batflowers for your bad mood

she/her | 18+ | ao3: green_writer | chaos blogging about wyler, boygenius and thasmin

[badmoodbatflowers]

Sweet like honey

chapter xv: he's gentle when he wants to be

Rating: explicit

Pairing: Wednesday/Tyler

Summary:

Despite being made to talk about her feelings, Wednesday is in no rush to cut her time with Tyler short.

[kosmogrl]

let’s all quit our jobs and just go on walks

[baseballmomlesbiandad]

make sure you use full and correct pronouns when apologizing to your best friend slash partner

[hrimceald]

minding my business in a building and then looked down to see?? this little mouse??

[babbyygirrrl]

Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr downplay your accomplishments. A job is a job. A car is a car. A house is a house. Dear self, Be proud of yourself and what you have achieved no matter what. You have to build brick by brick.

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[natalieironside]

Due to my weird childhood and my weird brain, I have this very unhelpful compulsion to conceal Everything I do from Everyone. I Cannot be observed performing any action, no matter how mundane. My nervous system is convinced I'm gonna, like, Get In Trouble for eating food at dinnertime or sleeping in my bed at bedtime.

I've taken to asking myself, "Okay does this task actually require subterfuge or am I stealing a balloon on Free Balloon Day"

[natalieironside]

I see from the notes that we're all havin a normal one 👍

[astriloquum]

[enchantedbook]

Art by Nikita Chan

[jan-draws]

She hates him

[1five1two]

[k-i-l-l-e-r-b-e-e-6-9]

[peri-hellion]

For those who are coming off the the Heated Rivalry high, may I suggest Season One of Deadloch? It's got everything: toxic masculinity in a sport that is thematically central and yet takes up almost zero minutes of screen time (austrialian football), a squadron of disaster gays figuring their shit out, trope inversion of a genre (a crime show in which all of the murder victims are straight white men), and, most importantly, a BANGER cover of t.A.T.u's "All the Things She Said."

[respectissexy]

Since I'm therapist-posting recently:

Legitimately self-compassion is the biggest mental health life hack of all time. I'm NOT talking about self-esteem. You do NOT have to like yourself one bit. You don't have to believe that you're a good person who deserves good things. You just have to believe that you're a person who deserves the things all people deserve.

You can't get from "I'm the Worst" to "I'm a worthy and lovable person" without passing through "I'm just a regular fuckup like everybody else."

Try it on. If you're really addicted to being mean to yourself, you can start by framing it as I'm Not Special. Embrace being a regular fuckup like everybody else.

[mythmagicetc]

godddd ilya pretending he’s gonna leave in the middle of their first hookup just to manufacture a situation where he gets to pin shane down with his body and promise not to leave him, man stop playing with your food he has anxiety

[bipolar4autistic]

Svetlana: bitch you’re really secretive about fucking someone named Jane in Montreal and you get really fucking weird when I mention Shane Hollander…… I’m not stupid.

Hayden: have fun with Boston Lily 😃

[ivytwines]

He’s gay. He’s autistic. His special interest is hockey. He’s waisan. He’s a bottom. He speaks French. He wears reading glasses. He doesn’t listen to music. He has an eating disorder. His favorite drink is ginger ale. He’s a sub. He has beautiful freckles. He’s canonically the hottest man in the NHL. He tried really hard and he’s really sorry but he just can’t help it. I love him so much it’s gonna make me puke