and i'm so fuckin weak

lex 25 dyke

[agnes-nielsens]

multifandom/personal. header & pfp from this post

i don't tag suggestive text. i do my best to tag chain posts (#rb bait)/triggers/nudity

[seungkw1]

"mOnEy WoN't SoLvE aLL yOuR pRoBLeMs" speak for urself $5000 would heal me

[drops-of-universe]

girl will suffer unearthly tragedies and still run errands the same day with a smile on their face but if a mans parents divorce when he is 12 he will unleash his wrath on the world for the rest of his life

[agnes-nielsens]

it's like this

[arctasy]

when the character is obsessive and desperate and guilty and scared and ashamed and traumatized and repressed

[girlwithnoface]

HE CALLS THE MANSION NOT A HOUSE BUT A TOMB

[agnes-nielsens]

fujo out friday wednesday <3

[hustlerose]

standing ovation is such a good phrase. that show was so great we laid an egg

[consolecadet]

If it was really about health, shouldn’t y'all be concerned about chronic pain, chronic illness, disability, medication side effects, hormonal disorders, eating disorders, poverty & food deserts, the crash dieting industry, and all the other shit that sometimes makes us fat instead of just pretending to be worried about how lazy and overindulgent you assume we must all be?

[unthrifty--loveliness-deactivat]

Just so we’re clear, if I point out that you did something racist, that’s not the same as me thinking you’re irremediably terrible. You did a racist thing.

[unthrifty--loveliness-deactivat]

You think you don’t do racist things, homophobic things, etc? You do. I caught myself in fat phobic and homophobic lines of thinking/speech just this morning. I’m fucking gay married. Nothing disqualifies you from acting in a way that reflects the society you exist in. We are obliged to fight it. Why not fight it in honesty and with camaraderie?

[hiveswap]

[Doesnt do it] [gets stressed] [gets scared thinking about doing it] [doesnt do it because it's scary] [keeps not doing it]

[agnes-nielsens]

like. ok yeah when i was working i was in pain and constantly felt like i was going to die Too but I was making enough money to live and while Yes psychosomatic pain is legitimate and I probably did do more damage to myself by pushing thru it it wasn't as much of an immediate risk as walking on a broken foot. and everything else my job gave me is still an issue i just have this TOO

[sissa-arrows]

In France if you suffer from hair loss as a teenage girl and cannot afford a real hair wig the school will try and force you to go to class bald. The school will make you buy a chemotherapy turban, you will buy two different so that the school can choose which one they prefer and you will prove that they are chemotherapy turban and not hijab but once you wear it they will change their mind and say it looks too much like a hijab and insist on you going bald or buying a real hair wig that you cannot afford.

If your doctor makes multiple documents confirming that you suffer from alopecia because of stress and the medicine you have to take for your epilepsy and that wearing a bonnet or something is recommended for your mental health as you’re not ready to go out bald in high school as a teenage girl, instead of admitting they are wrong the school will accuse the doctor of lying and report him to the Ordre des Médecins (equivalent of the General Medical council). Your doctor will find himself asking you for a document stating that you are not Muslim in order to defend himself and prove that no he wasn’t colluding with you so you could wear a substitute for hijab.

Source

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In France if you are a North African nurse at a public hospital and wear a fabric surgical cap they will try to make you remove it because apparently it’s a hidden hijab. They will accuse you of going against secularism and when you’ll argue that they are discriminating you by assuming you’re Muslim for a surgical cap on your head they will change their angle and claim that you should wear nothing on your hair because you wear the same surgical cap in multiple bedroom which is unhygienic apparently (which is a bullshit argument cause you wear the same scrub/uniform in different bedrooms as well). They will go as far as claiming that disposable scrub caps (you know the thin papery ones?) are not okay to wear in a hospital even if you change it regularly. And then they will fire you for a lack of hygiene because you wear a surgical cap.

Source

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All of that will be done in the name of secularism and women’s right despite having nothing do with either quite the opposite.

The teenage girl’s story is also not just about racism and Islamophobia it’s also about ableism as the girl is convinced that the real reason the school is trying to push her out is because she had an epilepsy crisis in class and nobody knew what to do and the school nurse was absent. It could have ended badly had her best friend not known what to do to help. Apparently it was bad enough to cancel class for the rest of the day and the teacher was shocked to the point of ending on sick leave.

[marzipanandminutiae]

oh and don't forget that many parts of France mandate by law how much skin women must show in swimsuits, which they claim is about not getting street dirt in public pools but which is disproportionately enforced on Muslim or even just Middle Eastern/North African women

(and of course is also some forced nudity misogynistic bullshit in general, to boot)

[prettyinpinkcatgamer]

I didn't really care too much about the french government previously, but now I want every one of that scum dead almost as much as the american government.

[sissa-arrows]

What if I tell you that the guy people (internationally) were fawning about because he was the youngest and first openly gay prime minister we had in France is remembered for one thing that he is still very proud of. He passed a law making “abaya” illegal at school. Except there is literally zero way to distinguish a “abaya” from a summer dress or any long dress. So what happened is that Arab and Black girls ended up being profiled at school and school staff ended up deciding that if a Arab or Black girl says that this is not a “abaya” one way to know for sure was to ask them what they were wearing underneath…

So we have grown adults asking underage girls what they are wearing under their dress and if they wear shorts and not just underwear they have to remove the dress and stay in short or they get send back home… grown ass ADULTS checking what UNDERAGE Black and Arab girls wear under their dresses and making them undress or lose access to education. That’s where we’re at in France…

(And you can’t wear a headband either if you’re Black or Arab but that’s an other subject.)

P.S: For the white French people who will be disingenuous and claim that these laws don’t target Arab and Black girls they actually do because it’s only illegal to wear these stuff if you’re Muslim and because Islam is a racialized religion in the West, France assume that all Black and Arab folks in France are Muslim so white girls are not affected by these laws.

[peri]

educating yourself on dogwhistles of all kinds will have you feeling insane in settings where nobody questions anything they're parroting

[3pigeonsinatrenchcoat]

Semi useful chart for nazi dogwhistles (semi because a lot are specific to Germany). I see the alphanumeric ones a lot but they're getting wayy to comfortable with displaying straight up swastikas and alike.

[fluoresensitives]

Little Black girls, you will always have my blade. The way people treat you, even your own mothers, as monsters, call you "fast", blame you and hate you... AHHHH LITTLE BLACK GIRLS, LIVE! SURVIVE! THRIVE!

[fluoresensitives]

AND ANOTHER THING... When parents start in on shit like tone and disrespect, I roll my eyes and tune the fuck out. Because what they want is a slave. They want a girl who will sit quiet and still as they abuse her and talk to her crazy, they want an idiot who cannot think and cannot advocate for herself.

Listen. If by any chance, young Black girl, you find yourself on Tumblr of all websites, feeling as angry and alone and unheard as I did at your age, understand this —fuck them motherfuckers. Time will pass, the ages will pass. Roll your eyes, roll your neck, talk back and talk reckless. Do not for NOTHING silence the anger inside of you. You're right—they are tripping, they are treating you like you're not human, you're not crazy for the way you feel. Be careful and be safe, but by God, do not for anything dull what's inside of you. Disrespectful my fucking ass, you said what you said and you'll say it again.

[agnes-nielsens]

kind of cool actually that I've been awake for six hours and crying for most of that

[skopostheorie]

Tumblr is just a community developing a new dialect in record time

[skopostheorie]

The fact that in mere months "I'm bald" became an actual way of saying "None of the above" is insane. It's insane.

[specialpotforinstantnoodles]