Favourite Level Up Mentors - Relationships
The level up community has gone mainstream in the past few years and let’s be honest…we see women living the good life and the rest of us want it to.
There are countless videos and blog posts about leveling up, hypergamy, and similar topics. On your journey, remember to take only what resonates with you and leave what doesn't. Never become a clone or a copy.
If all else fails, stay within your social-economic class. NEVER date down socially & economically.
The Basics
With all the different creators out there and with different perspectives on the level up/hypergamy game here are the non negotiable facts that we all agree on.
1. Coffee dates are unacceptable.
2. Confidence is key!
3. If in doubt, you can probably stand to lose a few pounds.
4. The inner work (improving your self-esteem, educate yourself, healing your relationship with money, & dealing with your trauma) is more important than the external luxuries.
5. Always be prepared to move on from a man.
6. A generous man is better than a high earning man.
7. Never stop evolving.
8. You’re guaranteed to lose friends, family and people will hate you for what you represent.
9. Your looks matter and will help you to get a man attention but won’t keep it. You have to be a game changing woman.
10. There is no arguing with a man. ESPECIALLY a man that is not yours to begin with.
Top Mentors
Here’s a list of my favourite content creators who have helped me along the way and inspire me to keep going.
SheraSeven (beginner)
- Shera is a level up godmother. Back in 2018, she was the first person who told me I was worth more and deserved better. She is raw, ruthless and comical. The only thing is she’s very sarcastic so you have to read between the lines. I will always enjoy her content but it’s very basic level and has not genuinely evolved.
Nicole Michelle (all levels)
- Nicole is that aunt you always needed in your life. She is engaging and funny in her content which comes off as very authentic. She may tell you a joke, but she will NEVER tell you a lie.
- She focuses on long term traditional holistic marriages.
- She’s open about all her shortcomings and is very understanding to individual circumstances but she is honest at the same time.
- She is from the south of USA and is highly religious, so those two facts highlight her perspective of marriage and hypergamy.
CodeNameChanel
- Chanel is kind and beautiful. Of all the girlies on this list she’s the youngest. This makes her fun & relatable.
- I think she’s best for the young IG baddies type. Her group is great if you want to make levelled up female friends to help with your journey.
BurkinCoCo
- Coco is literally THAT GIRL. She is exactly what she says she is and doesn’t care what you or anyone has to say about her. The level of IDGFA is off the charts so she will always have my respect for that.
- Her private content is very affordable!!! This is very important because in my humble opinion, if you’re charging a high amount for your content you probably don’t have what they’re claiming (a man providing for them at a high level). On the other side it could be that they are trying to keep out people who are not serious about growing.
- I appreciate the she is upfront about being an escort. Many MANY of the level up girls are escorts and lie about it.
Chloe_ (HypergamousHive on IG)
- To me, Chloe_ is the best all around coach/mentor. She’s not cheap but the VALUE you get from her content is unmatched. If you are an absolute beginner I wouldn’t recommend her until you have the basic down.
- Her content is ever evolving and always chic.
- Her content addresses DIRECT questions and never beats around the bush.
- Her content is the most advanced, she doesn’t just talk about it she is about it. For example, instead of just telling her patrons to read more or go to art galleries, she will talk about specific things going on in the world by sharing articles or posts about the museum exhibition that she just went to and invite discussion about that topic. So she is literally guiding you along the way to making your life elite instead of just telling you what to do.
Ms Sophia (Wealthy Wife)
- I am not 100% sure how I feel about Ms Sofia but she is interesting.
- What sets her apart is that she is everything they say you shouldn’t be but still claims to get her needs met by many men.
- Another unique feature is that she talks a lot about mistresses & courtesans.
Anna Bey (beginner)
- I think Anna Bey is the one who made the level up game mainstream. I bought her course in the early days and I felt it was worth every penny.
- She gets ALOT of hate (I’m not sure who she pissed off) but I love that she keeps going regardless. She has evolved over time which has been interesting to see.
Closing notes
With anything, take the meat and leave the bones. Apply what works for you and leave the rest. Start with their free content & see how it makes you feel.
Further Readings & Honourable Mentions:
- Therealmilanj : https://www.milanfromthego.com/members-only
- Simply Sheneka: https://www.instagram.com/simplysheneka?igsh=MWd5YXZjdGZwOWp3Mg==
- https://elletheroyal.tumblr.com/
- https://nypost.com/2013/09/23/meet-the-new-trophy-wives/
- Escort Guide: https://knowingless.com/2021/10/19/becoming-a-whorelord-the-overly-analytical-guide-to-escorting/amp/
**these women range from “claimed house wives, trophy wives, escorts, spoiled girlfriends. Regardless, they all have an online presence and sell online courses or memberships which adds to their incomes.
