Happy Tuesday everyone! I hope your week is going well so far. Itâs that time again where we get to share our Hotwifing stories and pics. And of course, I get to share another episode about the lifestyle. This time itâs all about Etiquette.
I know this is a tough subject for most men. Sorry guys, but most of you just have no clue how to treat a woman. And I can just hear the sighing already on the other endâŚ..and the rolling of eyes.; but itâs true. So consider this a lesson for all of you men who âthinkâ they have it figured out.
First off, a ladyâŚ.whether she is a Hotwife, swinger, or a vanillaâŚ..deserves to be treated like a lady. And sadly, many men assume that those who lead a more risque lifestyle should be treated like âthe whore they areâ. Ummm that would be a NO! If we lead a risque lifestyle, we may enjoy being fucked by multiple men. We may enjoy being dominated and tied up. We may enjoy dirty talk. We may enjoy being called degrading names in the bedroom. ButâŚthat does not mean you introduce yourselves as a Dick right from the start of conversation. That doesnât give you free reign to be disrespectful. I dont understand how so many men still havenât figured this part out yet. The proper etiquette when meeting, is to be a gentleman through and through.
Secondly, guysâŚletâs discuss how you introduce yourselves to those of us in the lifestyle of Hotwifing. Do NOT start your introduction with..âHey baby, I bet youd love my 12 inches â. I mean, come on guys! Even if you have 12 inches (which the vast majority of men do not)âŚ.what makes you think that introducing me immediately to it would interest me in the slightest? Just because Iâm a Hotwife? Proper etiquette in introductions should go something like thisâŚ..âHello there! My name is John Doe and I think you are beautiful!â It really is that simple. But you dont follow that comment with..âIâd love to fuck your hot wet pussy right nowâ. When i see this, you get a quick delete.
Iâd say at least 75% of the messages I receive from you men are all just not worthy of responding to. I know many other ladies here on Tumblr who can say the same thing. So guys, if youâre trying out for the Bull positionâŚyoud best get your lingo fixed first. Most experienced Bulls know that there is a form of etiquette that they have to conform to, and therefore, they get places. Like in Hotwives beds!
Its the absence of douchebaggery. The absence of cocky attitudes that are more interesting to us ladies. Remember, there is a big difference between cockiness and confidence. Also, a bit of humility plays well in your talks with a Hotwife.
So âŚ.wannabe BullsâŚlisten to my words and put them into practice. Introduce yourself gentlemanly. Always stay respectful! Listen to the Hotwife. She is your focusâŚnot You! Make your conversation about her and her beauty. Buy her drinks at the meet and greet. Open the door for her. Hold her chair when she takes a seat. Compliment her but not sexually. Do all of this and when she is ready to make it naughty and dirty and sluttyâŚ..she will let you know. Then and only then can you start thinking with the other head.
There is a proper etiquette in how you approach your Hotwife. BullsâŚ.use that etiquette and you are bound to get her panties hanging from the chandelier and her legs wrapped around your neck while you pound away at her wet pussy. Sound interesting? Now make it happen boys!
This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! đ   ~LillybGoddess
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