hugs for butches. hugs for butches who are uncomfortable receiving affection because the world tells us to be stoic. butches who bottom and struggle with the vulnerability of it. butches who prefer to be little spoon. butches who are stone and feel shame for it. butches who can’t top due to disability. butches who keep their shirts or bras on during sex. butches with gender dysphoria. butches who struggle to ask for pleasure and love. butches with religious trauma. butches who feel pressure to submit to heteronormative standards in their daily lives or in the bedroom. butches who are shamed for not being “butch enough.” hugs for butches.













