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Relationship Truths We Often Forget
It’s easy to make your relationships more complicated than they are. Here are twelve simple reminders to help you keep them on course.
1. All successful relationships require some work. – They don’t just happen, or maintain themselves. They exist and thrive when the parties involved take the risk of sharing what it is that’s going on in their minds and hearts. Open communication and honesty is the key.
2. Most of the time you get what you put in. – If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you’d like to feel understood, try being more understanding. It’s a simple practice that works.
3. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot in someone’s life. – Never force someone to make a space in their life for you. If they know your worth, they will create time and space for you.
4. There is a purpose for everyone you meet. – Some will test you; some will teach you; some will threaten you; some will use you. Others will heal you, and help you see your strengths, and help you to discover your authentic self.
5. We all change, and that’s okay. – Our needs change with time. When someone says, “You’ve changed,” it’s not always a bad thing. Sometimes it just means you stopped living your life their way. Don’t apologize for it. Instead, be open and sincere, explain how you feel, and keep doing what you know in your heart is right.
6. Forgiving others helps YOU. – Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life.
7. You can’t change people; they can only change themselves. – Instead of trying to change others, give them your support and lead by example. If there’s a specific behavior someone you love has that you’re hoping disappears over time, it probably won’t. If you really need them to change something, be honest and put all the cards on the table so this person knows what you need them to do.
8. Heated arguments are a waste of time. – The less time you spend arguing with the people who hurt you, the more time you’ll have to love the people who love you. And if you happen to find yourself arguing with someone you love, don’t let your anger get the best of you. Give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss the situation.
9. You are better off without some people. – When you have to start compromising yourself and your morals for the people around you, it’s probably time to change the people around you. If someone continuously mistreats you or pushes you in the wrong direction, have enough respect for yourself to walk away from them. It may hurt for a little while, but it’ll be ok. You’ll be ok, and far better off in the long run.
10. Small gestures of kindness go a long way. – Honor your important relationships in some way every chance you get.
Source: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/02/08/12-relationship-truths-we-often-forget/
31 Journal Prompts for December 2019, Reflect on The Decade
1. Who were you 10 years ago vs. who are you now? How have you changed and grown?
2. What are some of your accomplishments or achievements of these past 10 years? What are you proud of and what are some things you wished you did more with?
3. Going deeper into the last prompt, what is your proudest achievement? Why are you proud of it and how did you accomplish it? Was it one of your goals or did it happen naturally?
4. Did you have any goals this past decade, what were they? Did you accomplish all of them? If not, are they goals you plan on taking into the next decade, or are you leaving them in the past?
5. Make a ‘before 2020 bucket list.’ Write down all the things you want to do before the year ends and use the rest of this month to accomplish them. Tie up loose ends and get ready to start fresh into the new year.
6. We’ve all had New Years Resolutions that end up falling apart by February. Don’t let that happen to you. Pick one main goal you have for the 2020 or the entire decade and plan it out with detail. The Smart Goal method is a good tool to use. Don’t let your dreams of getting fit to get squashed by vague words and little motivation.
7. We’ve looked 10 years in the past, now let’s look 10 years in the future. Where do you want to be by 2030? Who do you want to be by 2030?
8. We all make mistakes. What are some things you’ve done in the last 10 years that you regret? Write it out, and make peace with yourself. Forgiving yourself will allow you to move on so you can start the new year fresh
9. What are you looking forward to in the new year? Going on any trips or maybe starting a new phase of your life like college or marriage?
10. Write out some affirmations for the next decade, positive thoughts have positive actions.
11. Is there something missing from your life? Take the time to figure out what it is and how you can obtain what you need. Is it a skill? An adventure?
12. What are some habits you want to incorporate into the new year, or the new decade? Remember not to overdo it, you don’t want to create so many that you won’t be able to keep up with them.
13. Not every day is going to be perfect. Create a list of things to do on a bad day to make you feel better, or create a self-care routine. Self-love is the best love.
14. Many people see success as fame and fortune, but really, success is deeper than that. What is success to you and how do you measure it.
15. What/who is someone or something that you want to bring into the new year and what/who is someone or something you want to leave behind. A bad habit, a toxic friend? It’s not a bad thing to leave the negative things in your life behind to make room for the positive.
16. Write a letter to yourself 10 years ago. What advice would you give yourself and what would you warn them? What is something you would have needed to hear?
17. Now, write a letter to your future self for 2030. Write about anything and everything. When you’re done make sure to keep it in a safe space and write the date. It will be a very cool experience to receive and read a letter from your past self
18. If you could relive any day from the past decade, what day would it be and talk about it.
19. How do you manage stress? Do you manage it in a healthy way or not. If not, try to explore better ways to handle stress in the future.
20. What is important to you?
21. Happy Yule! Describe the perfect winter day.
22. Write a love letter to yourself. It may sound weird, but take time to appreciate yourself and motivate yourself. Write down what you need to hear right now and write down some positive things about you.
23. What is the one thing you want the most for the next year?
24. What was your mindset this past year? Was it positive? Negative? What did you focus on the most and what do you want your mindset to be like for the next year?
25. Merry Christmas. Write down everything you are grateful for. Practicing gratitude can be a good jumpstart for practicing having a good mindset.
26. We are close to the end. How has doing these journal prompts helped you? Have you enjoyed doing them? Are you going to continue journaling in the future, it’s okay if you decide not to, but it can be beneficial for many people.
27. Write down three words to describe the past decade. Then, write three words to manifest into the new decade.
28. What is your dream job and how can you start your path to get there now. If you already have your dream job, write about why is it your dream job. How does doing what you do make you feel?
29. What matters most in your life
30. What are you going to do to make this next decade the best decade of your life?
31. We have made it to the end. Spend some time to sit down and just write about whatever. Start off right this new year. Motivate and inspire yourself but also be kind. Being harsh doesn’t make you want to complete your goals.
Well, we are at the end of the year and of the decade. Much has changed in these last 10 years, and I hope that with these journal prompts you can reflect on these changes and set yourself up right to make positive decisions and changes for your future. I hope you enjoyed these prompts and I also hope you have the best year ever. Be kind to yourself and those around you. And if you have a bad day, don’t beat yourself up over it. Take the time to slow down and care for yourself, and pick yourself back up when you are well. Love you all, happy 2020.
Simple ways to enjoy New Year's eve without having to party
Write a letter to your current year to bid it goodbye. Saying everything that was messed up about it and thanking it for all the things it got right.
Reviewing your last decade by taking a few moments to think about each year. You could write a few lines, dedicate a word or illustrate something for each year. It doesn’t have to capture every single thing that you remember about that year but merely its essence.
Go to all your favourite restaurants in the evening before it starts to get crowded and get take out of your favourite dishes and then head home to enjoy your feast.
Call up all your loved ones and wish them all the joy and peace and love for the coming year + decade. You could also take some time to write a tiny personalised message for each person and accompany it with a gorgeous/goofy selfie.
Bake yourself a cake while drinking your favourite beverage (wine, coke, juice, coffee).
Write a letter to your new year, not to burden it with your expectations but to welcome it and to say, ‘I hope we get along well xx’
Follow a fun new year tradition from a country around the world. Like eating 12 grapes, one representing each month of the new year, while making a wish, at the new year countdown or making a list of all the good and bad things that happened to you in the year and throwing it into a fire.
Start a book, so when the new year rings in, you’re halfway done with your first book of 2020.
Have a delicious home-cooked dinner at your home with people you genuinely have a good, peaceful and happy time with. Sure, it could be family or friends but it could also be your neighbour or your co-worker (some of them are sweethearts!).
Honestly, no matter how your NYE or 1st Jan goes, please remember that it’s not a reflection of how the rest of the year will be. I mean, of course, it’s amazing if you have a great one but even if you don’t, just remember that it in no way dictates the way your rest of the year will pan out. Only your daily choices will and in that you must have faith in yourself because it’s 2020 and if you won’t take control of your life right now, honestly, when will you? Glitter confetti, chocolate brownies and warm kisses xoxo
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Tips for Coping with Depression
Depression can often be difficult to fight as it usually drains you of your energy. And though you can’t overcome it by willpower alone, you still have some control, no matter how you feel. The suggestions below can help you with this.
1. Keep doing the activities you previously enjoyed (even if you don’t enjoy them as much when you’re depressed).
2. Try to build some exercise into your day as it releases endorphins – the body’s feel good hormones.
3. Know what your triggers and your risk factors are. For example, loneliness, stress, disappointment and pain are common triggers and risk factors for depression.
4. Stay in touch with your friends. Often those who are depressed start to isolate themselves – but that leads to loneliness - which can make depression worse.
5. Try to maintain some kind of routine, especially when it comes to getting up, and going to bed. Taking naps in the daytime can cause insomnia and leave you feeling drained, so you have no energy.
6. Try to get a handle on how much you ruminate. Take note of your thought patterns; don’t dwell on negatives. Instead, challenge faulty thinking so it’s much less pessimistic … and try to be thankful … and to look for positives.
7. Make sure you do things that make you feel more relaxed. Often people who’re depressed feel uptight and agitated. So it’s important that you find things that can help you to relax.
8. Resist the temptation to self-medicate (especially through alcohol or substance abuse.) That will lead to greater problem, and will make you feel much worse.
9. Seek out support. Talk to a good friend, or someone that you trust. You’ll usually find there’s someone who genuinely cares.
10. Talk to your doctor. It may be medication is the answer for you so don’t be afraid to try to get professional help.
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Cute Ceramic Sculptures by Gail
Gail from Gail C. Ceramics is a ceramic artist based in Brisbane Australia crafts endearing little pieces that will surely touch your heart and force a smile on your face.
And that was exactly what she aimed for when she started creating her fragile yet stunning ceramic creations. It was only a couple of years ago that Gail started her artistic journey where a lovely lady from her pottery shop had decided to post a photograph of Gail’s work on her own Instagram. That small tug of encouragement gave the artist the courage to start her own little shop where she now sells her handcrafted labor of love.
As we can clearly tell from Gail’s works, she loves animals, mostly cats, dogs, bears, bunnies, whales and horses, thus picking them out as her subject matter over and over again. Her product range is quite broad in fact; the ceramic artist makes small pots for keeping potted plants indoor to adorable stud earrings, from cute bowls to flower holders and her customers are very pleased with her brilliant efforts. Find her work in her Etsy shop.
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How to Move Ahead and Make the Most of your Life
1. Pay attention to what bugs you – it could be telling you something important about yourself.
2. Don’t just live with blah or negative feelings. Decide that you will fight to have a happier life.
3. Don’t change or stifle your personality. You’re valuable and special – so be true to who you are.
4. Pay attention to your physical symptoms. They may be highlighting unresolved frustrations, pain that needs addressing, or deep unhappiness.
5. Notice where your mind goes when it starts to wander. This often gives you insights into wishes, hopes and dreams.
6. Be willing to acknowledge and face your fears as they’re stopping you from going for the life you want to have.
7. Instead of feeling jealous or envious of others ask yourself what is missing from your own life right now.
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