see this for the LONGEST time bc i'm never active on tumblr OOPS,, sorry anon<333 its hard bc its the typical-bad-mental-health-moment brain response to overanalyse everything and think that there's no way that what you're currently doing is the way things are SUPPOSED to be, like u can never fully relax ig? im assuming thats what u mean, and i think for me therapy really helped bc we talked about reflecting on experiences and fully going thru every feeling we felt in that moment and processing it and letting it go? therapy is a luxury for sure but i think you need to be easier on yourself for overthinking it? its okay to overthink sometimes! its not great and it feels awful but beating yourself up over it is just punishing yourself FOR punishing yourself!

tldr: it seems like no matter what you did you'd have been hard on yourself, and it's okay to accept that you were able to be in both a good place and a bad place at once! recovery isn't linear, and things are rarely if ever perfect. it's okay to muddle through in survival mode sometimes, don't be hard on yourself for that. if a good job moment or a good mental health moment hasn't happened yet, that doesn't mean it diminishes the little moments of happiness you did experience. those little experiences are the best part of life. hold on to them, cherish them, process them, and forgive everything<3 more once-in-a-lifetimes are coming, i swear it x

#my response made no sense #im sorry #i am not good at understanding a lot of things #especially mental health wise omg ive been all over the place this year #but ur human and that means you deserve happiness and im proud of u for talking about it #take ur time sweetpea #nonsims #ask #anon ask

rheallsim

Hey, folks! I’m a simmer who loves me a well organized CAS/CC/mods folder, so I figured I’d share some resources to help you out in achieving such a thing yourself.

A well organized Mods folder as well as organized CC in-game IS possible! Click through the cut to read more!

thenordroom

The Nordroom Styling Posts:

Color Trends 2022: A New Beginning

How To Design A Studio Apartment

How To Decorate A Small Bedroom

Creative Headboard and Bedroom Styling Ideas

How To Create A Home Office in a Small Space

Small Bathroom Design Inspiration

Home Decor Trends 2021

Warm Color Inspiration For Your Home

Pink Bedroom Decorating Ideas

Gender Neutral Nursery Ideas

I thought it might be a good idea to put all my styling posts in one spot. If you have a styling problem you want me to make a post about, don’t hesitate to contact me. I can’t promise to make a post about everything, but I’ll help where I can :)

#simspo

ororomunroedontpullout

Good news: I started working today and I already love it!

Bad news: thought my first pay check would be in two weeks but it won’t be for a month because while it’s a new pay period, the checks are two weeks behind so I won’t see anything until Sept. 15!

Worse news: my insurance benefits also don’t kick in for 90 days

Even worse news: unemployment STILL hasn’t reviewed my documents so there’s nothing

If y’all can give it a boost as even though I got a job I have no income coming in I love that for me.

PayPal

CashApp

Venmo (please as private)

ororomunroedontpullout

For more clarity: I’m a Black lesbian with MS and depression so i really need insurance. My premium for new insurance is $448.

62/448

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94/448

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164/448

evilscientist3

Women in STEM (Sleepiness, Time for bed, Extremely comfy sheets, Mattresses)

bauliya

I hate it whenever a psychological or sociological term goes viral and people overuse and decontextualise it to the extent it has no meaning in six months. like. that term was necessary and now its wrung dry. we no longer have the tools to discuss the phenomenon that term was describing because its lost all credibility. who can take “gaslighting” seriously anymore? this shit is deliberate and borderline malicious.

bauliya

can i just state that this isn’t academic gatekeeping, this is specifically about how academic terms used by victims and marginalised people in and OUT of academia to describe their experiences are appropriated and meme-ified as a way to mock them and then that mockery becomes mainstream and the term loses all meaning