Anatomy of a spanking with a lesson
Start by summoning her in front of you. Have her standing with her hands behind her, or kneeling. Ensure that her physical position reflects her chaste and contrite state of being
Ask her why she is receiving a punishment or scolding. Let her explain in her own words, or fail to do so adequately. In a firm voice, tell her what you feel she did wrong or not well enough
Establish how she will be punished. Settle the count, the instrument (hand, paddle, cane, belt). Instruct her what will be expected after - lines, or corner time
Partially undress her, or have her undress herself right in front of you. Her legs may be bared, top unbuttoned, dress hiked up. Leave her panties on, for now
Pull her firmly on your lap, her bottom ready under your arm. Hold her head down in submission, keep her feet locked in your own
Strike firmly, repeatedly. Keep a steady rhythm, building up if necessary. Generally a good idea to start with the hands, and then move on to other implements
If using a paddle or cane or belt, reposition her to be on all fours, or with her hands on a table or couch with her legs straight, on her toes, her ass presented for the punishment
She will redden pretty soon, and probably soon break down in tears and sobs and begging for mercy. Do not slow down. Keep to the original count, and the punishment that was stated to her. Let her suffer and regret
Midway or so, have her completely or almost completely undressed. Remove her panties. Keep something very minimal on her body to give her the illusion of being covered, to be quickly humilated again that she is helplessly exposed - like socks, or a bra that is pulled down to expose her breasts
She will most likely get very wet, use your hands to feel it, tell her that despite her tears and begging she is getting completely arousned from being put in her place because that is exactly where she belongs as a female and its a sign of her body accepting her submission and your ownership
When the spanking is finished, have her in the promised after punishment setting. Usually in a corner, still almost undressed. Have her hold her ears, or kneel on a rough surface, or keep her nose to the wall (with a coin, perhaps).
After she has stayed in this position for the instructed amount of time (usually between 15 -40 minutes), have her crawl back to you, while keeping her eyes down.
Pull her to your lap. She will most likely be crying and feeling deeply guilty. Ask her to repeat what she learned. If it is saturfactory, verbalize that she is forgiven. Spend time holding her close, kissing her, playing with her hair, her body, her breasts, her ass, and her wet slit
To re-establish your closeness, claim her body soon after. Be slow but deliberate so she feels the sting from her punishment. Fill her pussy to be moderate on her, take her anally to drive the lesson in one last time. Make sure to cum inside her
Repeat at least weekly to remind her of her place, her role, her natural purpose, and her need for discipline and rules