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[thealfaguy]

[theotreptos]

To be a self-sustaining woman. To be a candid woman. To be an aware woman. To be a private woman. To be a woman for no one other than myself.

[ewusiwaa-a-deactivated20221230]

[baconstripsandbodybits]

Dazz my freeeeeen!!!

[ewusiwaa-a-deactivated20221230]

Had the best time and made the best friends 🇯🇲

[rock-my-boatey-deactivated20200]

Be kind to yourself while blooming. @bobbibrown #confidentbeauty #PrettyPowerful (at New York City) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwNIlzngBMx/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1xpnf7qxc0rom

[1moneychaserworld-deactivated20]

disconnecting from some people can change your life.

[sheabutterbitch]

Right now I feel like isolating, instead I will take this as an opportunity to care deeply for myself and enhance my focus on my own needs.

[jayywesst]

[urbanxdivinity]

i still can’t believe it dawg

R.I.P my nigga

[6lacksoul]

📸: phyneart

[earnable]

who ever marries my ass is going to live a very happy life

[lightheartedsuggestion]

It wasn’t meant to be. You’re not missing out. Your life has different plans for you.

[bakwaaas]

there is so much love in friendship, people forget that

[petalya]

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

[petalya]

With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?

ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”

vs.

“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.

[hauntified-deactivated20210730]

This FUCKED relationships up too because once this hit me, I realized people can just be in love with the way you make them feel instead of who you actually are. ALWAYS pay attention to the last little “vs” but there because it IS super telling

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“It’s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self love deficit.”

— Eartha Kitt

[lizclimo]

Are you the bird or the sloth? 

[baconstripsandbodybits]

Bird

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