HOUSE OF THE DRAGON Season 3 Episode 5 — "Unbowed and Unbent"
The whole house got mommy issues bro😭
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HOUSE OF THE DRAGON Season 3 Episode 5 — "Unbowed and Unbent"
The whole house got mommy issues bro😭
Addam is truly one of the only characters on the show who’s just a really nice and decent person
"House Of The Dragon 3x05:Unbowed and Unbent"
Bro, get your mommy issues ot of hereeee😭
"The best and the worst." So one of us is like to live in song. "And a few who were a bit of both. Like him." – A Feast for Crows
HOUSE OF THE DRAGON | Season 3, Episode 5, "Unbowed and Unbent"
Omg he just can not stop talking, can be? Stfu you selfish whore
Random choice to make these two catty gossipers but I do kinda love it. Nobody else is having any fun around here
Absolute divas
Ykw, i dont even remember if the lord manderly was in the black council in the books (probably not) but he's a fucking vibe, and now another diva is added, the lady frey. We didnt get yuri with sabitha frey but we got the judgmental duo-ness.
i think my biggest gripe with hotd is that it seems once a character dies, there’s almost no mention of them ever again. maybe for an episode or two they’ll be mentioned depending on their “importance” (in quotations because all the deaths have importantance) but other than that, gone.
harwin strong? i wanna say brought up for one episode, maybe two, then never spoken about again. laena? nothing. laenor (even though he’s alive in the show)? nothing. lucerys after season 2? nothing. jaehaerys? nothing. rhaenys? for a bit because of meleys, then again with corlys in s3 ep4, otherwise nothing. jace? feels like nothing after he haunted rhaenyra for like one scene.
my memory is probably shoddy, so take all of that with a grain of salt.
it’s like- how are we going to pretend like they didn’t exist after their death? so many of these issues happened BECAUSE someone died, you’d think they’d be brought up more.
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If you notice that a man is respectful of women, please don't assume that it's because he was "raised right".
He could have been raised by abusive parents, struggled to understand right and wrong because of them, then figured it out after finding a better source of information and role models.
He easily could have become that way despite how he was raised, not because of how he was raised.
the concept of helaena being pregnant during blood and cheese the concept of her offering her necklace because offering her life would mean the death of her unborn child the concept of her probably worrying that the stress of the funeral ceremony would make her miscarry the concept of her refusing to go into battle not only because she didn’t want to hurt anyone but because she didn’t want to risk her unborn child the concept of her not telling anyone because she wanted it to be just for her
TG on Criston Cole: "He's not the step dad he's the Dad Who Stepped Up! 😍"
Criston Cole in F&B: Literally Humbert Humbert (or, at best, Woody Allen).
Afterward, he gave the seven-year-old Princess Rhaenyra the victor’s laurel and begged for her favor to wear in the joust.
“Ser Criston protects the princess from her enemies, but who protects the princess from Ser Criston?” *
*said at a point when Rhaenyra is the same age as Dolores Haze btw.
all this dany vs jon as if they’re not the wokers of westeros and essos, and won’t join forces to spread a wave of woke so intense cersei lannister will disintegrate on spot :(
I hate people using the excuse "well, why shouldn't alicent want her child to sit on the throne?"
Emm, alright, why shouldn't aemma want her child to sit on the throne? She literally died for that sole reason, to birth a child that would sit on the iron throne, and she did. She birthed rhaenyra. Her mama would be proud.
Viserys made Baelon his heir over his grown daughter and he only named Rhaenyra heir to replace Daemon an uncle -- not a son and not because he believed daughters should inherit over sons. Viserys himself set the precedent.
So when Alicent was forced to marry the king, why wouldn’t she believe that if she gave him a son, that son would become heir? If Aemma’s newborn son was automatically considered Rhaenyra’s replacement, why wouldn’t Alicent expect the same for her own living sons after everything she was forced to sacrifice?
The logic in this post falls apart on three massive false equivalences, completely rewriting how succession actually works in Westeros.
First, comparing Rhaenyra to Baelon makes absolutely no historical sense. Viserys didn't name Baelon heir to arbitrarily bypass a grown daughter: he did it because the Great Council of 101 AC had just heavily favored the male line over Rhaenys. Viserys was simply adhering to the realm's current decision. However, when Viserys later named Rhaenyra his successor, he explicitly broke that cycle, overturned the 101 AC precedent, and forced the lords of the realm to swear sacred, binding oaths of fealty to her. Viserys then spent the next twenty years refusing to change his mind, meaning the actual, standing royal precedent at the time of his death was Rhaenyra.
Second, the idea that "if Aemma’s newborn son replaced Rhaenyra, Alicent’s sons should too" completely misunderstands the timeline. Rhaenyra was never named heir before Aemma died. She was only elevated to official heir after both Aemma and the newborn baby passed away, specifically as an emergency measure to keep Daemon away from the throne. Rhaenyra’s status as heir was never an unstable placeholder waiting for a boy it was an absolute royal decree designed to settle the succession permanently. Trying to retroactively apply standard Andal birth order rules to an active, permanent royal decree is an exercise in pure delusion.
Third, Alicent can "expect" whatever she wants based on Andal customs, but she married into a Targaryen absolute monarchy where the King's word is law. Viserys rejected every single opportunity to replace Rhaenyra with Aegon. Expecting a decades long, explicit royal decree to just magically evaporate because you gave birth to a boy isn't a "right" it's wishful thinking that required a treasonous, middle of the night coup to actually enforce.
HOTD with book ages vs show casting
It's interesting to think about how fans perceptions of characters would be radically different if we had book accurate casting.
Emily Carey (aged 18-19 here) is perfectly age-accurate to play an 18-year-old Alicent.
Meanwhile Paddy Considine, at 48, was pushing it a fair bit to play a 29-year-old Viserys.
For reference, Tom Glynn-Carney was 28 while filming Season 2.
So not that he's my fancast for young Paddy or anything, but let's be real. You would all be writing self-insertxVizzy fics. Alicent would have no more agency in the marriage if Viserys was his book age than his show age, but fan perceptions of Viserys would definitely be different if he was played by a young and attractive actor (no offense of course to Paddy, he is serving Targaryen realness etc.)
Or look at Fabian Frankel. He would have been around 27/28 while filming season 1. You were shipping Alicole back when Emily Carey was still in the role, after all.
And then there's Rhaenyra, who was 8 during the events of the first episode, and 9 when Viserys married Alicent.
Milly Alcock, roughly 21 here, is just a tad older than 8-year-old Rhaenyra.
Amelie Child-Villiers would have been 12-13 while filming Rings of Power, so older than Rhaenyra at the very beginning but can pass for younger.
To anyone who thinks a child Rhaenyra wouldn't have been interesting to follow, er... have you read ASOIAF? There are quite a few prominent child POV characters, you may have noticed. And Alicent doesn't automatically become uninteresting if she's 18 rather than 15... or 40.
I mean I get it, Rhaenycent shippers, you prefer the sapphic dynamic in HOTD... and it is absolutely fine to prefer something! But it isn't inherently deeper or more interesting. It isn't objectively better. BFFesbians can be just as one-note as you claim step-mother/daughter relationships are with the wrong writing, and step-mother/daughter relationships can be richly complicated.
Now, I've already gone through the absolute horror that is book Rhaenyra and book Criston
Criston Cole was 22 when he met a 7-year-old Rhaenyra, 23 during the events of the first episode. So Fabian at 27 (pictured here) is a a few years older, but his age gap with Amelie is the same as Criston and Rhaenyra. And yikes. This is why 'Criston the Dad who Stepped Up' posts make me throw up in my mouth. (Also it is so weird that Criston is never recast after the time jump even though the actor is younger than Emma D'Arcy - Criston is 47 during the Dance).
And yes, Daemon has a similar age gap with Rhaenyra
Daemon was 24 during the events of the first episode. Though I would add that Daemon wasn't, contrary to popular opinion by greens, grooming Rhaenyra when she was a young child. There isn't really any indication that he paid particular attention to his 8-year-old niece - he was mostly sulking on Dragonstone in a relationship with an adult Mysaria for starters, and then he was off in the Stepstones till Viserys and Alicent's 5th wedding anniversary tourney.
From then, no I'm not in favour of a 30-year-old Daemon and a 15-year-old Rhaenyra... I am not in favour of childbrideros. But considering he'd been absent from her life between the ages of 8-15, and there is no indication he ever paid any attention to her before then... it is less creepy than Criston Cole being Rhaenyra's shadow from the age of 7, with rumours of a sexual relationship beginning at a point when she would have been 12-14.
By Westeros standards Daemon unfortunately falls into the 'culturally normalised and could have a whole lot worse' category (and tbf, considering the popularity of ships like SanSan...). This isn't a pro-daemyra or anti-daemyra post, I'm not really going to go into their relationship or whether or not it's healthy here, just clarifying that Daemon isn't the Humbert Humbert of this story - that would be Criston (not being Humbert Humbert of course is a very low bar).
And when it comes to the casting and how that impacts audience perceptions... Matt Smith at 39 was too old for both 24 and 30 year-old Daemon (though exquisite in the role of course).
Considering how his haters condemn Daemon for his actions in episode 1 while excusing Aegon for rape and Aemond for murdering Luke (and burning alive many many other children)... Let's have a look at an age-appropriate actor for 24-year-old Daemon and see if that changes anything.
Ooh would you look at that, Ewan Mitchell at 24 while filming S1.
Or Tom at 28 during S2, just two years younger than 30-year-old Daemon. With a face that wins hearts over rape. You telling me if Daemon was his book age you wouldn't be excusing his actions? You wouldn't be taking all the rape apology arguments Aegon stans use and applying them to Daemon's seduction of a 15-year-old Rhaenyra?
Especially if you still had him acting alongside 21-year-old Milly, who was supposed to pass for a 14 to 18-year-old Rhaenyra.
Hopefully though no one would be excusing a younger Daemon played by Tom Glynn-Carney if he had been put against an actual 14/15 year-old like Evie Allen. Who would have been a more age-accurate (and disturbing) casting for Rhaenyra...
Oh wait, how old was Maddie Evans (Dyana) while filming S1 again? 15? Never mind.
Casting teenagers in such scenarios is of course a difficult business - above all the first priority is to protect underage actors. Milly was well-suited to convincingly play Rhaenyra from early teens to late teens, and it's impossible to constantly re-cast for absolute age-accuracy across the time jumps. But it does impact perception - while the first priority is to protect underage actors, the casting of older actors to play teenagers does contribute to society's perceptions of teenage girls in particular as mature adults, rather than children.
Meanwhile the attractiveness of adult male actors - and the younger they are - does indeed shape what some audiences are willing to forgive or excuse. Reactions to Daemon and Viserys by fans (especially green fans) would be radically different if they were cast with their book ages - sorry to say it greens, but your objections to their characters is in large part due to the fact that you are not attracted to DILFS (or leprosy!). And even if we still aged up Rhaenyra like the show does when she first met Criston Cole, reactions to him during the Dance would be vastly different if he was played by a book-accurate 47-year-old. Again, Fabian Frankel is younger than Emma D'arcy.
Of course, the bar for age accurate casting is clear in the way we were supposed to accept Olivia Cooke playing Tom Glynn Carney's mother (they are two years apart).
Because again if Alicent had been 18 at the start of the show and 41 at the start of the dance she would have ceased to be an interesting character or something I guess. Because no one wants an older woman (ew gross!) as the series co-lead alongside a non-binary lead. And because mother/stepdaughter relationships are inherently one-note while BFFesbians are inherently rich, deep and complex... apparently. It has nothing to do with, you know, the writing quality.
Final Round!!! Aegon and Aemond picking fights with kids
Harvey Sadler here is 8/9 years old when he played young Lucerys. Which makes this baby face 2-3 years older than... a six-year-old Book Jacaerys when 10-year-old Aemond was 'pummelling him savagely'.
So yeah, "3 against 1" - the oldest of those 3 being younger than Harvey Sadler. And honestly, 6-year-old Jace has my undying respect for the sheer balls on him to go up against a bigger kid twice his age and size. Does he care that Aemond has just claimed the largest dragon in the world? No, he pushed over his baby brother!
"But it's more interesting if Aemond and Jace are peers" Maybe. If HOTD gave Jace equal screentime and character development perhaps. But they didn't. Any value added by making the antagonist interesting and sympathetic is cancelled out if the cost is ignoring the protagonist or making the protagonist boring (especially in a family civil war drama!).
"But sympathetic Aemond is much more interesting" I am not arguing against making him sympathetic. He is still a kid here, and he still has Aegon to bully him and earn him pity points and trigger a cycle of bullying as he takes out his grievances on others who don't deserve it etc. You don't need to age up his victims or remove sympathy or screentime from them. Sympathy doesn't have to be zero-sum.
Leo Hart was 13 at the time of filming, so the perfect age to play a 12-year-old Jace during the dinner scene where a grown-ass Aegon picks a fight with him over asking Helaena for a dance. Also an accurate age to play a 13-year-old Luke when Aemond murders him.
Elliot Grihault who played teenaged Luke was meanwhile actually closer in age to Book Jace during the dance than Harry Collett (no offence Harry, you still made a more believable teenager than 24-year-old Jon Snow did).
And lest we forget Aegon's true nemesis... 13 year old girls on tiny dragons 'no bigger than a horse'. No offence to a 24-year-old Bethany Antonia, but Shani Smethurst at 12 was perfectly cast to play Baela during the Dance and absolutely would have been the next Arya if this show didn't hate black girls.
But hey, at least we got adult Baela saying "I am blood and fire" while the script struggles (*cough doesn't bother) to find her anything to really do. That sure is an improvement over book Baela acting out, causing chaos, kissing kitchen boys and crying to save them from punishment, grieving alone on dragonstone after the gullet, trying desperately to get the adults around her to believe her suspicions about Grey Ghost, wrecking Aegon on her tiny dragon, being forced to grow up quickly under captivity and fiercely defending her rescuers from execution.
there’s no way some fuckers genuinely think jon snow can beat this level of prince that was promised aura.
people literally WORSHIPPED her.
my queen, i miss you everyday 😩
because Ormund Hightower getting in his teenage nephew’s face and coke ranting about the glory of the Hightower Reconquista that he has made up in his head that they are divinely ordained to accomplish to because of their special blood and no one understands but them IS exactly how Daemon was moving with fifteen year-old Rhaenyra in the first season of this show. kind of insane