the boys are back babey

[deadgenerations]

gonna be completely honest and a bit harsh, I think responding to "giving boys positive male role models and teaching them that men who treat women well are the pinnacle of manhood can help reduce misogyny and violence against women" with "why don't we just eliminate the gender binary though" is stupid as fuck and very discoursebrained.

imagine if I said "we need to create and support programs to provide children with accessible and free high protein/nutrition meals" and you responded with "why don't we just eliminate poverty/capitalism though".

the world isn't full of hypotheticals and ideal moral positions one can hold, it's also full of serious practical problems with immediate and bodily consequences, and mitigating solutions which can be implemented on <5 year timescales...

[monsterlets]

for like a decade I kept getting the advice of "don't ruminate" but also "sit with your emotions" and I was like What The Fuck Does That Even Mean. until someone finally explained it in a way that makes sense:

so there's the emotional part of your brain ("I'm embarrased") and then there's the storytelling part ("all my friends hate me and I'm a piece of shit"). when people say "don't ruminate" what they mean is don't feed the storytelling part

you tend to the emotion ("I'm feeling x. why am I feeling that? how do I move forward given that information? what's something nice I can do for myself right now to cope with this?") but you treat the storytelling part like a little goblin that's trying to be as unhelpful to this whole process as possible. this doesn't shut the storytelling goblin up completely, but it keeps it from causing so much chaos and over time it stops talking so damn much

it's basically like if you were trying to comfort a friend. you'd validate their emotions, but you wouldn't sit there and let them call themself a piece of shit. do that for yourself

sharing this in case someone else is also like Why Didn't Someone Just Say That

[ask-haleinski]

Who would've been Jackson's mother if Peter was his father? Would it have been Malia's mom (seeing as Malia wouldnt have existed)? I've also heard that it would've theoretically been Kate (which is really weird considering her thing with Derek, given that Peter is his uncle)

I have absolutely no idea! I haven’t heard that part 

[ask-haleinski]

Love triangle anon. Ya Tyler Hoechlin & Crystal were on a panel together & Hoechlin mentioned it was where the direction was supposed to go but ultimately it was decided against it. They both said it would've been interesting but that what've been boring & lame imo. Idk if the kate storyline was a replacement or was still gonna be involved but that would've been weirder. In the first season when derek gives Allison a ride & was nice i think they probably would've played off that but it got axed.

Well! Interesting things I did not know. Love random show knowledge!

Did you know that Jackson was supposed to be Peter's son and Malia wasn't even supposed to exist?

Hey guys, send me some trivia about Teen Wolf, or even your headcannons! Let me hear them!

[ask-haleinski]

Are there any new funny/cute/interesting stories Stiles and Derek want to share?

.........

I'LL THINK OF SOMETHING

Send me asks in the meantime

[ask-haleinski]

Did u know originally teen wolf was gonna involve a love triangle between Allison, Scott, & Derek?

Uh

What?

It was?

How about... no? Thanks?

STEREK FTW

[ask-haleinski]

What is ur fave sterek fic?

ALL OF THEM

Ok, Jk, but I love a lot of sterek fanfics, one of my faves is All In by myredturtle on Ao3. Here’s a link: https://archiveofourown.org/works/7560025

Also, I might start doing fic recs if you guys would be interested in that?

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

[asexualslikememestoo]

[therealraewest]

Hey do y'all fucks remember two years ago when just before the election all these “don’t vote both parties are bad” or “vote independent!” Posts were going around and then Trump won and now two weeks before midterms there’s all these “don’t bother voting, revolution is the only way!” And “your vote isn’t gonna matter and is an ineffective way to protest” posts are going around? Yeah knock that shit right the fuck off, don’t fall for it and get your ass to the polls, we are not doing this again.

[itmepaigeb]

[lost-amidst-the-stars]

Reblog if this sight on your blog makes you smile and you would like your followers to talk to you more. 

[sorga-deactivated20120706]

Reblog if youre bored and you want anons.

[question-meme]

[ask-haleinski]

Can you post the questions the numbers say too cause I have to keep going back and forth trying to figure out what everything is asking. Sorry if it’s inconvenient.

No problem at all! I will do that from now on

[ask-haleinski]

Stiles Derek 3,4,5

Derek: “No, no and no”

Stiles: “No, sometimes, and I still have my adderall but don’t take it that often.”

Derek: “You still take it every day.”

Stiles: “and that is less often, is it not?”

[ask-haleinski]

25 for stiles and derek :)

Stiles, sappily: “Our first one,”

Derek: “Really? Killing pixies is your idea of a perfect date?”

Stiles frowns: “I forgot about that part”

[ask-haleinski]

Stiles and Derek 13 and 14

Stiles: “well…”Derek: “Nope, nope. Boundaries, people”

[ask-haleinski]

34 & 35 stiles and Derek

Stiles: “well…”

Derek: “Nope, nope. Boundaries, people”

[ask-haleinski]

Eheh, sorry wrong ask. 

Derek: Looks at Stiles

Stiles: Looks at Derek

Both: “Really?”

Stiles: “Also, I’m gay”