bárbara’s footstool

i just.. want bárbara lópez to bridal style carry me into the sunset while giving me a kiss on my forehead as we leave all our worries behind

[pocketgalaxies]

I'M THE D R A M A.

[pocketgalaxies]

what's your lockscreen, last song you listened to, last picture taken and last movie you watched?

tagged by @sharkodactyl and @unicyclehippo!!

lockscreen wallpaper is by kazami; ado is very good end of sentence!; went to a super cute flower shop cafe for the first time yesterday and took a lil photo to show my sister; watched bound with @barbarasfootstool to catch up on my lesbian required reading

we should all know by now that i never have enough friends to tag people who weren't already tagged but i will try to branch out and also i'm not gonna bother checking if you've been tagged already! @c-estmabiologie, @caeslxys, @lightningtitties, @relaxnotshaveeyebrows

[barbarasfootstool]

cassinova lives

[barbarasfootstool]

happy pride! GAY!

[pocketgalaxies]

I'm gonna miss our little cottage, though. (insp. by @lightningtitties)

[barbarasfootstool]

gay

[pocketgalaxies]

Distracted by that.

[pocketgalaxies]

What were you doing for the previous 28 years? (C3E6 || C3E39) (requested by anonymous)

[barbarasfootstool]

anyone looking for a sugar baby?

[pocketgalaxies]

url change

valevxlentina –– pocketgalaxies

[barbarasfootstool]

anyone want a funeral flier?

[barbarasfootstool]

Is it just me or does maca seem neurodivergent like homie has ADHD or something

she and i actually met in a group psychiatry session where we were both diagnosed with ADHD at the same time and then prescribed the same medication that we sometimes take together and chase it with water korean love shot style

[pocketgalaxies]

what does queerplatonic mean? like being gay friends?

queerplatonic is a term used in the ace/aro community to describe a relationship between two people that is not romantic and/or sexual, but considered equally as significant and intimate. my understanding is that it's essentially the answer to the question of "what does it mean to be dating somebody if you are aromantic and/or asexual?" because you can still have that stronger-than-platonic commitment to a person, even if the romantic or sexual connotations associated with "dating" do not apply

on that note (and i'm sorry anon you didn't ask for discourse but) i just want to say that queerplatonic relationships are, by definition, distinct from friendship. i know there is a lot of homophobia and historical baggage associated with claiming that two women are not dating they are just REALLY GOOD FRIENDS and i am definitely not arguing with that. however being someone's bestie is NOT the same as being in a queerplatonic relationship. the global claim that a queerplatonic relationship is inherently just some diluted or more palatable version of a romantic relationship that people prefer because they're too homophobic to view it romantically is unfair to those who value their queerplatonic relationships just as much as others value their romantic relationships

the fact that queerplatonic relationships are frequently only discussed and considered for wlw relationships is a different and i think very valid conversation to have, but i just want to make it clear that there is a very important difference between queer people on the ace/aro spectrum wanting to see a QPR and homophobic people wanting to de-value a sapphic romantic relationship.

[pocketgalaxies]

Nova as you are an icon of the Juliantina Times I am……. 👏🏻devastated👏🏻 at the news of you changing your url. however as someone who loves your blog (and wants you to love your blog. The worst thing would be this becoming a chore) and is eternally enjoying and thankful for all the cool stuff you post, hell yeah do what you want! I’m glad you’re getting something to represent your interests now!

Do you have any ideas yet or is it more an abstract want right now?

ahhh anon this is super nice thank you!! don't worry i will never forget juliantina it was a huge Huge part of my life

i don't have any ideas yet it just feels like it's Time lol so honestly it'll prob take me a while to actually change it, i have no clue

[barbarasfootstool]

i’m sending open invitations to the funeral of the url valevxlentina for anyone that wants one

[barbarasfootstool]

your URL is so relevant right now

you know that line in avengers where tony stark goes “i am… iron man”

I AM…… BARBARA’S FOOTSTOOL

[beneaththethunders]

"We have all night"

Señorita 89 - 1x05

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DOLORES ACEVEDO & CONCEPCIÓN LÓPEZ-MORTON | Señorita 89 – 1.06 “Concepción”

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Señorita 89 | 1.06 - Concepción