Things I have learned from my personal experience with pregnancy, labor, and postpartum:
Pregnancy is uncomfortable but looking back on it, itâs such a blip in my life. Itâs very temporary.
My baby kicking me constantly was annoying until I didnât feel her kick for a few hours, then I worried something was wrong with her (she was just sleeping).
My daughter looked exactly like her ultrasound images and 3D images, and her behavior outside the womb was very similar to inside the womb.
Maternity clothes are great for the weeks after birth.
Labor was pretty chill until contractions ramped up. Epidural came in clutch. I felt nothing while pushing.
I personally didnât feel connected to my daughter when she was born. It took like a week or two for me to feel any maternal bond to her.
Labor wasnât as bad as recovery â that part sucked. But again, so temporary. I felt so much better a week after delivery.
Breastfeeding is hard and painful at the start.
Pregnancy, labor, and recovery really are just a blip in my life now.
What is forever is being her mom â raising her, nursing her, putting her needs before mine.
For those facing unintended or unwanted pregnancies, just remember pregnancy and labor are temporary. If youâre not ready for the forever of caring for a child, someone else is and would love to adopt that baby. My best friend was one of those people and her adopted daughter is so loved and Iâm excited for my daughter to grow up with her.
It feels intimidating that Iâm now a parent to my daughter forever, but I donât want to live life without her.
































