This is just a sample of the stuff that shows up daily in my inbox… this doesn’t even include the dick pics!!! I’m definitley NOT alone.
GUYS… from a female perspective… JUST STOP!!! If you’ve NEVER had a conversation with a blogger you’re about to message… DON’T BEGIN LIKE THIS.
Women want a connection. I promise you… a random pic of your dick (*yawn*.. so unoriginal) or a crude message does NOT make you stand out from the crowd, or get you to the front of the line! But it WILL get you blocked and /or reported!
“But you look at porn all the time on here ”… “But you’re on your blog showing off your naked body.. you MUST want it”… “you made a suggestive comment to THAT guy.. I can do the same thing”…
If YOU have EVER said ANY of these things out loud or had those angel/devil thoughts… JUST STOP. Let me set the record straight on behalf of all us women who graciously allow you to see our pics. Showing ourselves on our blog does NOT give you permission to send us your crude /crass comments or force us to look at your dick in a message. 😡 In the real world, its called harassment. Would you say stuff like that in person to the cute girl in 7-11, whos wearing short shorts and a halter? No? Good. Dont do it here.
And as far as the banter you see in comments… many of us can interact with FRIENDS like that on here, because we’ve established a relationship. That’s where that CONNECTION comes in. Take the time to get to know the blogger… start off with a genuine comment or compliment if you feel you must send a message! “That color looks great on you!”… “You’re very pretty, thank you for sharing your pics with us”… “Hi there, new follower, I really enjoy your blog”… “I love that drink too, have you ever tried a ___?”
Guys… we are REAL women on here, with REAL lives, and REAL feelings. We may NOT respond to a message for awhile, or even at all. And that’s our choice. Real lives always come first. Just be respectful, be patient, and have some decency for God’s sakes!
There are some really great guys out there.. YOU may be one of them! 😊 If so… make it known that THIS type of behavior is NOT ok. A big shout-out to my friends @sirvadermaul @proph34 @carnal-erotic-desires @southerngent67 several others who are really cracking down on their OWN blogs, ensuring that others know that behavior like this is NOT OK! 🍒
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