BabyDoll

My BDSM blog

[babydoll-dani]

My Supportive Dom

It’s an amazing feeling having a supportive Dom, one that is there for you no matter what.

I have recently just started my own home business, which has be extra busy, unable to complete my tasks and not much time for daddy. But he has been so amazing about it, he has been very supportive of my business and he understands I haven’t been an able to do a lot of my tasks. He knows I’ll catch up when I finally get a breather.

At the end of my day he is there with open arms, I get to snuggle on his lap and nuzzle into his chest and just be for the spare few moments I have before it’s time to go to bed and then start again.

He doesn’t mention how I still haven’t don’t my tasks, or how I’m 10 days behind on my daily questions. No. He tells me how proud he is of me, how proud he is that I’m killing my ass to get my business up and running, still raising and spending time with my kids and having time for him.

I’m falling hard

[babydoll-dani]

How important is Aftercare?

The answer to that one, is very important. It is more important than the play session itself.

That high we feel after a play session is amazing, and its so intense. The higher something is, the harder and faster you fall. The drop always comes, a lot call this subdrop, but some, especially those new to the lifestyle don’t understand that a dom can also experience what’s known as a domdrop.

This drop we feel after a session is our hormones dropping, usually a sharp drop in endorphins, cortisol, epinephrine, and adrenaline. These are your feel good hormones, if you want more detail I suggest googling them. Usually the higher you feel, the faster and harder you fall. This is my personal experience. Subdrop can be physically, emotionally or even both. I generally suffer from a headache and dizziness not long after my session as well as feeling depressed.

Aftercare is a method used to help prevent this drop, or at least lessen it. Every Dom should be familiar with aftercare, and if he has no idea what it is, or doesn’t think its important I suggest running as far away as possible as fast as you can.

Before any play session, the dom and the sub need to think about leaving enough time to complete aftercare before both parties need to leave. Even if this means having a 30minute play session and an hour aftercare. I like to do aftercare with my Dom and something I do solo. I like to allow two hours for my solo aftercare as a movie is apart of my aftercare.

My solo aftercare routine consists of a hot shower, something to eat (usually something bigger than a snack) a movie (generally a chick flick) tea or kombucha (depending on the weather) and some chocolate. I will do this when my Dom isn’t able to be present or after a online play session, adding in conversation with my Dom about my feelings and how I felt about the session.

So remember aftercare is important and always allow enough time at the end of the session, otherwise I promise you will feel subdrop.

And also have your own aftercare routine, while the dom should help, you should also have something in place for yourself.

[babydoll-dani]

My Domme Side

Have you ever had someone who naturally brings out a certain side of you?

I know I write a lot about my submissive side and my Daddy, but I do also have a domme side. She isn’t out often but I do have one or two people that just bring her out, and it’s generally only with other females.

Some find it weird, that I can’t get into domme space with a male partner, but as soon as I’m with a female partner my domme side comes out, and she does have a bit of a male personal.

So there is this woman I know, from around, that every time I’m around her, which isn’t that often, my domme side likes to come out, and naughty thoughts run through my head. My domme is more nurturing, more a mommy domme, but I am also sadistic. Which makes sense as my submissive side is a masochist.

Just everything about her makes me want to devour her, her lips, her eyes. Just everything, I don’t know what it is about her but she just brings it out so naturally and easily.

[babydoll-dani]

Who do you belong to Babydoll?

So this morning I woke up panting, I had another dream about my daddy, So I thought I’d share my wonderful sex dream with everyone.... and because Daddy asked me to write about it....

I was standing around talking to a few people at the party as daddy had gone to the restroom, being me and the social butterfly I was I just started making conversations with anyone I saw.

Until a guy comes over to me and starts flirting, I mean he was good looking, but he wasn’t daddy. This arrogant man had placed his hands on my waist and was whispering sweet nothings into my ear. Being the nice person I am, I finished off my drink “oh I need a new one” I say sweetly before I turn around and start to walk away, looking up and into the eyes of a very angry, very wolf like daddy.

As I walk over to daddy, I could see the look in his eyes, he was angry, he was annoyed and his wolf was present. I bite my lip as I think about what’s going to happen. As I reach daddy he was glaring at me, I felt his hand being placed on the small of my back, another hand being placed behind my neck, grabbing me firmly as he looks over my shoulder, I guess he was glaring at the arrogant asshole. Suddenly I felt his lips on mine, forcefully, possessively kissing me, making a point to the other man that I was his. This was for him, this was for that arrogant asshole who tried to hit on me.

I feel his lips move away from mine, his eyes on me as I feel the coldness on my neck where his hand used to be. Feeling his hand on the small of my back nudge me forward I slowly walk as he leads me out of the party room and towards the powder room.

As we enter the powder room, I walk in and stand in the small room as I turn to face him, his eyes burning into mine as he locks the door and looks at me with intensity. He walks over to me, I could feel my heart racing, I could feel my panties damp just at the dominance that was oozing from him right now.

“Who do you belong to babydoll?” His husky voice hits my ears like sex music

“You, daddy” I say softly, seeing the smirk on his lips form.

“I think you need reminding babydoll” he says with a hint of amusement in his voice. I could feel my core ache with anticipation.

As daddy takes a step closer to me he spins me around, I place my hands on the bench in front of me and look up at him through the mirror in front of me. I could feel his body against mine, almost making me moan just at the contact. The warmth from his fingers as they slowly move under my dress and up my thighs towards my panties, he slides them down as he leans in and kisses my neck from behind. The warmth as he takes my earlobe in his mouth and tugs at it “no orgasm until I say so” he whispers in my ear.

I feel his fingers touch my slit, making me moan out as his fingers start to assault my clit, he wasn’t going slow, this was about making a point, reclaiming me, not making love to me.

Moans escaping my lips as he slides two fingers inside me, my back arching at the pleasure, the warmth from his lips on my neck as he gently bites me.

I was watching him through the mirror, seeing him disappear from the mirror as he drops down to his knees. The warmth on my asscheeks as he places his hands on me and spreads me apart for him, my body flinched as I feel the warmth from his tongue along my slit, making me moan as he sucks my clit. I could feel my orgasm slowly building up in me, my moans getting louder and more frequent.

Suddenly I feel the cold as daddy had pulled away, looking up at him through the mirror as he stands up. Hearing the unbuckle of his belt, the zipper of his jeans, our eyes burning into each other as he drops his jeans and places his hands on my waist. His manhood nudging at my entrance as we stare into each other’s eyes

“Who do you belong to babydoll?” His voice was even more husky now, now that he was turned on.

“You, daddy” I moan out, my own voice husky. A groan leaving my lips as daddy plunged into my core at my words. My body aching as I feel myself stretching to accommodate him, the suddenness of him balls deep inside me sent a mixture of pain and pleasure through my entire body. Daddy only gives me a moment to adjust before he starts to thrust into me hard and fast, his thrusts had purpose. My hands firmly on the bench in front of me as daddy violent thrusts into me, making me moan louder and louder. My orgasm building up inside me as his balls slam into my clit with every thrust. The two of us looking into each other’s eyes through the mirror as I watch my daddy remind me who I belong to. I could feel my orgasm at the edge, my body squirming as I keep myself from spilling over, a smirk on daddy’s lips as he watched me squirm, he was enjoying this, his wolf was enjoying this.

He leans in to whisper in my ear “you may come babydoll” he says with that magic voice. And at those words I feel my orgasm ripple through my entire body, my walls clamping down on daddy’s cock as he throbs inside me. I cry out as I feel daddy’s teeth sink into my shoulder, hard, enough to leave a bite mark and break the skin, but not enough to make it bleed. I could feel his cock throb inside me as his own orgasm spilled out into me “mine” he growls in a possessive way.

My body feeling weak as my legs held me up, little kisses along my shoulder where I was reclaimed. Daddy stayed balls deep inside me for a moment before he slowly pulled out and spun me around to face him. He cups my face with his hands before he leans in and kisses me possessively, passionately. As he pulls away he watches me as he does up his jeans, grabbing some toilet paper he cleans me up slightly, tossing the cum covered toilet paper he fixes my dress and picks up my panties and shoved them into the pocket of his jeans “I want the rest of me dripping down your thighs” he says with a smirk before he grabs my hand and leads me out of the powder room and back towards the party.

Evidence of my claiming dripping down my thighs.....

[babydoll-dani]

Special Cuddles

“I haven’t seen you much today...... I know I’ve been busy but right now I need my Daddy”

It’s been a long day today, one where I haven’t had much contact with daddy and I need him. My body aches for his touch, my mind aches for his touch

My core is tingling from the thought of what I am going to do once I see daddy.

Once I see him, my panties will be on the floor...... wearing just my skirt as I climb on his lap nuzzling into his chest as I straddle his lap.

His hands making my skin hot as they are placed on my hips, feeling his hot breath against my neck before I feel his teeth against my skin

“Daddy I need special cuddles”

I feel his manhood jerk under me at my words, he knows exactly what this Princess needs and he needs it just as bad as me.

He moves one of his hands to his pants and undoes the zip, pulling them down enough to free his throbbing manhood.

I lift up slightly, feeling his manhood at my entrance, nudging before I slide down his length, both of us moaning together.

Both of us cuddling each other as he is buried balls deep inside me, the smallest movements making the both of us moan, our needs building as we have our special cuddles.

We both know what’s going to happen in a moment..........

[babydoll-dani]

Primal Hunt

I may be his submissive, but I love the power I have over him.

One simple lip bite sends his wolf crazy for me.

Lick my lips and I hear that wolf growl

Lick his lips and I feel him grow under me

Bite his lip and I’ve gone from having control to being his prey.

Running from him, making him chase me, watching his wolf grow inside him as I become the prey and he becomes the hunter.

But this prey better watch out, because as soon as the wolf gets his hands on me, he won’t stop until I’m a whimpering mess.....

[babydoll-dani]

My Alpha, His Luna

I feel extremely lucky to have found him in my life;

my Dom, my Alpha, my best friend, my lover, my whatever I need him to be.

We both feed off from each other, he becomes what I need and I become what he needs. No words needing to be spoken, almost like two magnets who shift together, the opposites of each other, but yet still being pulled together.

Having someone like that in your life is a feeling I can’t even describe, knowing you have someone there that can satisfy your needs, be it sexual, emotionally or physically. Knowing that your neediness is going to be filled doesn’t make you feel empty, even if he can’t be there right in the moment I need him, I know he will come to me the moment he can, wrapping his arms around me and giving me the comfort I need.

Come here my alpha, this babydoll needs more loving....

[babydoll-dani]

The One Month Curse

This has been something I have said a lot of times, every time things ended with a Dom I would put it down to the “One Month Curse”. I could never seem to make anything last longer than a month, things ended because I got bored and I would find a reason to end things, or things got too intense that I would self sabotage.

Then I met an amazing Dom, who actually understood me when I couldn’t. He challenged me mentally and emotionally, I thought sexual was what I wanted and while yes I do love that side as I am a very sexual person, that seemed to be the problem. I would get sexual with a Dom, not quickly but it was still there. They would push me sexually and I loved it at the time, but after a few weeks, that “one month mark”, I would be bored and things would go south and I’d find a reason to end it. But this Dom seemed to understand what the problem was, and I worked it out when he started giving me non sexual task. Some were sexual but not in a way of playing, more so researching different kinks, finding things at work that I could use sexually, these tasks making me use my imagination while still seeing the sexual side and having fun. My Dom is also big on self growth, having tentative tasks, one of them being researching or furthering a BDSM skill.

So while I’m getting fulfilled sexual, I am also being pushed emotionally and mentally and I’m watching myself grow which is the most amazing part.

[babydoll-dani]

Primal Cravings

The weirdest feeling for me is craving someone; I don’t need him, I want him, I crave him. I crave what he does to me, and how he makes me feel.

What I feel when around him is constant butterflies in my stomach, he says something and I feel a tingle through my body, starting at my stomach and rubbing through my entire body.

He knows exactly what effect he has on me, and I have the same effect on him.

Two primal’s craving each other, it’s intense and it’s overwhelming