Just My Thoughts

#I would be the nakedest nakey to ever be naked here

They can’t be serious.

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I was thinking….. Remember how I was talking about how they seem to not have a reciprocal relationship and that the girlfriend perpetrates heteronormativity and social norms within their relationship? Also, how we see that Tish clearly likes tricking on the woman and seems to perpetuate the same thing lol. What if she thinks this is what masc women do in relationships—which would explain the whole acting hard around men and masculine presenting women, and trying to mirror how she’s thinks they act. That may also explain her reposts about the girlfriend and maybe even those sexual videos of them.—Ion know, maybe I’m trippin’ lol.

kiyanextdoor

Riko you definitely not tripping at all I see the same thing

Letitia doesn’t have to publicly acknowledge the lgbt community if she doesn’t want to. That is not her whole identity. I’m gay and I don’t wave flags around and let everyone know in my everyday life. Because it’s not who I am, it’s just a small detail of my life. Honestly ppl don’t know unless I explicitly tell them. But if I don’t talk about it that doesn’t mean that I’m hiding or internalizing homophobia. It’s just not that big of a deal, just like being straight isn’t a big deal to straight people and straight celebs don’t have to explicitly thank their straight fans. That would be wierd af. So some gay people just don’t need to say anything about their queerness because it isn’t a second thought to them. It’s a part of them but it’s not their entire existence. And I’m ok if that’s how Tish views things.

Now should she at least acknowledge her fans as a whole? Yes absolutely she should. She ignores tf outta us until she needs an ego boost because something isn’t going right in her personal life and she needs that validation from her fans. She loves to milk us to boost her own ego but she could really care less about any us of. Gay or straight. And that I don’t agree with because we really do boost her up every single time, and we get no sort of acknowledgment in return. I think it’s wierd and dismissive and not humble of her. The only fans she really acknowledges is the kids and maybe the people who stand outside waiting for an autograph. Because she can view them as just “fans” and just an isolated moment in time where she has already mentally prepared space and energy in her brain to acknowledge and deal with at the event and then she can leave and never have to interact with them again. But online is a whole different story. She will never engage with us just for the sake of engaging. Some celebs go live to talk to fans because they actually give af to have a conversation and let their fans get to know them for real. Letitia only likes to isolate herself and doesn’t want to be perceived unless it’s under her control and timing. Hell she even does that with her friends and family. That’s just how she is. So I don’t think she needs to shout out her gay fans I think she just needs to engage with her fans as a whole. Like let’s start there. But we gotta wait til pigs fly for that.. somebody give porky a red bull!

I’m not at all expecting Tish to be some queer icon. I must be smoking m3th if I did lol. I don’t think that most people want Tish to make being gay her “personality.” This is a conversation that is coming up due to the fact that she’s a celebrity whose career is heavily supported by LGBTQ+ fans. Acknowledgement doesn’t automatically equate, “Hey guys, just so you know I’m gay and I love women.” It isn’t the same as centering your whole life around it. I’m a firm believer that people don’t have to “come out” to the public before living in their truth. We don’t see straight people do it, so why should we? Viability an acknowledgement carry a different weight for everyone due to history of straight people not facing exclusion. And also, I don’t make being gay the main focus of my identity, even though it shapes part of my everyday experience as a Black woman. Some people don’t know until I tell them either. Yes, it’s a part of my identity, not my personality (I for one don’t know what that looks like). I’m Black before I am anything else. But it still doesn’t change the fact that I try to be active in protecting my identity. Being active looks different for many people. It could be in the streets at protests or sharing posts that advocate for the legalization of queer rights. You have people who happen to be gay, and you have people who happen to be gay and active in advocacy. Neither is inherently better than the other. We have to remember that Tish is someone who was wrapped up in a religious belief that made it feel like she needed to suppress who she was. That’s where the want of “acknowledgment” and where some of the speculation comes from. It’s the question of whether or not Tish suffers from internalized homophobia based on how people have seen her navigate her sexuality. Her life and anyone else’s is unique to us in many aspects. Nothing is the exact same. Obviously we don’t know her, therefore I could be wrong. I hope this makes sense.

Also, I agree with your second part!!

Mmhmmm!

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who feels this way about Tish. I still love her and want the best for her. I’m still a fan. But got damn talk about a character flaw! She’s got many. But I’m still a fan and will always love her. She’s like the crazy uncle in the family, we just put up with the mess but still very much want him around lol

I mean, I see what you’re saying…

But for me, definitely I feel like, I wish she was different. I’m not a fan anymore- as long as she’s how she is.

Is she talented? Yes. But someone can have talent and I can appreciate and acknowledge that without being a fan. Thats just me, personally.

She was so condescending to those people who were being respectful and pointing out her error and asking her to have consideration for others and acknowledge that her platform had influence and it’s not safe to spread misinformation because it really does affect peoples lives.. and she’s all yea yea yada yada, I didn’t watch it or I’m entitled to questions things. And my Bible says your wrong type of attitude. Very self centered and dense on her part. She definitely doesn’t know how to read a room. An apology would have sufficed.

Exactly!

It’s like nobody was attacking her character or saying she should be recast until she started defending herself and that video. It was wild😩

It was a genuine question why don’t you just unfollow her.

I get you, I’m asking in response because I’m genuinely confused: What does following or not following someone on socials have to do with talking about them on a personal blogging platform?

Like can you explain why that’s apparently correlated in your opinion?

She can’t possibly be ready for marriage. she was just on a radio show a few years ago talking about finding a husband! She is just now starting to accept her self as is, and allowing herself to date who she really wants. Her previous partners and current partner are just trials lowkey. Maybe even practice? Seeing as how she goes about each relationship as if she copied and pasted all her moves. She barely even knows how to date correctly, so it doesn’t surprise me that she’s not looking for an equally yoked partner right now. If she found the one right now, that girl would probably see the red flags and Tish would run her off. Cuz the right one ain’t gonna put up with half of her nonsense. And I think Tish knows that deep down. So she gets girls that she knows she’s not gonna be with forever, and she’s just going with the motions to satisfy her own desires. It’s easy to avoid yourself and not focus on your own growth while mindlessly indulging in a meaningless relationship with a young naive fan who doesn’t know any better. Tish would never date her age or bracket because with age comes wisdom and discernment and self respect and boundaries. And with money comes self sufficiency not codependency. And Angel lacks completely so she’s the perfect match atm. Won’t last, and definitely not marriage material. Neither of them are.

For people who hadn’t seen some of the tweets and discourse…

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Mind you, she fired her PR team after this. Her reluctance on taking accountability after first being told that the video promoted transphobia tells me everything that I need to know. Of course people would call someone transphobic if they refuse to acknowledge the transphobia that they’re promoting. This whole time I thought that she acknowledged it after being told the first time and apologized for it, then people kept calling it out. Now I know that I was wrong, so this is me taking accountability for not being aware of that. I hate to say it, but I’m not surprised by any of this. She has a lot of inner work that needs to be done. I’m icked out.

This was truly something. Like girl what in thee ever loving fuck 😭😭😭

#and this ain’t even all her replies smh

I know right 😖

Why the fuck she fire her team for

She didn’t like the way they handled things I guess

For people who hadn’t seen some of the tweets and discourse…

Mind you, she fired her PR team after this. Her reluctance on taking accountability after first being told that the video promoted transphobia tells me everything that I need to know. Of course people would call someone transphobic if they refuse to acknowledge the transphobia that they’re promoting. This whole time I thought that she acknowledged it after being told the first time and apologized for it, then people kept calling it out. Now I know that I was wrong, so this is me taking accountability for not being aware of that. I hate to say it, but I’m not surprised by any of this. She has a lot of inner work that needs to be done. I’m icked out.