Institute of Applied Love Presents…
🔵 Lecture Notes on Women's Authority and Judgment 🔵
🔹A Space of Gratitude (AKA Professor ASOG🌸) discusses the concept of women being “Out of Order”, due to the harm inflicted on others, especially other women, with their unjust judgements -citing personal experiences. Professor ASOG🌸 argues that women have forgotten their natural authority due to long-term/ multi-generational patriarchal programming, leading to unjust judgments and actions. ASOG🌸 recounts being expelled from school based on a teacher's unfounded accusations and the subsequent impact on her life, including losing college scholarships and teacher recommendations. She also describes a toxic relationship where jealousy led to misunderstandings and a broken friendship with a guidance counselor. ASOG🌸 emphasizes the need for women to reclaim their own inner authority and practice discernment as much as possible.
Professor ASOG🌸’s Action Items
• [] Reflect on times when I may have made judgments without fully understanding the situation and/or hearing both (all) sides.
• [] Before any judgements are made, have open and honest conversations with those involved to improve mutual understanding.
• [] Develop the "discernment muscle" to be the primary authority over my own life.
• [] Set time limits and objectives when discussing issues and also if need be, remember to take notes.
🔹Women Harming Other Women
• Professor ASOG🌸 discusses how women harm other women, citing personal experiences of unjust treatment.
• Women are described as natural authorities, while men are natural enforcers of that authority.
• She argues that women have forgotten their natural authority due to long-term patriarchal programming.
• She shares a high school expulsion incident where a teacher's judgment led to severe consequences.
🔹High School Expulsion Incident
• ASOG🌸 recounts being expelled for 30 days due to a woman's unjust judgment.
• The teacher accused ASOG🌸 of harassing and threatening her, which was untrue.
• Despite the teacher repeatedly stating to the security that ASOG🌸 was not the accused, the same teacher (from frustration of not finding who she was looking for) later changed up and accused ASOG🌸 of harassing and threatening her which prompted the enforcers (men) to immediately enforce the judgment of expulsion with no questions asked.
• ASOG🌸 reflects on the impact of the expulsion on her future, including lost scholarships and college opportunities.
🔹Joining the Armed Forces
• ASOG🌸 decided to join the armed forces to escape the negative environment.
• She informed her mother about the decision to join the armed forces and her mother advised ASOG🌸 on waiting to tell the rest of the family about her decision.
• 3 days after informing the family, ASOG🌸 left for basic training and technical school.
• During this time, ASOG🌸's niece struggled with her absence, leading to a negative perception among family members of why she left.
• ASOG🌸 discusses the impact of her mother's authority on her family’s relationships.
• ASOG🌸 shares another incident where a girlfriend's jealousy led to misunderstandings and broken trust.
• She describes the toxic nature of the relationship and the girlfriend's irrational behavior.
• ASOG🌸 reflects on the importance of clear communication and understanding in relationships.
🔹Guidance Counselor Incident
• ASOG🌸 recounts an incident with a guidance counselor who was a facilitator for her high school youth group.
• The counselor gave ASOG🌸 a professional head and face massage because ASOG🌸 was suffering severely from sinus pain, which she later shared with her girlfriend.
• The girlfriend misinterpreted the situation accusing the counselor of being inappropriate, leading to further misunderstandings and distrust.
• The girlfriend later went to the guidance counselor alone and told her that ASOG🌸 had shared that because the counselor favored this is the reason the counselor gave the head massage.
• The guidance counselor was furious and felt this could affect her career.
• This upset the counselor and she refused to listen to ASOG🌸’s side of the story which led to a broken relationship between them.
🔹Women's Authority and Discerning Judgment
• Professor ASOG🌸 emphasizes the importance of women being the first and last (final) authority in their own lives.
• ASOG🌸 argues that women are “out of order” due to a lack of discernment and self-authority.
• She criticizes the patriarchal system for programming women to only seek external authority.
• ASOG🌸 calls for women to practice discernment and take responsibility for their own decisions.
🔹Personal Reflections on Authority
• ASOG🌸 reflects on their own experiences with authority and judgment.
• She discusses the importance of listening to both (all) sides of a story before making any final judgments.
• She shares her frustration with friends and family who discarded her without hearing and understanding her perspective.
• ASOG🌸 calls for a shift in thinking where women are seen as the primary authority in their own lives which means taking responsibility for their own “full circle” understanding before making permanent judgements.
• ASOG🌸 critiques the patriarchal system for its impact on women's authority.
• She argues that women have only been programmed to seek external authority, which suppresses self authority and hinders the need to understand and seek inner authority first and final.
• She calls for women to reclaim their natural inner authority 1st and to seek outer authority only to enforce a space for understanding and clarity.
• She also calls for women to trust and make decisions based on their own “full circle” logic and reasoning.
• She emphasizes the importance of women talking to each other and understanding each other.
🔹The Importance of Communication
• Professor ASOG🌸 stresses the importance of clear communication in resolving conflicts.
• She criticizes the lack of communication in all incidents described in this lecture.
• She states that in all incidents she was assumed to be guilty of all accusations and not one woman/person took the time to hear her side.
• She reflects on the need for women to practice discernment (flex that muscle) and take responsibility for their own authoritative power.
🔵 Final Thoughts on Women's Authority
• Professor ASOG🌸 reiterates her understanding that women are out of order due to a lack of discernment and self-authority (a woman is her own 1st and final authority).
• ASOG🌸 calls for women to reclaim their natural authority and make decisions based on their own logic and reasoning 1st.
• ASOG🌸 emphasizes the importance of women talking to each other and understanding each other.
• ASOG🌸 concludes with a call for women to practice discernment and take responsibility for their own just and unjust judgements and how they can affect others.
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