As a transfem. Before I was open, I would sometimes have cis woman friends say "i hate all men talking about their issues, all of them should just die, oh but not you, you are different"
And let me tell you. They made it scarier to come out, to transition. And didn't feel safe. Cause then its like I'm walking a tightrope where I've seen men and women do terrible things and if I step out of line they might want to kill me for my existence. And that too far out of line might be transition, might be how I've been a csa victim of multiple cis women and being open.
Men hating women aren't feminists, they just hate people for an unchosen trait. And saying people are inherently evil, excuses evil actions.
