Is it normal for boys/men to follow Instagram account about girls/women almost naked?
Cause I just found out my fiance is following half-naked women. And it hurts me, the time I saw that notification that his request was accepted. I could not help but open it due to curiosity. And it turns out that the notif was for an account with all almost naked women. I reviewed the history he liked some poses (i guess? not really good at doing investigation though) but I felt so betrayed by him knowing that I have a lot of insecurities about my body. what do I do?? I think he is fantasizing about other women's bodies. We seldomly have sex he always says he's tired, he's not in the mood. And made is kidney stone a reason for not having sex, well probably it may be the reason but when I am asking for sex he neglects my needs. And sleep it off most of the time.
How? How can I be upfront with him, I want to understand him about these things when I don't know where to start, how to start the conversation cause even just thinking about it hunts and hurt me. should I just send him away so I can think through our relationship? Just send him to his mom as his mom suggested. So we could figure things out on what type of girl he likes, Or am I still the one he's looking for...
DAMN! THIS UPSETS ME SO FUCKING MUCH THAT I JUST WANT TO CURSE AT HIM RIGHT NOW WAKE HIM UP IN HIS SLEEP. AND START AN ARGUMENT WITH HIM.
Or should I just keep this down inside me and just wait for this to burst like a balloon. I want to talk to my friends but I'm afraid they might not understand and just say looking at pictures of other women almost naked is normal. Well, I do get that watching porn is normal but looking at pictures??? what do you get with it?
I don't even want to lay by his side right now, cause I feel every touch he might be thinking of other women.