but, darling this is not wonderland

'we were told and not told'

[aseirios]

i’ve been out of tumblr for years now and there’s a lot of cute guys now????? how come??? 

[wordsnquotes]

We don’t even ask for happiness, just a little less pain.

Charles Bukowski, “Letter to William Packard,” July 1985 (via wordsnquotes)

[wordsnquotes]

There are two reasons why people don’t talk about things; either it doesn’t mean anything to them, or it means everything.

Luna Adriana  (via wordsnquotes)

[misslinnet]

[optimisticmitch]

[written-on-polaroids]

[newmexicosky]

[newblogisjacindaelena]

[nakedandreckless-deactivated201]

paris

[artmania-feed]

[newblogisjacindaelena]

first day back in london by hjartesmil

[l-e-m-i-n-i-m-a-l-i-s-m-e]

[saruhiko-fushimi-deactivated201]

i feel this on a spiritual level

[himeiideactivated]

[edgy-murphy-blog]

i’m here for bisexual boys that have to put up with biphobia from their friends and family

i’m here for asexual boys that are faced with the “boys are hypersexual” stereotype every day

i’m here for gay boys that were abandoned by their friends because they thought that they were going to hit on them

i’m here for trans boys that get asked “where did my little girl go” by their parents

i’m here for pansexual boys who are told that their identities are invalid

I’m here for questioning boys that are terrified of their own feelings because they’ve been taught that being different is bad

i’m just here for the LGBT+ boys okay

[dariamorgandabber]

Someone with a social anxiety disorder will never get tired of hearing you say:

“I’m here for/with you” “I like you” “I love you” “I value you as a person” “Your opinions matter to me” “I’ll go with you if it’s too scary” “No matter what your anxiety tells you I’m not going anywhere” “Your feelings are valid”

Especially when they’re anxious Especially when they’re anxious Especially when they’re anxious

Even if you’ve already said it. Say it again. And again. Please. Cause it may seem silly to someone without S.A.D., but it’s actually really reassuring to be reminded of having support even if we were just reminded last week, or last month, or yesterday. It’s important. Really important. Cause the anxiety will often lead us to feel alone, unloved, like the person might go away if we share our feelings, even when we know it’s not true. It’s a million times easier to be convinced by someone else than by our own anxious brains sometimes.

This has been a PSA.

[glitchedhologram-deactivated201]

Also don’t get annoyed when they need the reinsurance. They do believe you but their mind tricks them that what you said isn’t true when they truly know it is, they just can’t control it.

[dill-dill]

Stay

Hanoi, Vietnam - 2014

[deuxniel]

A fragment of one of Ingmar Bergman’s love letters to Liv Ullmann.