confessions of a butch4all

24, they/them stick around. drop in your own confessions if you like.

[butch4allconfessions]

pinned message yippee

mini hiatus. don’t expect huge activity.

welcome to my blog! this is a space designed for me to dump all my dyke-ish ramblings. I’m a they/them, it/its kind of butch. I’m a teddy bear butch with a terrible sense of humour so sometimes I’m a loser so if you like loser butches, stick around.

top, vers with a hefty dom lean. not exclusive, I like to fuck my friends <3

24 yrs old, if you follow me and you are ageless or a minor I will block you asap. 20+ to dm please and thank you (and pls ask first if you don’t mind). this is a side blog so I can’t moot.

asks are closed arm but when open I’m always open to anons, whether to ask questions or share some confessions of your own <3

terfs and bigots fuck all the way off, minors do not interact. I’m a free Palestine, Black Lives Matter, end racism, protect trans rights, indigenous sovereignty supporting, punch a Nazi type of guy. if that pisses you off, there’s the door.

if you want to see only my original posts, filter #butch confessions

-A

[updated: February 17th, 2025]

[yourneighborhoodloverboy]

two fingers in her mouth, playing with her tongue while i fuck her slow and deep. pulling them out to slap her cheek hard enough to startle her eyes back open, smearing the spit already streaked across her face from previous reminders. "uh-uh, eyes on me. you can do it, baby. keep them open." sliding back through her parted lips, deeper this time, smiling at how hard she fights to keep her gaze on mine as she chokes around them.

[ninakaina]

when a femme says they'll be ready in 10 minutes DO NOT GET IN THE CAR

[femmehorror]

We need to be more realistic about lesbian sex, too, because sometimes it feels like this huge expectation to maintain a certain level of stamina looms over us, simply because we’re more prone to practice what straight people think is foreplay and we consider full-on sex.

Some of us have chronic pain. Some of us have past or present injuries. Some of us are on medication that screws with our libido or the amount of time we can last and keep going. Some of us simply don’t feel that much of a desire to fuck. Some of us are on the ace spectrum. Some of us are more than content with frotting and kissing and calling it a good, intimate moment 20 minutes in. Some of us have vaginismus or other conditions that can make sex uncomfortable to some extent.

It’s OK to not go on for an hour. It’s OK to tell your partner to stop. It’s OK to ask them to change positions if you have a bad knee or back. It’s OK to not last, and to be too sensitive to go on, and to call it a day.

Sex is about the journey, the connection, and the experiences you both share in that moment. Orgasming is a wonderful consequence of the chemistry you might have, but orgasming is not the main goal. Remember that, and sex will be a million times more pleasant and, in some cases, less stressful.

Don’t feel pressured to perform. Sex is only good when there’s enthusiastic consent and enjoyment from both parts, no matter the amount of time it lasts.

[femmehorror]

HAPPY LESBIAN VISIBILITY WEEK! 🧡🤍🩷

[butch-ramblings]

I’m a filthy waist grabber, a perverted neck kisser

[justanotherguy1138]

[vamptits]

it's just really apparent that people think it's okay to want pain but morally abhorrent to want to give it. sorry but the sadist gets to have fun too. it's actually pretty crucial to the process.

[vamptits]

if I said I was going to a taekwondo class would you feel the need to tell me kicking people on the street is bad or.

[gardengnosticator]

just missing the pink hair and back tat at this point

[crimson-femme]

1950s lovers, via The Madeline David LGBT Archives

[rabbitdyke]

this is a nothing complaint but ppl who use clicker trainers annoy me. mostly because they don’t understand how it works. you can’t just click ur clicker at a puppy girl and expect her to melt. 1. she needs to be clicker trained already in order for the stimuli to mean anything 2. a click should only be rewarded at the precise moment the desired behavior is performed 3. the clicker is not the reward it is an association tool to better help understand training. you should follow with a low value food treat for best results.

[rabbitdyke]

i used to have a lot of fun tho at puppy girl bar night standing outside drunk occasionally clicking and watching dozens of girls legitimately freak out and try to figure out where the noise came from

[lamia-nymph]

unpopular opinion but being a femme lesbian who serves cunt isn't about building urself up by being bitchy to other queers/dykes the role of the bitchy vicious femme is being a bitch/social barrier to/against the hets who bully more visibly queer people. femme praxis is knowing the freaky lil butch holding my hand at the club doesn't have to be terrified of the vicious looking straight coke fiends anymore bcs shes with me.

[the-efemmeral]

“i asked chatgpt-“

yeah? well I asked a fat butch at the kink bar wearing a leather harness and smoking a cigarette and they said you’re a fuckin loser

[good-dogs-play-dead]

if your love for butches doesn't include transfem butches then you don't love butches. hope you get better soon.

[goochmaster420-deactivated20241]

love cnc but in like a "im so sorry i just am such a needy and horny mutt i can't keep my hands off you and i need more of you, i have no self control" type of way and not in the "fuck you bitch idc abt u" type of way

[thepeoplesbutch]

Happy my birthday to all who celebrate

[c0fffea]

nails

[alliekills]

you ever just wanna eat it so bad that even the thought of her hips in your hands and your thumbs in the creases of her upper thighs like where they meet her hips makes you wanna white boy punch a wall