Life of an Aro Pan Genderfluid

Welcome! My name is Andris. I'm going to use this blog to post cool, funny, awesome, and amazing things about aros pans and genderfluids. Perferred pronouns: They/Them.

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: white text on a bright blue background which reads “It’s okay to be ‘they’.” There is a border of sunflower emojis above and below the text.)

[proudnb]

You should always dress in a way that makes you feel your best if you can.

But sometimes it’s not simple. Sometimes you don’t have the option to express yourself as you wish. Sometimes you have to live undercover.

In those times, remember that what you put on in the morning and take off at night does not define you.

The person you wear is not the one that you are.

You are so much more than that.

[lgbtqi-support-equality]

PLEASE READ IF YOU’RE TRANS/NONBINARY

please reblog even if you’re not to spread the word

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PSA

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in case the screenshot is difficult to read: if you’re trans or nonbinary, don’t reveal anything about your gender identity on the app Whisper. The original poster has gotten death threats for posting trans supportive content on the app. The app also partially gives people your location, which can make it very very dangerous. Please be careful, trans and nonbinary friends!!

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Some trans guy tips from your dad

Don’t try that mascara/arm hair shit. I’ve been passing for more than a year with short, blond arm hair. It’s not an important secondary sex characteristic.

Board shorts (without pockets in the front) do wonders to minimize the width of your hips. Always choose board shorts over swim trunks. Choose them over cargo shorts if it’s appropriate.

Speak from your chest, never from your head.

The goal of binding should not be an entirely flat chest; you should bind for your body type.

GC2b makes the best binders out there, and their products are designed specifically for trans men/transmasculine people.

It might seem useless if you’re pre-T, but working out can be a big help for dysphoria.

Eyebrows are really important to passing pre-testosterone. Muss that shit up. Make them look unkempt.

When you ask for a haircut, make sure the edges in the back are squared, not rounded.

If you have peach fuzz, I would advise shaving it. Cis guys shed theirs when they go through puberty. Shaving can also help with facial hair dysphoria.

Don’t ever buy a binder from Amazon. They run in strange sizes (I was an XXL even though I’m a M in GC2b) and take weeks/months to come. It’s also difficult to breathe in them after a few hours.

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@shyguyshiloh @kuchenkat

[mycroftrh]

Pan Hamilton icons, for your pleasure.  Feel free to use as you please, that’s what they’re there for!

I’m making these by request, so if you want one just send me a flag and a character and I’ll be happy to provide.  Fine print: please ask off anon; I may only make one icon, not 6-10, but at least one icon is guaranteed.

[romance-repulsed-aros]

Aromantic girls aren’t “playing hard to get” when they reject you. They’re rejecting you because they don’t want to be involved romantically with you. You having feelings for them doesn’t mean they owe you anything. And they don’t owe you a “reason” either.

Perhaps be a decent human being and respect their wishes.

[romance-repulsed-aros]

Nonbinary aros are so great.

Agender aros. Bigender aros. Trigender aros.

Genderfluid aros. Genderflux aros. Androgyne aros.

Aporagender aros. Demiboy aros. Demigirl aros.

Gender neutral aros. Genderqueer aros. Gendervoid aros.

Neutrois aros. Polygender aros. Gendervague aros.

Trans feminine aros. Trans masculine aros. Aros that don’t care about labeling.

Every single one of you are awesome and a blessing to this world.

[amazingaro]

Please remember aromantic people. Please talk about aromanticism. Please represent us. Please don’t leave us behind. Please don’t ignore us.

Please remember that we exist.

[arobutnotace]

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List of pronouns!

These are all the gender neutral pronouns I’ve managed to hunt down but I am ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN there are several missing. So hmu if you know of any others or if I conjugated these incorrectly c:

They/them/their/themself

tey/tem/ter/temself

ey/em/eir/emself

e/em/eir/emself

thon/thon/thons/thonself

fae/faer/faers/faerself

vae/vaer/vaers/vaerself 

ae/aer/aers/aerself

ne/nym/nis/nymself

ne/nem/nir/nemself

xe/xem/xyr/xemself

xe/xim/xis/ximself

xie/xem/xyr/xemself

ze(or zie)/zir/zirs/zirself

zhe/zhir/zhirs/zhirself

ze/hir/hirs/hirself

sie/sier/siers/sierself

zed/zed/zeds/zedself

zed/zed/zeir/zedself

ce/cir/cirs/cirself

co/cos/cos/coself

ve/vis/vir/verself

jee/jem/jeir/jemself

lee/lim/lis/limself

kye/kyr/kyne/kyrself

per/per/pers/perself

hu/hum/hus/humself

bun/bun/buns/bunself

it/it/its/itself

I’ve also seen “yo” and “fey” pronouns but I have no idea how to conjugate them.  And I’m off to still hunt for more! If you know of any GN pronouns feel free to reblog and add unto the list and i’ll edit the original as well c: 

[peppermint-prince]

OH MY GOSH!!

SO IMPORTANT!! 

[askanonbinary]

More pronouns for everyone

[fiftythreecrimes]

this news is just devastating

[scully]

This isn’t just another shooting. 

This is now officially, with over 50 casualties, the worst mass shooting in United States history. And the fact that it took place at a gay club was not merely coincidence. This was not just another act of senseless violence in America. This was a hate crime. 

A man walked into a safe space for the LGBT community with an assault rifle and lined them up and slaughtered them. 

Don’t do what the media is inevitably going to do. Don’t erase where this happened and who this happened to.

When you make your statements for/against gun control, remember this was a hate crime. When you make your statements about the gunman’s reported religious beliefs, remember this was a hate crime. When your politicians make empty promises about changing the way things are, remember this was a hate crime. When you make your statements about the media’s coverage of this, remind everyone this was hate crime. 

Do not gloss over the identities of the victims. They were killed for them. This was a hate crime. 

[reproductivejusticeandliberty]

You call it mental illness.

You call it “crazy.”

You call it terrorism.

You blame Muslims.

You blame everyone and everything but the real perpetrators to avoid talking about the issues.

There are currently 50 people dead and 53 people injured, according to the latest reports.

Don’t use this to promote your agendas. Don’t use it for anti-Islam and ableism. 

This is a hate crime. This is bullshit laws. This is homophobia. This is lack of security.

The two shootings in Orlando over the past two days are not your place for your agenda. Please. Say something respectful or say nothing at all.

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[tseoxx-blog]

All of my current PRIDE “doodles” for pride month because no one should be ashamed of who they are. Fuck what anyone else says.

 If there are any I missed feel free to message me or you can message me just for the hell of it I like taking to people. 

also I do commissions email me at [email protected] and we can talk it out.

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Happy Pride Month!

EDIT: HOLY SHIT, YOU GUYS!!! 750+ NOTES IN 24 HOURS THAT’S INSANE 💗💗💗💗💗

[stealthydice]

Society: Blue is for boys! Pink is for Girls! Me: 

[null-and-void-guy]

Gender noncomforming lobster is my new aesthetic.