I respect that there's a lot of opinions on this, but no, you don't need to want every song to last 30 minutes to be labeled as a person who "loves music". (If that's something you want, check out De Lux's "Love Is Hard Work", a 30 minute electronic rock track released last year.) To put this bluntly, this kind of reductive garbage isn't really helpful for understanding art from a historical or modern perspective. Consider the following:
What's important is whether or not a musical idea reaches its "logical conclusion". Does the chorus lead into a breakdown that significantly evolves the arrangement, leading to more interesting instrumentation and movement in the track? Do the verses and the choruses have so much staying power that they return again and again in the song without feeling tired? Is there a rising crescendo that leads to a powerful, cathartic moment, a swell of instrumentation and build of energy that releases and concludes the ideas presented earlier in the song? What about the opposite? Does the chorus manage to accomplish a significantly more complex and evolved idea without the breakdown? Do the verses and the choruses manage to be so complete that additional versions and repetition do nothing to enhance them? Is the emotional energy in the song already released and concluded in a way that allows the ideas to stand prominently on their own weight without being built towards over multiple minutes?
Different genres have different considerations; of all the times in my life that I've listened to a song south of 2 minutes and 30 seconds from a modern artist, only a small handful of them managed to be complete musical ideas (mostly punk tracks). The majority of them were ditties, skits, or undeveloped concepts that either wasted my time or needed another couple of minutes to flesh out (including some punk tracks). On the other hand, some songs really do get stale around the 3 or 4 minute mark, and the ideas contained in the song aren't really interesting enough to try to develop them into some greater permutation of what's being presented. Hence the pop single, the top 40 dance track, the crooning ballad, the R&B chart toppers... 3 to 5 minutes of your time, then on to the next one.
Artists have been following this standard in rock since its developments in the 60s -- and if you actually look back all the way to Elvis, who started in 1956, you'll find that he didn't release any complete songs much longer than 3 minutes until his 12th soundtrack album with 1966's "Tomorrow Is A Long Time" -- and it wasn't even his song, Bob Dylan wrote it. Compare and contrast that with The Velvet Underground's 1968 "White Light/White Heat", which includes the 8:18 track "The Gift" and the 17:26 track "Sister Ray", both of which have to be that long to conclude properly. For as many songs as Elvis arguably stole or "popularized" in his lifetime, no one would have claimed the length of his songs meant he wasn't contributing to the history of rock music, and they sure as hell wouldn't argue that about the Velvet Underground... though on the flipside, if someone told me I wasn't a real music fan because I didn't want the song "I'll Be Your Mirror" off their debut album to be 6 minutes instead of 2, I'd pretty instantly disregard their opinion. Likewise, if the average rock listener turned on the radio every other night in the late 60s and "Sister Ray" was playing, I'm sure they'd get tired of listening to a 17 and a half minute song every single time they decided to listen to music. (I don't, but people like me are the exception, not the rule.)
The reality of the situation is that big artists in the mid 2010s -- and by extension producers in the industry -- realized they could game the system by releasing shorter songs that led to more plays, and more plays and higher average listen time led to algorithmic staying power on all the platforms that promote music. Some people declared this "punk": in part because of its obvious relation to punk music, and in part because it was seen as "stealing" from corporations, though I'm a bit more cynical. The result was a bunch of artists releasing ideas that weren't always fleshed out in an attempt to manipulate their relative success levels through metrics that had nothing to do with their musical skill -- and that doesn't imply that they have no musical skill, just that they're not prioritizing it as a way of making money with their music. Why write "better" when you don't have to? If you asked most artists to choose one: critical acclaim, or making millions...
Unfortunately, that means if you look for music on streaming platforms, you're likely to be presented with a lot of ideas that aren't fleshed out, don't manage to be all that interesting beyond their initial premise, and end before they can do anything novel or groundbreaking. As much as I love singing Carter Vail's "Dirt Man", it's basically one verse, making it the ideological equivalent of a vocal stim and nothing else. The only real option is to divorce the profit motive from the act of making art: if we don't, capitalism will inevitably force music on us in ways we can only imagine instead of letting us choose for ourselves.