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✧･ﾟthe cutest honestly*✧･ﾟ:*

[miawasthere]

tumblr angels do not support ICE btw 🩷🪽

[aquabby]

<33

[aquabby]

[thatbitchsimone]

[icaseybaybee]

[diamondthedime-deactivated20250]

Womanhood Tip 10?:Never let your elders “little girl” or bully you

Many elders try to intimidate or humiliate you in order to feel better about themselves. Supervisors. Aunts. Mothers.

Respect is earned and some of them are undeserving.

Learn the art of knowing when to stay silent and when to speak up for yourself.

Remember when we talked about Law #9 -Win Through Actions, Not Arguments?

Set a boundary & send a reminder: you are not a child even if you’re somebody’s child. You’re an adult, a woman and would be treated no less than. Carry yourself as such.

Learn how to be “nice nasty” (i.e. a professional read)

Master eye contact

Put some bass in your voice. You sound whiny when arguing with “your man”. Practice deepening, lowering and tweaking your voice to adjust your pitch

Never hesitate to walk away in the middle of someone talking.

This post is specifically for my (darkskinned, non racially ambiguous) black women working in corporate settings with condescending Caucasians. Bullies (or narcs) test their victim’s boundaries before attacking them. They’re looking for signs of weakness.

Show them confidence instead

You need to speak up for yourself. Have that “diva” “serious” “bitch”reputation. You’ve earned respect, not cool points.

Btw, how are you doing? Let’s catch up

[aquabby]

love this set - my first gel x set + i’m in luvvv !

🪸🐠🌺

[aquabby]

Grow and do things for you. Attend that concert. Go to that cinema to watch that move!

Don't miss out because you may be afraid to do it alone.

[singlesilverearring]

why is everyone so mean. how aren’t you tired

[diamondthedime-deactivated20250]

Sometimes, life feels like you’re going through a car wash.

Life is washing you so you can come out clean and free of filth and debris.

Free of baggage, immaturity and more.

Always visualize and affirm the squeaky clean version of your life and yourself, inside and out.

[thesirencult]

STOP TRYING TO FIT IN

Don't stay stagnant.

Don't let society trap you in.

Stop trying to fit into boxes and aesthetics.

You have the right to change and evolve. You have the right to change your choices in life.

You have the right to change your path.

If we know who we are, we are limited.

Create yourself.

[expensiveity]

if you want to change your life. you may need to change your friends. its almost impossible to live the right life when you have the wrong friends. show me your friends and i’ll show you your future. the bible tells us “when we walk with the wise we will become wise. but a companion of fools will suffer such great harm.” proverbs 13:20.

[aquabby]

commutes home >>>

[goldcoasthoney]

[perfectquote]

“I will spend more time with myself in this lifetime than anyone else. Let me learn to be the kind of person I would like to have as a friend.”

— Courage to Change: One Day at a Time (Al-Anon.)

[iambrillyant]

“honor the friendships that allow you to pick up from where you last left off, regardless of how long it’s been since you connected. the friendships that survive hiatuses, silences and space. those are the connections that never die.”

— iambrillyant

[minkdoll]