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Friends

Friends are the people who you can talk with about your problems. They are the ones who doesn’t tell you what you want to hear, but tells you what you need to hear. They know your weaknesses as well as your strengths. They are your cheerleaders in your tough fights in your life. Friends are angels that lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. They will help you find important things...when you have lost your smile, your hope, and your courage. Friends who are always there when you need a hand, when you need some advice, even if, sometimes, they will give you some weird and more complicated advice, or an advice that doesn’t actually help. But then, you will suddenly realize that they are right that those weird advices actually make sense. 

Friends are the people that whenever you tripped off, the would laugh at you first before they help you from getting on your feet. You can sit right next to them and do your “ugly cry” when you are hurt. They will still offer their handkerchief when you need to blow the mucus from your nose in front of them, even if it’s disgusting to look at. Friends are the honest people that you can encounter, they would make you think if they are telling the truth or insulting you. Your friends will steal your chocolate from your bag, and yet, they will still keep them in the same place. 

They are the type of human being that will suddenly look at your face, and they will suddenly grab a weird facial expressions that will make you realize that you have the most insane group of friends.They are mostly the reason why you have no food. The reason why you have those bruises and red marks on your arms and shoulders because of their smack and slaps whenever they laughed so hard. They never got tired to hear your dramas and non-sense jokes.

But even if they are lunatics, friends are the reason why you’re wearing that smile. They are the reason why those tears are dry. Friends are your clowns when you’re heart-broken, they are your pillow when you need warm hugs, your shadow when you are alone, they will be your shoulder when you need to cry, and they are one of the people that would catch you when you fall. Your friends will lift your soul and will make you believe in yourself again. They might be a group of lunatics, but these lunatics made you a better and stronger person, that they are your friends that love you the most.

References:

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Character sketch

Dianne Clariz Alfonso, one of the funniest people that I knew. She has these hundreds of facial expressions that whenever you look at her, you couldn’t help but to smile and laugh. She’s not afraid to crinkle her nose and stick out her tongue in a very humorous way to make other people happy and lighten up their mood. She doesn’t mind if she looks ugly wearing that funny face. 

She also has this cute and high pitched voice that could make you raise your eyebrows and say “who’s that?” while you’re giggling. She’s wearing an eyeglasses that made her look like a Korean girl, but whenever she removes it, she looked exactly like her mom, Rizza. Her chubby cheeks emphasizes her fair and round face. 

I knew her as a very, very jolly person.She was known that way. But as they say, a person who has the biggest smile is the saddest one, and as I interview her, asked her about her family, although, the smile was there, the laugh, the jokes and her funny facial expressions was there, I can see her pain and sorrow deep into her eyes. As I listen to her voice, I know and I can feel her sad emotions behind those spoken words. It was truly heart-rending seeing her tears fall down and hearing her painful story, knowing that she had been hiding all these pain inside her heart by smiling, laughing so hard until her face turned red. 

It was really inspiring how strong and cheerful she is, despite of all these pain and struggles that she had been and going through. I was inspired by her story and the way she handled these kind of sorrowful situations. Despite all of these things, she can still smile and make other people happy in her own way, even though she’s a downcast, herself. 

Now, I do not know her just as a girl who has a very loud laugh and has a funny facial expressions, i now know her as a strong-minded, kind, jolly and a brave person to go on in life and be happy. It was really inspiring and overwhelming to know her. 

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That girl

I know someone who has an interesting life story. She was fragile and naive back then. She’s very lonely deep inside her broken heart. Though everything in her life “looks” normal, complete family, has few friends, financially stable, but if you’re going to look deep into her eyes, she was all alone. She used to be happy. Used to.

But when reality hits her, everything became a mess. She’s broken. Her family never noticed, but she is. She’s not that attached to her family, she’s not opening up or telling her problems to them because she knew, that even though she’s the one who’s hurt, they will still blame her being a mess. She knew that they will never listen to her. I remember when she was still a kid, sometimes, she used to be left in the kitchen, eating by herself. Doing something by herself. Whenever she got back home from school, she never asked by her parents if how was her day, “how’s school?” and they never asked her if she’s okay. She feels like she’s being ignored in her entire life. She always been ignored. She never did something for herself. All the the things that she had done was told by her parents. She never decides for herself and for what she really wants. She’s like a robot for years. She never asked for what she really likes, what she really wants, if her family’s decision are okay to her. 

It’s hard to be like that though. That’s why she’s pretty quiet around people. Yes, she has few friends but whenever she comes home, she still feels the same. Alone.  When she was already in high school, everything seems harder for her. She had been ignored more. She usually cries herself to sleep every night, did not had enough eat for a week because she’s invisible to her parents and to all of her relatives who lives on the same house. 

Luckily, she didn’t end up on having an anxiety. But, as they say, “Nothing bad lasts forever.” and because of faith, guidance and some advice of priests and most importantly, prayers, her scars heals a bit. After all the things that happened to her life, she never forgets to smile and make other people laugh. Even though, at this point of time, she still feels the same. But she chose to be happy . That girl chose to be happy. She doesn’t want a full attention to her, she just want to be cared and feel belonged. But now, she’s strong enough to face the another chapter of her life, and that girl is brave enough to tell her story and write this blog.