aro & confused lol

alexis, 19, she/her. this is for all u aros/potential aros out there who don't know what the fuck is happening lmao. ask me stuff if u have q's. [icon by @mokonarts]

[aroidek]

am i not aro/ace or am i just h*rny and l*nely 

[hella-aro]

Running an aromantic blog is fun cause you are like 99% sure that there are certain aro blogs that follow you because they reblog your content, but you also have no idea who is actually following you because all aro blogs are sideblogs

[hakuteeth]

Not to offer advice nobody asked for but fixing ur sleep schedule is life changing

[hakuteeth]

Things that actually work if u try at them:

Drinking water

No longer making self deprecating jokes

Making sure to take time out of the day to relax and take a breather

Lighting candles

Counting ur breaths in and out if ur having a panic attack

Getting up and trying to do one thing even if u can’t do everything maybe brushing ur teeth but not having the energy to shower

[stillstudies]

very gentle reminder that eating, sleeping, drinking water, showering, going to the bathroom, etc. are not rewards/things you must earn but things your precious body needs for overall health and wellbeing! pls do not ignore these human needs in favor of stress, busyness, or “grind”/“hustle” 💛

[aroidek]

school is coming back around and i want all of you to kick this spring semester in the ASS and make it your BITCH!!

[practicallyperfectlyqueer]

hAH

~L

[aromagni]

I’d been dissappointed in the past when looking for an aro pride pin and only seeing the heart-shaped one, but recently another thing on amazon got a flag shaped aro pin!  I got it and it’s great, I look forward to wearing :)

[zemathememequeen]

Everytime someone uses the phrases 'more than just a friend' or 'true love' they owe every aromantic/arospec person 20$.

100% agree

[autisticchangeling]

Power move: call your friendships “true love” and “more than just a romance”

[agracefularo-archive]

Are you a rainy day aro or a snowy day aro? A tea drinking aro or a coffee drinking aro? A cat owner aro or a dog owner aro? A curl up with a good book aro or a late night movie marathon aro? An early bird aro or a sleep in aro?

Put your answers in the tags!

[aro-affirmations]

amatanormativity is OUT in 2019, unashamedly loving our aromantic selves is IN

[aroacepagans]

Can’t believe aros invented friendship

[valtsv]

love is stored...in the rat!

[valtsv]

love is stored in the rat!

[depressedaro]

My fantasy is having a friend who talks to me and hangs out with me the same amount before and after they get in a romantic relationship. 

[venln]

Pride Kermits!

Please credit me/reblog this if you use these.

Might be making these into stickers on my Redbubble! I’ll drop the link once it’s all in Motion :)

Edit: I’ve set up a Redbubble to sell these as stickers and such! The link is here :)

Art, Design & Photography by C .

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

some things are supposed to be painful or uncomfortable. like studying for a test, learning something new or confronting a personal fear. it hurts to suck at something, not understand a concept or feel that everyone is better than you. it’s hard to suddenly be productive when your old habits made you addicted to immediately gratifying things. it’s scary to do something you’ve been afraid of for most of your life or go somewhere you’ve never been before, whether this means choosing recovery, changing your thoughts or going to a new place. but growing isn’t supposed to be easy. keep going even when it feels uncomfortable because that’s when you know you’re on the right track. it will get easier and the end result will be amazing so don’t be discouraged.

[deactivated38462]

do u ever listen to somebody to love by queen as an aro person and just

[aro-cryptid]

Your relationships—whether platonic, queerplatonic, soft-romo, sexual, romantic or anything else—are for you and the other participants to define. No one else gets a say on what they are or aren’t.

[queer--punk-deactivated20190603]

closeted aro power move: when someone asks if ur dating anyone, say yes. when they ask who just kinda vaguely describe shrek to them.