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I repost/post fandom shit. I'm a fluid shipper so please don't follow if you gonna be salty when I post other ships.

[justanoutlawfic]

Can we talk about the fact that Dina, rules following, not the best people person, Dina, did her best to help hide Mateo from ICE.

[kim-jisoo]

jane, rafael isn’t your destiny, neither was michael. no man is. you are your own destiny & i hope you realize that you don’t need a man, or anyone else to be happy. just you.

[vavaharrison]

How old is Jaime and Brienne supposed to be in season 8? There's obviously some sort of age difference, but how much?

Uh, i havent been following their show ages closely (since i stopped watching after s5), but i remember jaime was 40 in s4 (his age was mentioned a lot that season), so i suppose he’s now 44/45 yo. As for brienne, im thinking 30 something. As far as i know, we were never told her age exactly.

The age gap between book!jb is of 14/15 years, but i think in the show is a bit less, more like 10.

[bandwalrus]

[briennesjaime]

(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧

[ghostsandgoblins]

[anditendshowyoudexpect]

there, now i don’t have to ffw through the whole thing

[glorybeat]

You would fight beside him?

I would.

[namtan]

[itsmytumblrnotyours]

some of yall need to remember that rafael had been alone in the world for quite some time. i mean first his wife cheats on him with his best friend. then his dad died. the same dad who was guilty of smuggling and who rafael went to prison for. his mom left him when he was young for 10 grand. the same mom who turned out to be a drug lord. and all of that was made worse by the fact that they aren’t even his real parents. which in turn made rafael lose his inheritance and his identity even. his sister luisa practically disowned him and was more caught up with her lover who at one point kidnapped rafael’s son than her brother who was willing to lose his hotel for her. all of his romantic relationships didn’t go past surface level attraction aside from jane. for the first few years of mateo’s life, he watched another man raise his kid beside the love of his life. yall can say that all this happened years ago but this much trauma in one’s life is bound to leave some ugly scars. so like, cut the guy some slack. 

[timeywimeygalaxy]

Bran to daenerys: we don’t have time for these formalities!

*wheels away*

Jon: where are you going?

Bran: to scare the shit out of Jamie Lannister.

[grizztheexplorer]

Honestly i would be 2948384884 times less bitter about Brandon’s storyline if the brallie bait hadn’t happened in the fosters finale. Like If Brandon had married someone he didn’t doubt and really loved. But Brandon didn’t marry someone he loved because the writers wanted some bait material for viewers even though we all knew brallie weren’t gonna happen because consistency for their relationship was badly written since mid S3. So all we are left is with Brandon’s storyline having random “twists” and him being fucking sad (at least in the romantic department) ever since Grace died. Which by now is a LONG time ago.

So with this rant all i’m saying is that I want Brandon to get a divorce and find a new girl who he actually fucking loves and will stay hAPPY.

[bandwalrus]

I agree about the Brallie bait but about the last part, I think what the show was trying to show is that in many successful marriages, it’s not just rainbow and sunshine.

Yes, there might be doubt, there might be sadness and leftover scars from previous relationships but that doesn’t mean that the marriage is doomed. I think they really portrayed that really well in this episode.

The “drama” between B and E isn’t drama at all. It’s just marriage stuff. It’s not always perfect but it grows. I guess it also played a part in Dennis’ character development.

[daisies-with-bruises-deactivate]

Challenging Negative Thoughts:

Negative thought:

I can’t stand it

Challenge:

I can stand it. It’s difficult, but I can put up with it. It is good for me.

Negative thought:

I am just not good enough.

Challenge:

I am not perfect. Like everyone, I am good at some things, and not as good at others.

Negative thought:

What is the point in trying?

Challenge:

If I don’t try, I won’t know. Trying in itself will broaden my experience and my skill. No one is expecting me to do something perfectly.

Negative thought:

What if I make a mistake? It would be awful.

Challenge:

Everyone makes mistakes. It is good to make mistakes because that is the best way to learn.

Negative thought:

I have nothing to say. I am boring.

Challenge:

I have opinions, thoughts, and feelings. Think of things you enjoy; an example would be reading, writing, and going out. Perhaps I need to improve my ability to express myself. I can practice.

Negative thought:

If people really knew me, they wouldn’t like me.

Challenge:

There are things about me that are likeable and unlikeable—Just like everyone else.

Negative thought:

Everyone else has a better time than I do—They’re all happy.

Challenge:

I do not know this for a fact. Just because they seem happier than I am, does not mean they are more satisfied.

Negative thought:

It would be best if I stayed away from people because I am not good at relationships.

Challenge:

If I stay away, I do not give myself a chance. I will be alright if I can just relax myself.

Negative thought:

I might break down emotionally in front of people and look ridiculous.

Challenge:

I have a good reason to be upset. People are a lot more understanding than I think. It would not be the end of the world; what’s wrong with showing emotion?

Negative thought:

I’m hopeless at everything. I will never sort myself out like this.

Challenge:

Just take one step at a time. Totally condemning myself is nonsense. I have overcome more difficult problems than this.

[bandwalrus]

Eddy! My new amigo. Welcome to my Tumblr, Ed. Love this picture of us btw. Really hope the private posting is turned on here haha. 

[bandwalrus]

I will be taking a break from socials, maybe even the world, during this time of mourning. Please understand and leave my friends and I alone. Know that I never meant for any of it to happen. 

[bandwalrus]

I rarely post but when you see something beautiful on the other side of the world, you have to share it. 

[caesoxfan04-blog]

Anderson Cooper saving a boy in Haiti during a shooting. A slab of concrete was dropped of the boys head.

[the-awful-rowing]

Anderson fucking Cooper, everyone. 

Some journalists like to be strictly observers. they don’t intervene, they don’t participate. they just document what they see, even if what they see is terrible. But the way I see it, journalists don’t exist in a vacuum. They are human beings, living and working in a very human environment. And that humanity is essential in relating to their stories. When you lose your humanity, you lose any kind of journalistic integrity you have left. 

[localufologist]

#nevernotreblog

[gin-and-eschatonic]

this is the guy who found out one of his ancestors was killed by one of his slaves and was like “he had it coming”

[bandwalrus]

My Confession

I have a fake front. I’m an attention seeker. I am prideful and I am not the person I wish to paint myself to be. 

I always thought of myself as someone who fit in many communities. I always thought of my friends to be people I share my life with and people whom I can always count on.

Now, when it matters, I have never felt lonelier. 

I can’t talk to them about my problems because these problems show them who I really am. A fraud. A fake “good” person who has my shit together. I can’t talk to any human being in the world because of a lie I have been keeping up and a lie I’m not ready to drop. 

To these friends, I am already “this” person. To tell them “Hey, you think you actually know who I am but I’ve been lying to you all these while.”, I’m afraid that I’d lose them. I’m afraid that they would tell me things I need to hear but am not ready to. Or they would tell me things in a way that isn’t gentle. 

They tell me time and time again that they love me. But they only love the me that’s fun and spontaneous and a drama queen, who from time to time break down but never actually telling them why.