I need everyone to get more comfortable with hearing about non binary joy and non binary dysphoria.
No, androgynous looking non binary people are not harming you by existing and being happy with how they look.
Yes, just as binary trans people can wish their body looked different/they were born in a different body so can non binary trans people wish the same.
No, a non binary person wishing they had a feminine/masculine body and to present masc/fem is not fetishizing binary trans people.
Yes, many non binary people get euphoria from being gender non conforming and looking visibly queer or trans.
No, a non binary person not wanting to "pass" as a man or a woman doesnt mean they're more privileged or that they dont care about how they look or that they dont want any kind of social or medical transition.
Yes, dividing non binary people by their gender assignment is transphobic and will never not be.
No, genderqueer, genderfreak, genderfuck and any other gendered term that implies non binary people take pride in being non binary/outside the binary/gender non conforming is Not an insult to binary trans people and you do not get to use them to shame and be transphobic to non binary people.
Yes, implying that non binary people are less trans or that they're confused about their identity and need binary trans people to 'crack their egg' so they 'fulfill their transition' is transphobic.
No, intersex non binary people arent 'biologically non binary', they're non binary because they are non binary, being intersex doesnt make them inherently/naturally non binary, and they are not "more non binary" than perisex non binary people.
Yes, treating non binary people like their non binarinity, gender non conformigness, androgyny or general presentation is a sign that they are able to and will easily detransition is transphobic.
No, a binary trans person coming out as non binary doesnt mean they've 'detransitioned' or were manipulated by non binary people into being 'less trans'.
Yes, non binary people face misogyny and misandry, transphobia and exorsexism, transmisogyny and transandrophobia, toxic femininity and toxic masculinity, pressure to conform to gender norms and to stray as far away from them as possible.
No, non binary people are not whining for wanting to be addressed by their pronouns and the correct gendered/gender neutral terms.
Brought to you by the absolute displeasure of seeing binary trans people saying that androgynous non binary people shouldnt share their happiness in being themselves and binary trans people saying that non binary people wishing they had been born into a body with certain genitalia/traits and present in a gnc way is "fetishizing" binary trans people and that trans non binary people arent really trans.
