I did what I had to do and I let the system take care of the rest- Oh, you and your goddamn system! Christ! So what now? Every day, Bullseye goes to the chow hole, eats his slop, you know he gets to breathe the same air that you breathe. You feel good about that?
i have manifested getting into my dream college, straight As every semester, visiting NYC, and a HUGE glow up (nourished hair, clearer skin, beautiful body, pretty face, emotional intelligence, baddie mindset, and supportive friends + family) in 2022. here's all the things i did that worked for me! i understand everything does not work the same for everyone, for example i find visualization fun and easy to do while affirming, even though natural to me, seems like work to me so i use it as an aid to fuel my visualization. i have had bad mental health days but i persisted in my desires regardless because i know i always get everything i want.
1. understanding yourself and your thought processes:
this is not necessary for you to manifest what you want but it helps in creating self-awareness in the long term. i used to overthink a lot (manifested it away) so i affirmed and visualized during any free time i had, and eventually my doubts faded away. even if they pop up sometimes, i'm just like meh that's not true and brush them aside. for me, processing all my complicated emotions is essential to me because i get to know my patterns and start working on changing them. it does not matter what triggered them, you've to live with them for the rest of your life if you don't feel them and let them go.
2. discovering new things:
you should get out of your comfort zone. there are thousands of things in the world you haven't experienced. desires can change and you aren't obligated to stick to this one dream when something else lights up the fire inside you in the present. i had the dream of living in NYC for a long term but I became more open to DC, LA, Philadelphia, and other cities after visiting them. i have explored new hobbies too and they've become an important part of me now. being adaptable is important!
3. never settle:
a dream might be small for someone while the same dream might be unattainable for someone else. it's all about persisting in your desires and making them seem attainable to your subconscious. you don't have to lift a finger to manifest, so why aren't you being stubborn about what you want? why are you settling for less when you deserve to have so much more? don't settle for bread crumbs when you can have a WHOLE DAMN LUXURIOUS MEAL.
4. self-concept:
the qualities i find most attractive in a person are communication, efforts, dedication, honesty, and loyalty. so i start affirming for those qualities in myself! i embody them by telling myself, "i am dedicated, honest, and loyal", "i am irreplaceable and unforgettable just because i exist", "i communicate and put in efforts for the people who have the greatest in mind for me." we love people who are secure in themselves and so, we naturally gravitate towards them. i don't care if someone has a pretty body or a pretty face. if they have the drive to succeed in what they're doing and they're giving me princess treatment, i'd immediately fold. it's the inner qualities that stay in the longer term (though you can forever be ageless and youthful, but to complement that you need a beautiful mind and heart - those make you more attractive).
ok i think my issue is i got really attached to the idea of the ghosts growing up with the baby. i desperately wanted this episode to be about them bonding with the baby. or just about the ghosts in general but honestly they were kind of side characters in the episode. idk i still love this show but the ending felt weird after how hard they fought to keep button house in s5. idkkkk u guys idkkk
look, you can have anything, just with the right mindset.
seriously manifesting is KEY to anything. you can manifest anything whether it’s to visit and live on mars. you just have to believe you will. there is no limit. manifesting is based on your own 4D (imagination), and do i have good news for you.. imagination is limitless.
how to achieve the mindset
believe me, it also took me some time to realise mindset is key. actually, i found out a few days ago and i have become unstoppable. now, achieving the mindset is easy, you just need that final push. start affirming, using methods, etc. but just believe in it. you can affirm 20 times a day and if you believe that your desire will come true, you’ll get it in the matter of seconds.
remember:
let’s say you affirmed around 600 times for you to have clear skin. after affirming, your first instinct is to see whether it came true. it didn’t, so like normal you would probably say “why didn’t it work??” or any negative thoughts like that. don’t worry, it won’t ruin your whole manifesting process! you see, your mind is already mostly occupied of the positive affirmations, so a few negative thoughts won’t ruin it.
Hello girlies, welcome to another blog! On this one I will write down quickly all the productivity tips that have helped me to have an consistent lifestyle in a soft and more femenine focused way.
We are femenine beings, our energy levels aren't like the ones of men, so we have to stop managing our life like them (same energy everyday, be quick, focus on achieving, etc..) and do it in a way that let's us do our tasks based on our necesities and letting our energy be free!
My tips
Plan your day according to your energy levels
Prioritize the hardest tasks + Use the Eisenhower matrix
Make a to-do list, focused on 3 mainly tasks
Reward yourself
Positive and clean environment
Get rid of distractions
Take breaks
2 minute rule - It takes less than 2 minutes? Do it
5 minute rule - Apply a timer and do that task for 5 minutes
Apply deadlines for yourself
Create systems to keep track
Already working on something? Try to do something else (for future ease and saving time)
Extras
Switch mindset: Discipline < Devotion
Good mood changes everything. Things will be easier and faster and you'll be more focused.
Good health transforms you. Without it, there's nothing
Focus on the positive to attract good things
Focus on what causes and impact in your life
Let yourself prioritize time to have fun and rest
Take things easy and slowly
Live in the present moment
Let's be succesful by grace! See you in my next blog 𑄽𑄺ྀ
Reading. Reading. Reading. Being well-read is so valuable!! Get cosy, pick up a Jane Austen, Emily Brontë, or maybe a Charles Dickens and spend some of your free time indulging in literature. <3
Soft-spoken and kind expressions. No one likes being around rude people. Being a bitch doesn’t make you look confident. Instead, be kind, make conversation, pay attention, engage, etc… trust me.
Dainty jewellery. Find some high-quality signature pieces.
Think before you speak. Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts so you can speak confidently and with intent without stumbling over your words!! <3
Quality over quantity. Stop buying large amounts of cheap clothing; instead, save up and invest in higher-quality pieces that will actually last you. :)
Practice your handwriting. Having pretty and neat handwriting is a lovely little detail; extra points if you write in cursive. ;)
Drop the slang words. Bro, cap, sus, drip, rizz, mid… just stop, please.
Keep to yourself. Small circle, no bragging, gossips only with the closest, keep your plans to yourself.
Watch your posture. Straighten that back, honey. I see you. :))
Manicured nails. I do mine every two weeks. Almond-shaped, always dark red. <3
As always, Please feel free to add your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡ ₊ ⊹
the science behind manifesting (why it works)⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🌷
this post is going to explain in depth the science behind manifesting and WHY it works, this is a lengthy, wordy post so i hope u can maybe learn something from it.
in theory, our thoughts are frequencies, and trying to manifest something is aligning ur frequencies to ur desire. (align ur thoughts with desire)
why can we consider our thoughts as waves?
lets take something else that we can consider as waves, light for example can be measured in waves and those waves are on an electromagnetic spectrum. humans are only able to absorb the visible spectrum, however there are many more spectrums that human beings can't absorb. everything on the electromagnetic spectrum is energy including light.
in that same breath we can consider our thoughts as waves bcuz scientists have found something called EEGS in the brain (EEGs track and record brain-wave patterns). electromagnetic signals were recorded in the brain when thoughts occurred. from this information u can understand that thoughts are similar to light and can be measured on the electromagnetic spectrum in WAVES.
einstien's relativity (physics)
the basic understanding was that life consists of molecules (like our bodies, what we eat, even the computer which im typing this post on), molecules -> atoms (atoms make up everything physical) and atoms -> electrons, protons, and neutrons. we can measure particles in science and what makes a particle a particle is that it has mass. what is mass? mass is a position in time and space, and mass can ALWAYS be converted to energy and vice-versa. E=MC2
the interchangeability of these two quantities has a proportionality with the speed of light (electromagnetic spectrum) with this we can understand that there is a correlation between particles and waves.
the law of assumption
the law of assumption states that what u assume to be true is true. and manifesting is neuroplasticity. ur using repetition to rewire ur thoughts, create different neuropathways, to experience a new reality.
neuroplasticity is the ability of neuronetworks in the brain to change thru growth reorganization. it is when the brain is rewired to function in someway that differs from how it previously functioned.
neuroplasticity is the reason why we r able to grow, and change and learn new things.
repetition creates long term memory by eliciting or reenacting strong chemical interactions at the synapsis of ur neuron.
neurogenesis is the continuous development of new neurons in the brain. (it only stops when ur dead)
think of it like a plant, if u stop watering the plant it'll die. its similar with our thoughts, if we stop thinking the same thoughts and start thinking different ones, our old self and thoughts would die and a new one would be created.
the definition of an assumption is a thing that is accepted as true or certain to happen without proof. the brain works thru repetition so thats why repeating thoughts can create new energy, and a new reality.
this post will include affirmations that i use on a day-to-day basis, and in general things that i do for my god-tier self concept <3
tier one : AFFIRMATIONS (thoughts i frequently have)
໒꒱ ⋆゚i know for a fact that i have all my desires because i am god
໒꒱ ⋆゚i know for a fact that i have all my desires because i am the creator
໒꒱ ⋆゚i am the source
໒꒱ ⋆゚i have perfect self concept
໒꒱ ⋆゚im on the pedastal
໒꒱ ⋆゚i get everything i want because i say so
໒꒱ ⋆゚i am (insert desired traits)
໒꒱ ⋆゚i am a master manifestor
໒꒱ ⋆゚my manifesting abilities are unmatched
໒꒱ ⋆゚i am the star in every room that i stand in (nicki minaj)
໒꒱ ⋆゚everything goes my way
໒꒱ ⋆゚i have everything i want because i said so
໒꒱ ⋆゚everything in life exists to serve me
໒꒱ ⋆゚i mold my reality the way i want to
໒꒱ ⋆゚im limitless
໒꒱ ⋆゚im barbie
໒꒱ ⋆゚im a literal goddess
tier two : MUSIC (song recommendations and brief science)
listening to or making music increases blood flow to brain regions that generate and control ur emotions. its called the limbic system and it "lights up" when our ears perceive music. more-so the type of music that u listen to can have an impact on ur MOOD.
໒꒱ ⋆゚big difference - nicki minaj - THIS SONG HAS SO MANY GOOD AFFIRMATIONS IN IT. i literally catch myself singing it to myself in my head and its so productive bcuz im implenting self concept while listening to good quality music
໒꒱ ⋆゚queencard - (G)IDLE - this song is all about empowerment and its so catchy so i 10/10 reccomend it
໒꒱ ⋆゚princess diana - ice spice - im thick cuz i be eatin oats
໒꒱ ⋆゚deli - ice spice - literally any song by ice spice is such an amazing manifesting tool
໒꒱ ⋆゚thot sh*t - megan thee stallion - i love love love megan's music
other artists like britney spears, flo milli, ariana grande, black pink, and beyoncé are artists that helped my self concept
tier three : IMPLEMENTATION (how i implemented my mentality so that its set in stone)
i have a habit of while im in my bed (in the state akin to sleep) of just whispering to myself and vaunting about my self concept. and then i go to sleep in that state of being and its just amazing
i'd listen to my playlist ab self concept and sing in the mirror the lyrics word for word while admiring myself
acting. as. if.
the key thing was CONSTANTLY reminding myself bcuz the concept of a self concept was so foreign to me at one point so back when my self concept was weak, whenever something undesirable would come up in my reality my self concept would constantly fluctuate and then i'd wonder why im not getting the results i wanted.
repetition is KEY
now its just like second nature, now what were once affirmations that i repeated to myself consciously, became thoughts that my brain generated subconsciously.