don't you cry your silver eyes for me

20s | he/him | icon by drememoto | frequently annoyed | dnf if under 18

[mysticalcats]

it's really gross how you can be self aware enough to know what's going on in your head but you can't actually stop it from happening. i need to grab it like a pigeon that got stuck in a house and throw it out the window. be free

[aromanticweiss]

i really wish you could block a tag only for people youre not following. i want to see a small selection of content from this topic and absolutely nobody else's

[aromanticweiss]

actually i wish it was more customizable than that. i wish i could block a tag and then select a small number of blogs to exclude from the blocking. yes i know i could just block it and click to view if it's from someone i trust but realistically im not going to do that

[dovesndecay]

Microaggressions against polyamory in interpersonal interactions are important and should be discussed, but I do wish more of the conversation focused on the ways that systemic amatonormativity impact things like family units, taxes, healthcare, inheritances, housing, childcare, etc.

I'm not dating or married or related to anyone I live with, and our household of four adults can't get any kind of financial or food or housing aid because we count as three separate households despite our semi-blended finances and living together for a decade. There are laws that have been proposed (at least, I don't know if any passed) that limit housing to nuclear families.

Amatonormativity and polyphobia are not just theoretical "people are kinda mean about this sometimes" -- they are real and materially impactful systemic issues, and they affect all of us.

[stephexmachina]

fake "secret third thing" enjoyers when the secret third thing isn't romantic not even a little:

[ruinedchildhood]

[bouncy2004toyotayaris]

made this a transparent gif because im in love

[withbriefthanksgiving]

ID: a GIF of a 2004 Toyota Yaris bouncing and squishing like a rubber ball. End of ID.

[honted]

i'm sorry i don't know what came inside me. came into me. came over me. sorry.

[ijaazat]

summer

1. make a syllabus for yourself - books, media, places, recipes

2. complete 40% of it

3. eat every fruit u can

[transgender-europ-express]

[dragonfire3859]

safe to dream

[dominiqueramseyart]

You are always on my mind II

[hbmmaster]

for me the thing about pointless internet debates is that I used to like them when I was younger, but it was because I thought everyone was engaging them in the way I was ("here's a question without a meaningful answer! isn't that interesting? let's spend some time discussing why there isn't an answer") before I accepted that no a lot of people really do have a strong opinion on the definition of "sandwich" or how to pronounce "gif". the most common way to engage with them is to develop a strong gut-reaction initial opinion on the topic and then just stick with that until the debate stops trending. it's frustratingly uncommon to actually learn anything about why the ambiguity existed in the first place.

like idk this might just be me but I think learning about differences in perception or how some words are impossible to define is just more fun than getting performatively angry about it

[venusforfran]

Poem zine about my love of fish :) Purchase a copy here physically or here digitally :)

[aromanticweiss]

i should make zines

[aromanticweiss]

i should finish the painting i started this weekend. i screwed it up by trying something new that didnt work out but that's okay, i should finish the rest anyway, now i know for next time

on the other hand when the fuck did something last inspire this much emotion in me that requires SO MUCH art about it

[aromanticweiss]

maybe i should put these complicated feelings into a zine

[aromanticweiss]

i was only half-serious in the op but in the hour since i have filled a sticky note with zine ideas so fuck man. maybe i actually genuinely need to make zines

[aromanticweiss]

i should make zines

[aromanticweiss]

i should finish the painting i started this weekend. i screwed it up by trying something new that didnt work out but that's okay, i should finish the rest anyway, now i know for next time

on the other hand when the fuck did something last inspire this much emotion in me that requires SO MUCH art about it

[aromanticweiss]

maybe i should put these complicated feelings into a zine

[aromanticweiss]

i should make zines

[aromanticweiss]

i should finish the painting i started this weekend. i screwed it up by trying something new that didnt work out but that's okay, i should finish the rest anyway, now i know for next time

on the other hand when the fuck did something last inspire this much emotion in me that requires SO MUCH art about it

[phantomfork]

a reminder!