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27 + agender + bi + he/they/it + (mostly) sub
this is a side-blog, so i follow/like from my main
if you want me to tag any specific kinks/triggers, all you need to do is ask
venmo is @ ttme123 if you want to treat me💅🏽
You're going to fuck me and I have no choice? oh nooo please dont do that. I totalllyyyy am not dripping at the thought of you forcing me to my knees
very normal thinking abt cock twitching and pulsing while their balls tighten n flex from pumping load after load deep inside. very normal thinking abt them groaning while they give me a creampie they can’t resist fucking in deeper. very normal thinking abt feeling sore and stretched when they finally pull out and a string of their cum connects from their fat tip to my poor abused hole cause their cock still doesn’t wanna let go. yup very normal
Oh to be forced against the nearest surface and fucked hard, trying to push them away but easily failing, especially if you're on your front, arms held behind your back, unable to do anything but *maybe* kick as they have their way with you, breeding you and filling you with your cum.
*maybe* they'll mutter into your ear that they're going to cum, just to feel that extra bit of struggle from you, feel your cunt clench around them in fear because he has no protection, you aren't on birth control, you don't want to get pregnant, and that just spurs them on, fucking you harder until they cum, and maybe they'll leave you like that, cum dripping down your thighs, or maybe they'll fuck you a while longer till they're certain you've been bred.
Or maybe they don't tell you, just cumming into you and feel you jerk in surprise as they fill you, pinning you down harder as they continue to fuck you till they're satisfied
If you have ever known anyone with a kink for being hit, or beat up, or raped and you're okay with them, you also gotta be okay with the people who's kink it is to do the hitting, the beating, or the raping. At the end of the day, we're adults playing pretend, and that's it.
my royalty kink has been going crazy lately…
i just wanna be a cute, innocent, pure prince who’s never had a personal knight before. when i’m finally assigned one, he takes an interest in me right away… always teasing me for my size, overpowering me in our roughhousing often.. the king scolds us for being so boyish, but we really are just two boys filled with hormones. him, more than i..
his teasing starts to escalate to flirting, a protective hand always on my back and he often tilts my chin up to look me in the eye. i’m the prince, he can’t treat me that way!! but, he does say it’s cute when he gets me all riled up like that..
one night he finds me pleasing myself, my dainty hand down my boxers in my resting quarters.. though, i can’t seem to make myself feel good, too inexperienced to know what i’m doing. my annoyed whines and moans go straight to his crotch, and he can’t hold himself back any longer.
it’s only a split second before he’s on top of me, in my own bed, a gentle yet firm hand on my waist. he’s double my size, making me squeeze my thighs together in both fear and arousal.
need some help, my prince? he asks, his large hand playing with the hem of my boxers as a means to ask for permission. just his touch alone is enough to make me dizzy and brainless enough to say yes, god, yes..
good boy, he whispers to me as i whimper, his fingers circling my clit, slowly and steadily. i’ve never felt this good before, my small hands unable to provide such a strong sensation.
please, i cry, my thighs trembling already. please, my knight.. 🩵
An important thing to know about me is that if I have a crush on you, I'll give you head at the slightest provocation.
what if we were playfighting, but when you finally manage to pin me down you realize i'm not fighting back anymore, just staring back at you with a wide-eyed submissive gaze?
would you reach down to feel how wet i am and make fun of me for getting so turned on at losing the fight? or would you take advantage of my compromised position and use me for your pleasure?
maybe both?
Something so sexy about being trapped under someone much bigger as their cock grows hard and they fumble to get it into the nearest hole while I have no hope of escape
Dom guiding your hand to their bulge and telling you it’s all your fault they’re hard, showing you exactly what you do to them <3
I sent this to my husband, and learned he doesn't know what knotting is.
I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”
- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
Thinking about a Knight who has to take his Prince's virginity. It's not that he wants to defile him. (Though perhaps he has lusted after him a bit. But he would never act on it!) He would never willingly taint his Prince in such a way.
But perhaps they're under threat. The wrong type of men slipped past the guards- and they've got his Prince all tied up. But they're so merciful - they'll let the Prince go unharmed of the Knight will just do this one little thing! All he has to do is fuck his Prince's cunt, and he'll be safe. And his whole job is to keep him safe so- it's not that he wanted to do it.
But fuck...it's hard to not enjoy it. He's apologetic, of course. In fact, the apologies don't end the whole time. No matter how rough his thrusts gets. No matter how he grips him so roughly. He's so sorry. So sorry that he's using his Prince like a toy.
They never even said he had to cum inside. But when the men finally leave...all he can look at is his seed leaking out of his Prince's soiled cunt and apologize one more time.
Thinking about blackmailing you with the nudes you sent me so I can come fuck your tight little ass whenever I want while filming it. You're so helpless and you cry every time. I make you tell the camera that you love my cock.
love doing the condescending, mocking little "yeah?" to someone when i fuck them. gritting my teeth through it, feeling so much power over them.
"oh, yeah? you like that, sweetheart? yeah? yeah? you gonna cum? huh? you close already, huh?"
i genuinely love head pushing when i’m sucking dick. like yes pls make me gag n choke on ur cock!!! don’t let me breathe until u say i can! watch me go all braindead w ur cock down my throat!
it's just really apparent that people think it's okay to want pain but morally abhorrent to want to give it. sorry but the sadist gets to have fun too. it's actually pretty crucial to the process.
if I said I was going to a taekwondo class would you feel the need to tell me kicking people on the street is bad or.