INSECURITIES
One of the greatest journey in life is overcoming insecurity and learning to truly not give a shit - Unknown-
Insecurity kills relationship its either “friendship or romantic relationship”. I know its hard to not get insecure because this world is just not so fare. Some people are love and I am not, some people are wise and I am not, some people are good and I am not, some people are talented and I am not, some people are valued and worthy and I am not.
People who feels this way are the ones who has gone through a lot. Their confidence has been taken away from them. They feel like they will “NEVER BE ENOUGH” and “NOT BE LOVED”. They think that there is nothing in this world that they can be good at because everything they do fails. But I tell you what there will always be someone who will hurt you, belittle your accomplishments, put you down, gossip about you, tells you that you are not enough, that you are nothing and you are worthless. But it’s not true because you alone and God knows who you truly are and what you are capable of. Lets say we cant avoid those people but as soon as you realize that God is your best friend, your counselor and your teacher. Then you will see how He works and He will always stand beside you, He will fight for you, He will bless you with things that you thought is impossible to have and happen.
I have lost a friend because I never understood what insecurity can do to you. I got broken hearted when I found out that our friendship is partly a LIE, this friend told me things that never really happened (I don’t know what she wanted to prove to me, but it did not work ). This friend of mine told some of my friends about me that is not even true. I gave up in our friendship many times, but there is always something in me that is holding back. Our friendship has given me a lot of heartaches but I have never ever tried to think of giving up on it, NOT TILL NOW. I don’t get how a person can treat you a best friend but is not honest to you with everything. It feels like you two are on a race of who will be the first one to be a successful or whatever. I just don’t get it that I came to a point of me hating her. But its absolutely not a good reaction and a word to tell her or make her feel. I could’ve calm down and just understand the situation and understand her because I made mistake as well. “It happened and surely will never happen again. “
Losing a friend (best friend) is not a joke, it hurts, But sometimes we have to let go of people in our lives even if it pains you, but you have to in able for the both of you to GROW APART.
“See the INSECURITY inside our friendship knocked us out. It could’ve have been avoided, it could’ve been settled if we talked about everything and understand each other, but again it is too late now, “THE INSECURITY WON”.
All of us are insecure with many things, but it will always depend on how we would deal with them. DEAL WITH THEM, DON’T LET THEM STAY AND DON’T LET THEM POISON YOUR MIND. You are VALUED and LOVED by God and even to the people that surrounds you.
If you know someone or if you have been dealing your insecurities please be patient with yourself/with them. They have gone through a lot. They are trying hard to overcome their insecurities.
I Pray that God will give us a heart that understands and a heart that Loves no matter who/what they are. I am so blessed that GOD’s LOVE SECURES me everyday. :D #immaturenomore #growingup #knowingyourlimits #INSECURITIES #Overcominginsecuritues
