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[fucktoyfelix]

Felix’s Easy Boundaries Guide

i dont like: -Romantic cuteness: i dont wanna hear how much you want to kiss, cuddle, or walk on the beach or w/e im pretty aro, i dont play like that -Aftercare fantasies-i dont fantasize about aftercare with strangers, see above -Implying your sexual fantasies involving me have the potential to be reality -Fantasies involving me being on top or riding, I am a strict bottom -DMs anywhere outside of OF or JFF. U got somethin to say you can say in public, unless it’s for business reasons.  -Fantasies involving me in a dominant role, I’m a strict sub -Talking to me about wanting to eat me out…I hate it -Certain slurs not to use: tr*nny, r-slur, any slur that doesnt apply to me -Unsolicited dick pics that u didnt pay for me to look at -Misgendering/transphobia -Being called sweetie, cutie, honey, or other diminutive terms typically associated with women -Ppl looking for my vanilla social media -Fantasies about things on my hard no list: https://www.f-list.net/c/space%20case/ I do like!!! -Objectification -Knowing you jerked off to me -Getting sexual anons/asks -General nice compliment asks -General fantasy sexual comments -Asks makin fun of how dumb i type and what a degrading whore i am etc -Being called mean names: bitch, slut, whore, fucktoy, fuckmeat, idiot, pathetic, useless, cumrag, cocksleeve, cockwarmer, or any combination, get creative -These slurs are a-ok: fag, faggot, cuntboy -Degradation ie; saying im not good for anything but sex etc -Fantasies about anything on my yes list: https://www.f-list.net/c/space%20case/

[askfucktoyfelix]

I want to do so many things to you I've just been sitting here on the asks page and touching myself. You are such an abusable cunt boy and I feel so spoiled, I could use you in so many different ways.

For now I'm just thinking about tying you down horizontally, vibes on all your sensitive spots so you writhe and pull against your binds and a huge plug in your ass. Then once I have you all helpless and worked up I'm raping your slut mouth with my girl dick until I'm satisfied. - cute glasses girl

Hnnn vibes would just tease me so I'd be completely desperate while you used my throat like a fleshlight @_@

[askfucktoyfelix]

actually rlly appreciate you taking femboy out of your bio and stuff. don't know when you did it but rlly, as a transfem, the respect is appreciated 💞

Yeah, the term is used in a more liberal way within my community but I don't need it to express my gender identity as a feminine boy

It was actually my transfem gf who first started calling me that

But yeah, very easy to listen to transfem people who have different lived experience with it. I removed it as a tag on most of my old posts too.

[askfucktoyfelix]

Wanted to send tdick but your messages are set to following only :(

you can email [email protected] or use anons, i won't publish

[askfucktoyfelix]

How can we send you cock pics? <3

You can send them here and i wont publish or my email is [email protected]

[askfucktoyfelix]

id love to have you so you cant resist, whether that be with binds and ropes or by dropping you into a deep obedient haze, only to figure out exactly what makes you feel the most pleasure, finding your sweet spots and abusing them but never giving that release - cute glasses girl

What about getting me stoned so I drop even easier, dropping me deeper and deeper until I'm completely unaware that I'm being stripped and tied up. Then *snap* wake me up and have me alarmed and confused as to how I got into the situation before edging me stupid

[askfucktoyfelix]

I have a nice, easy task for you.

Whenever next you see your plug, or the container or closet you keep it in, I want you to thank it for correcting you and your superiors for giving you pleasure through it. While you do it, keep the good posture you would have with it actually inside you.

It would give me such pleasure for you to one day be so lowly that your toys become idols you pray to~

i thank my plug for correcting me, and i thank my superiors for giving me pleasure through it

[askfucktoyfelix]

You say you cum really easily from cunt use? Well then I've got to shove my dick in you and watch you desperately try to hold back your orgasm as I use your slutty body.

I'd love to force you to cum - specifically id love to try to make you cum knowing you're not allowed to, and if you do get in trouble for it that's not my problem ~

Restrained, begging you to use protection so i dont get pregnant....struggling to get away but as soon as you shove it in I just start cumming and can't even fight as my brain goes blank with pleasure

[askfucktoyfelix]

What kinds of tasks, if any, could we give you? Is there a difference between what you’d do for an anon ask vs one with a face to it?

it depends, if im horny and have a lot of time pretty much anyone can order me around. but im often busy once my day gets going, and thats hard to gauge in a public conversation, and if im not horny then im not guaranteed to respond to anon requests either

if i like how someone is talking to me im not above taking it to dms

outfit requests, being made to edge, plug, send pictures or videos are common tasks. being made to listen to specific hypno files...somone creative can probably think of more

[askfucktoyfelix]

A lot of posts talk about wanting someone to figure a specific person out (learning what makes them tick, how to specifically humiliate them, etc) but how does a new dom(me) even get started in a space like that? Do you know of any good resources for it?

i'm not a dom so i'm not sure. Most of what I understand about kink comes from following my boner tbh. I think the most important thing is noticing when you're being given information that can be used to make someone horny, or give you more control over them. You'll want to keep track of all that stuff and think creatively about how you can combine it together to make that person's fantasies a reality. part of good domming means being the magician behind the curtain in some ways. if a sub wants something that would be unsafe in practice, find a way to make them think they're getting the full unsafe experience while ensuring everything actually is safe. i heard a story at a rope workshop once. He was talking about how its not safe to leave a sub tied up alone. One of his female students took that advice to heart, so when she was blindfolded...tied up...and heard the dom walk out the door...she began to panic. She struggled with everything she had to escape the perceived danger. When she finally got out of the rope and ripped off the blindfold? Her dom was sitting there quietly reading a book. That's the kind of thinking that a dominant should try to cultivate. You're building tension, you're planning scenes, you're using what you know about a specific person to drive them crazy. It's a wonderful artform to cultivate...maybe mentorship in irl community is a good idea if you live somewhere where that exists. I like fetlife for events and groups. Other doms can teach you a lot

[askfucktoyfelix]

Do you like the idea of being hypnotized on stage/with a group, or do you prefer the intimacy of one-on-one sessions?

ive never been stage hypnotized so idk what tht would be like. i think i prefer if im going to be taken advantage of long term by someone specfifically trying to figure me out

[askfucktoyfelix]

Do you like having objects to focus on while dropping, or do you prefer purely verbal induction?

spirals are fun but im not likely to have my eyes open long anyway

[askfucktoyfelix]

For someone who thinks trans men are the only ones who can advocate for themselves, you sure do spend a lot of time complaining about how their activism is wrong, the words they use are wrong, and their own conception of how they’re oppressed is wrong. Wouldn’t it be better to spend your time setting an example for what you think is the “right way” to advocate? Instead of tearing down people who are trying to do the work?

(Also if you genuinely think that about transmasc invisibility all I can do is urge you to listen to what activists are saying about it. I really get the sense that if you’re talking like this, you’re not really engaging with what activists are saying. It’s not some childish boys vs girls thing, it’s about the patriarchal forces that oppress all nonconforming folks, in a variety of ways to varying degrees.)

My lived experience as a trans man is that invisibility is not a big issue. If and when I've experienced cis people not understanding something about the transmasc experience, I educate them. I don't go online, find trans women talking about transmisogyny and complain to them that I'm "being erased", like too many trans men seem to think is acceptable behavior. 'being erased' implies this is something being actively DONE to us, which is not true. This is a TERF talking point, I've had them try to use it to convince me to detransition multiple times. Erased by who? I see way too many TME people implying transfems are hogging the spotlight. This is a flat-out lie that is only believed because of how often it's been repeated. Transmascs lapping it up need to fix their hearts before they become traitors to all trans people. My best actvism on educating about transmasc experiences happens in my irl community, where I can reach a ride range of cis people. I do this on campus, and within the many subcultures I'm a part of. Online my audience is transgender, and this is where I deal with intracommunity issues that are leaving our most vulnerable out to slaughter. I've always been a feminist, and that didn't change after I transitioned (like it seems to have for some.) If you think you can change my mind about that, you can stop wasting your time.

[askfucktoyfelix]

you've never genuinely been made to have intentional, targeted hypnotic amnesia, that you know of c:

.................HMMMMMMMMMMMM.........

[askfucktoyfelix]

What is/are your favorite current trigger(s)?

drop/blank are the oldest most reinforced from y ears. just drops me. dumber and dumber makes me stupid but not used for awhile.

'fetch' makes me find porn that someone would like or that i currently like. 'sit pretty' is used by 1 person to have me send thigh high pics

'behave' make s me horny, kinda drops me, makes me repeat 'i submit, i obey' and makes me very eager to obey commands

[askfucktoyfelix]

Do you like to take orders while hypnotized, or do you prefer simply being used without instruction?

i liek taking orders v much, i think i dont get enoug tasking currently

[askfucktoyfelix]

Does it feel good to talk about being hypnotized?

it feels sooo good im edgingg