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Breaking The Male Code: After Steubenville, A Call To Action
(Left to Right): Peter Buffett, Jimmie Briggs, Joe Ehrmann, Tony Porter, Dave Zirin and Moderator Eve Ensler.
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hey gravity falls friends, i know that you think tumblr user t*naflyviper posts fun things now, but here is a tip:
she is a huge misogynist and victim-blaming rape apologist who has stalked teenage girls
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This series is BRILLANT. And all made by the same woman.
RAPE TW ; SAGE-KUN IS A RAPIST
RAPE TW ; SAGE-KUN IS A RAPIST
RAPE TW ; SAGE-KUN IS A RAPIST
sage-kun, real name Matt Coy, 26 years old, is a tumblr user in the California, Long Beach area (near LA), who is working towards a job in educating middle school students, and he is a rapist. Several years ago, he raped his straight friend while they were sharing a bed (during a trip) as said best friend was sleeping, by performing oral sex on him. He has talked about this incident to me privately as well as publicly on his blog. The state of California clearly defines the actions he performed as rape. This is a screencap of him admitting to being a rapist on his blog:
This is a screenshot of a post he made a while ago after it came out that a popular tumblr user, Josh Macedo, was sending unwanted sexual messages to women, particularly underage women, where sage-kun talks about a “horrible, very bad, no good” thing he did that hurt someone (rape, but he refuses to call it that out loud).
Please do not be friends with this rapist. I know a lot of you like and are friends with this person, but you absolutely must not simply ignore this massive, glaring, horrifying thing he has done. He is emotionally manipulative and has tried to silence me into keeping quiet, as well as calling attempts to call attention to what he has done as “slander” and “petty warfare”, and convince me that he has a right to keep this quiet. I am writing this post because I think everyone who associates with sage-kun deserves to know that he is a rapist. I dare him to reblog this post. I dare him to acknowledge 100% publicly to everyone that associates with him that he is a rapist, not just “a person who did a very bad no good thing”.
sage-kun can be found on the following websites (he may try to relocate or change urls, I will keep the original post updated with the most up-to-date info available to me):
tumblr: sage-kun
twitter: sage_kun
facebook: Matt Coy
okcupid: DriftingTerra
Please reblog this post everyone, I’m begging you.
so what, is social-justice-wario too boring for you now, aliento? lmao
Here’s my reblog that you think I’m so scared of doing. I’m not running from what I did. I’ve talked about it at least twice on my blog and with multiple friends in private, so this is nothing new for my older followers.
This incident occurred in summer of 2006 at Anime Expo. My friend and I were sharing a bed and I sexually assaulted him, both molesting him and performing unwanted fellatio on him. I’m not going to skirt around my actions, as I have not done in the past. I’ve been fairly open about this, posting about it twice publicly (including the post you screencapped as well as another time on my previous blog that I remade from in 2012).
My friend and I have discussed this incident at length, both right after the incident and even years later to this day. As far as I and mutual friends of ours know, he’s forgiveness. Hell, he even jokes about it every so often.
Does his forgiveness lessen the shittiness of my actions? Hell no. What I did to him was wrong and gross in every way possible and I feel that I do not deserve forgiveness in any sense of the word. He still has every right to stop talking to me and drag my name through the mud as he pleases because of what I did. My friends that know of this incident, whether they’re just learning now or have known of it for a while, have a right to leave me if they feel uncomfortable without saying a word (which is why I never question unfollows or unfriending).
The issue I’m taking with this though? This incident has zero to do with you. Nothing. You’re taking someone else’s victimhood status that he doesn’t even align himself with and using it for your own gain. In fact, your use of this incident is actually upsetting my friend greatly and triggering his PTSD he obtained from army service.
That’s the reason I don’t call what I did rape: he doesn’t want to call it rape. As a victim of the incident, he has every right to call it what he wants, and he has not and does not want it to be called that. So way to speak over actual victims.
Hell, by your definition, you raped me. That one time you tried to stick your dick in my ass while you thought I was asleep soon after we had consensual sex? You know, the time you gave me HPV on my anus because of your actions since you didn’t use a condom? But I don’t call it rape because I don’t consider it rape, so I never called you out publicly (I have discussed it with a few close friends) as a rapist because I don’t consider you one. You’re a sexual assaulter at worst, especially given how you recreated the incident of what I did to him (performing the sleep checks, slow actions as to not wake the person, etc.), manipulating me into silence as you did what you did so that you could get away with it.
This call-out is one of the most disingenuous things I’ve ever seen, William. People full-on know of how much we hate each other and you’re only using this as a guilt-trip to manipulate other people, considering your sheer number of posts you made telling your followers to reblog it. A lot of our mutual friends already knew what happened because of my public posts and private conversations with them. Like I said before, if anyone is uncomfortable by being friends with me knowing this information, they have every right to walk away with no words, or even negative words, said. However, what you’re doing isn’t that. It’s exploiting call-out culture to further your own name and drag mine in the mud and to not give voices to victims. You’re speaking over the victim with what you’re doing here considering you have zero contact with him.
You have absolutely no right to use someone else’s pain simply to further your own gain by speaking over them.
And with that, I’m done. I’m not running from it, I’m staying right here, and like I said before, I’m completely discuss this further (or not) with anyone who feels uncomfortable. You can continue checking my blog even though I’ve stopped checking yours (like you really got that I want to teach middle school after complaining about middle school? check yourself). You can continue making shit up about me both on teachytv, aliento, any private or public blog (lmao “petty revenge” is that what you consider a call-out post over you speaking over people of color?). I would never run away from my actions and I’m not quite sure why you think I would, Mr. Changes-his-url-every-few-weeks-for-literally-no-reason (though it hasn’t changed since like April I think?). I literally don’t care anymore. My life may not be even close to perfect, but I’m not going to let your boredom from being intentionally unemployed for nearly 3 years and riding off of the kindness of your friends and donations from a popular blog bring me down.
Two confirmed rapists, oh sheet!
This is absolutely abhorrent. Not only is someone pointing out a rapist (which is awful in itself), but that the rapist then turns it around to say "why can't you let it go? I acknowledge I raped someone, he's totally over it! Who cares! You're definitely worse than me!"
Both people are awful, but I think it's a special kind of disgusting when someone says "yeah, I raped someone, so what he's over it! YOU'RE worse for calling me out on being a rapist!"
Avoid both, if both are rapists. But it's not uncommon for a rapist to accuse their victim of being worse than them/also a rapist, so keep that in mind.
Disgusting. Sage-kun should be removed from the planet, but since that's not possible, infinite jail time is fine with me.
And, since I've posted some messages, I might as well post this little update -
Since I've vanished for months, I have an impressive backlog of messages to get through. That means that some replies will have been waiting for months for answers, and although I promise to try and respond to everything in a timely manner, I'm only one pony! I apologize in advance for the lateness!
TW: RAPE
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Dear Princess Celestia? Do you think that Ask Princess Molestia would have been as admired if it were about a male predator instead of a female one? Sometimes it seems like society has a double standard when it comes to this- male sexual predators are seen as more “threatening” than female ones (personally I think they’re both reprehensible). What are your thoughts?
— hawkflame-mlp
I do think that this is definitely an instance of a double standard, yes. Society's strict gender stereotyping reassures us that women would never do anything violent or criminal, because the 'accepted' cultural stereotype of women is weak, soft, gentle, inherently motherly and not dangerous/criminal in the least. (That is mostly focusing on white women, of course; there are a whole other slew of stereotypes we can get into based on the intersection of sex and race.)
Women are especially seen as being non-sexual, or at least not overtly sexual; being as a popular misconception of rape is a 'crime of passion' (rather than the crime of aggression/control that it is), sexism states that women simply aren't 'sexual enough' to ever want to assault someone.
Furthermore, many victims of female abusers are simply told that they should be 'grateful,' because sex with a woman (according to the offensive cultural stereotype) 'can't ever be bad;' this is an extremely offensive and damaging stereotype.
In short, yes, both female and male predators are reprehensible, but unfortunately, your cultural stereotype focuses almost exclusively on male predators; hence, many fans of Molestia were simply able to insist that her crimes were merely 'sexual humor,' or 'being mischievous,' instead of the rape that was depicted, partly due to the belief that a female rapist cannot even exist.
To make a very long explanation short: Yes, I think if Molestia had been about a male rapist, people would have picked up on the crimes being depicted in much larger numbers, because it would fit more neatly into your cultural stereotype. However, many people are able to excuse heinous hatespeech in the name of "humor," so it's possible that these same Bronies would have defended it as "funny-rape, not like actual rape-rape."
EDIT: This is a very, VERY old post I found saved in my drafts, apparently I meant to queue it and it never got posted! My apologies! It seemed wrong to leave someone's message unanswered, so I have posted it now, even months after all of the Molestia drama has died down.
Hi Princess! I just wanted to let you know how happy you make me. I recently found your blog as well as many other feminist and pro-equality/diversity pony blogs and it makes me so happy I could cry! Back when the bronies were actually decent, I aligned myself with them but I was quickly pushed out. I was severely sexually harassed by men twice my age and the same men would turn around and mock me for being female in the fandom. So seeing things like your blog give me hope and joy!
Thank you so very much for the kind message, friend! I apologize for the long delay in my reply, but rest assured that your lovely message was well worth the wait!
I am also very happy to see the recent explosion of pro-feminist pony blogs and art! It’s always comforting to find kind and like-minded folks in a fandom you long thought beyond hope!
Is this strange for showing my nieces(the older one is ten and the youngest one is six) Smile Hd and the youngest one actually loved it while the oldest one felt sick? What should I do?
You should not show children things that are inappropriate for their age, ever. You are not their parent, and you are not equipped to decide what they are ‘ready’ to see. Excessive blood and gore is not something children are equipped to handle, and you made a massive lapse in judgment by showing it to them.
While I would personally recommend informing your brother/sister what you have done so that they could keep the children away from their obviously-irresponsible and damaging relative, for now I will try to temper my wrath and simply suggest that you do not ever do this again in the future. Stick to showing them videos of very safe, age-appropriate material. There are lots of videos that are safe for children to watch, and you should have no problem finding many cute kitten videos and the like for them to see.
In short, you should know better. Perhaps in the future you should keep a responsible adult around while you have your nieces with you, to be certain that they are being chaperoned appropriately.
Ack! I have been bereft in my duties!
Hello, loyal and patient citizens! I must apologize to you, because I got so wrapped up in the running of my kingdom (if it's not Discord arising from a thousand-year sleep, it's King Sombra arising from his, you know how it goes sometimes!) that I neglected my blog! How very unprincess-like of me!
I am sorry for the absence of posts, but fear not, I am well and have survived my travails with grace and tenacity! I hope you all have been doing the same!
The biggest of hugs to you, old friends, and to new ones as well! I will do my best to keep it from being quite so long between posts, although I must warn you, I am still quite busy running the kingdom! So hopefully, you will all understand a less-than-feverish posting speed! <3
Farewell for now, friends! Take care of one another!
Thank you so so very much for making this problem known and helping more people see it means a lot
You're very welcome! I hope I can help to signal boost whatever relevant information becomes available!
I've been neglecting this blog rather poorly, and I must admit that the backlog of messages is quite overwhelming to face! As I have been so busy with the running of my kingdom, I haven't had time to properly sit down and tackle it, resulting in even more messages piling up! But I will do my very best to keep abreast of this topic, as it is quite abusive, hateful, and against everything that I stand for!
Heyyy Princess, could you get the word out to report tumblr user fluticashit? She's a blatant racist and transphobe, and has been reblogging MLP art featuring women of color to add her disgusting commentary.
I have seen their posts drifting across my Dashboard (even while busy running a kingdom I have a little time to check Tumblr!), and everything they are saying is absolutely horrendous.
Block them immediately, report them to Tumblr (you can do that by providing links and a brief explanation of their harassment to [email protected]), and stay far, far away from this awful person!
I also saw a message that was reblogged stating that “fluticashit is just satire,” and I must emphasize something to those who believe this: using slurs is not satire.
Just because you cry ‘it’s satire!’ after doing something identical to the awful thing you are trying to “satirize” does not make it acceptable or satirical.
Not to mention this is an account run by a guy by the name joseph. (His tumblr url is talendrin) he is posing as my best friend ashley and using pictures of her on that fake blog to get back at her for not being friends with him anymore. Please, please report him. Raise hell and get tumblr to notice! He is an atrocious person and I just want my best friend ashley to stop getting all the unjust hate for this! If you have questions please inbox me, your help is more than appriciated!
What a uniquely horrible person! I am so sorry your friend has to go through this, I will reblog your post to bring more attention to this imitation!
I hope your friend is taking care of herself, thank you for stepping in to help educate confused onlookers!
news on tumblr user fluticashit!! apparently they are pretending to be mac-and-cheese-proncess, and their actual blog is talendrin!! theyre stealing her selfies and using them on the flucticashit blog!!! please spread so that people dont attack mac-and-cheese-princess for what talendrin is doing!!
I’ve just received a second Ask that is very similar to this one -
hi, i thought id let you know that fluticashit blog is run by tumblr user talendrin! he is using tumblr user mac-and-cheese-princess ‘s photos (please submit this anonymously, i dont want to get harassed by him)
Thank you for the information! I hope my signal-boost will help to aid those who are reporting this abusive user for their hateful actions! (Casual reminder that you can email [email protected] for reports of abuse and harassment!)
Thank you for the update, friends! Please be sure to have your facts straight before you report anyone!
I have a penis (for now) but my sex is not male.
Listen up feminists and LGBT activists! Yes, you who worship the holy trinity of “sex, gender, and sexuality” in your educational literature! Yes, you who suddenly discovered transgender folks sometime during the 1990s and decided that, for their sake, it would be super important to draw a clear distinction between “sex” as a biological, bodily fact and “gender” as a mode of social identification! You’re doing it wrong. Sex is not “what’s in your pants.” Sex is not chromosomes. Sex is not hormones. Sex is not biology. Sex is neither a penis nor a vagina. Sex is not breasts, nor is it chest hair, prostates or ovaries. I’m a transgender woman. For the next few months at least, what’s in my pants is a penis. I have a prostate gland. I have a Y chromosome. “Aha!” you say. “So your sex is male but your gender is female! That’s what makes you transgender.” Wrong. Try again! “Sex” is a social decision made at the moment of birth (or earlier if your parent[s] get a sonogram). We only assign children a “sex” because of gender, because we feel the cultural imperative to sort people into two dichotomous populations based on the presence or absence of a tiny bit of flesh. “Sex” is gender in doctor’s clothing: nothing more, nothing less. Yes, we have bodies. Yes, those bodies have characteristics. Yes, those characteristics have gendered meanings in a cisnormative world. But this “sex” you keep on looking for, that you incorporate into your ostensibly trans-inclusive curriculum? It. Doesn’t. Fucking. Exist. The only people who need to know details about my body parts are my doctors and my lovers. Do you fall into one of those two groups? No? Then you don’t need to know what’s in my pants! You don’t need to know what my chromosomes are. You don’t need to know my estrogen levels (although they’re quite high, thank you very much).
All you need to know is that my name is Samantha, I use female pronouns and I pee behind the door with the dress on it. Guess what? We can teach people all of those things without them knowing anything about my body.
In fact, you should just quit talking about “sex” altogether. Try using “assigned sex” to talk about doctors’ decisions and the ways in which those decisions affect peoples’ lives. But quit trying to act as if we can empirically sort bodies into two categories that pre-exist gender norms. We can’t. And you’re hurting precisely the people that you think you’re helping with your convenient sex/gender split.
Heyyy Princess, could you get the word out to report tumblr user fluticashit? She's a blatant racist and transphobe, and has been reblogging MLP art featuring women of color to add her disgusting commentary.
I have seen their posts drifting across my Dashboard (even while busy running a kingdom I have a little time to check Tumblr!), and everything they are saying is absolutely horrendous.
Block them immediately, report them to Tumblr (you can do that by providing links and a brief explanation of their harassment to [email protected]), and stay far, far away from this awful person!
I also saw a message that was reblogged stating that “fluticashit is just satire,” and I must emphasize something to those who believe this: using slurs is not satire.
Just because you cry ‘it’s satire!’ after doing something identical to the awful thing you are trying to “satirize” does not make it acceptable or satirical.