Aria

24 little princess🦄

[ariasadventuresinlife]

This is not only for me but for anybody who has been in a situation like me. It took me quite awhile to realize I was in an abusive relationship and even longer to admit it to myself. Being in an abusive relationship takes a toll on your mind, body, and soul.

Here are some self care/goals for anyone who is/was in an abusive relationship:

Surround yourself with friends and family

Be in nature/Go star gazing

Go for a walk/Go for a bike ride

Meditate/Practice breathing exercises

Read

Journal/write about your feelings

Paint/Draw to express your feelings

Take a bubble bath and plan a pamper day (face masks, hair masks, candles, healthy snacks, no phone) Get a manicure

Cuddle with your pet

Unfollow negative people on social media

Distance yourself from toxic people in your life

It’s absolutely okay to so “No.” Practice it regularly

Find a type of exercise you enjoy (for example yoga, pilates, swimming, zumba or kickboxing)

Drink soothing tea

Listen to calm and uplifting music

Buy fresh flowers

Tidy and declutter your desk or workspace/Declutter your closet and donate clothes

Watch a motivational TED talk

Plan a relaxing weekend trip

Join a support group/See a mental health professional

Start a new hobby (photography, crafting, or gardening are great)

Create a bucket list and make a vision board and hang it on your wall

Take your vitamins

Plant a tree

Write positive messages on sticky notes and put them on your mirror

Buy yourself an outfit that you feel super comfortable in

Try out a new recipe (if you don’t usually cook, start with something simple)

Plan a daily morning routine that will get you excited to wake up

Plan a movie night/Go to a concert/Go to a museum

Make a list of everything you enjoy doing and post it on your fridge

Learn a few sentences in a new language

Drink at least 8 glasses of water a day

Be a tourist in your own city and visit new places you haven’t seen yet

Watch your favorite movie from your childhood

Write a love letter to yourself

Imagine your dream life and make a list of steps you can take to get there

Challenge yourself to go a full day without a single complaint (then do it again and again and again)

Stop bad habits such as drinking or smoking (start small, but it will so be worth it in the end)

Get rid of anything that will remind you of your abuser (block, delete and throw away)

These are all the things I’m working towards and going to try to treat myself to one step at a time!

Always be kind.

[dumbmlmyearning]

I want to be someone's first. Not their first kiss nor their first date, their first choice. The person you think about first when you wake up, the first person you'd choose in a room full of friends. I would feel so honoured to be that.

[playfulpochi-deactivated2023051]

I want spoiled princess treatment where all I have to do is just whine “daaaddyyy” and I immediately get exactly what I want

[fanghusband-remade]

(flirting) you look so biteable today

[bodegabae]

i know i’m cute but you can remind me

[dniudsnf]

someone should put flowers in my hair and hold me

[positiveautistic-deactivated202]

Be the reason someone believes in the goodness of people

[cherrybuttermilk]

want to fall asleep under the stars(no bugs)

[rererereree-deactivated20241031]

Can I order uhh one large hug and a kiss plz

[eaudegay]

you literally never have to ask me “can we cuddle” because the answer is always yes

[ariasadventuresinlife]

Happy 💜💜💜

[belittledbrat-deactivated202112]

Whoops #sorrynotevenalittlesorry

[daddydom-deactivated20221008]

Dominating your sub doesn't always have to be sexual. Get her into some comfy clothes after her bath. She might have had a hard day, so sit her on your lap and do her hair for her. Make sure she's holding her favorite stuffie cause sometimes brushing someone's hair can hurt. Make her feel loved, make her feel safe. Talk to her. Reassure her that you'll always be here for her. Through the good times and especially the bad. If she starts to cry that's okay, kiss her tears away and gently rock her in your arms. Throw on her favorite show. May it be a show on Netflix, a specific cartoon or her favorite Disney movie. Cuddle with her on the bed and just watch it with her. Maybe even sing along if you know the song. Just keep her smiling like only you can do.

[ariasadventuresinlife]

💜💜💜

[daddydom-deactivated20221008]

Date Idea:

Take your little to build a bear. Help them build their new stuffie together and help them name it. This is the very important part, make sure you’re the one who puts the sound in for your Little’s new stuffie and don’t tell them what it is. Be sure to let them know that they can’t play it till you two get home. Have them wait, take the long way home, so that they can keep asking to play it. Whatever you do, do not break no matter how cute they are. As time goes by they might start to expect it to be something goofy by your laughter but no, leave them the cutest little message in your most softest voice “I love you my little Princess/Prince.” Make sure it’s something that will make them feel all little inside every time they replay it.

[anotthatblkraven]

How cute!!!

[inbradpitt]

bro she's a piece of art, pin her against the wall

[llleighsmith]

love is literally the whole point